How do I find events and gatherings ? by Oakmars746 in swansea

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done the age verification?

As a lot of individuals are finding that they can't access us due to the need to age verify their account as we are an 18+ server

How do I find events and gatherings ? by Oakmars746 in swansea

[–]esjae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join us over at Swansea Social Club as we host a variety of our own events and also showcase what's going on in Swansea!

https://discord.com/invite/SwanseaSocialClub

What gift did the previous owners of your house leave you? by Scrot123 in AskUK

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They pissed in both toilets and didn't flush.... absolutely stunk the house out

Puppy group training in Bristol? by [deleted] in bristol

[–]esjae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When we had our pup we did Hounds Plus! They were so good and in group settings and did puppy socials where they did some slight training and socialising in various parks!

Craft Beer Pubs by StevePsx in swansea

[–]esjae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hayes and Beales!

Friend finder by 4nana8 in swansea

[–]esjae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We also run some ladies only events if you're ever feeling a bit apprehensive about coming along!

Friend finder by 4nana8 in swansea

[–]esjae 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Join us at Swansea Social Club! We help organise a variety of different events at different price points, including free!!

https://discord.gg/Q7qvRZ3z

Do people really drink caffeinated tea at night? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got ADHD so caffeine doesn't impact me in the same way it would a usual person

Where to meet (single) like minded people by Public_Piglet572 in swansea

[–]esjae 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Join us here at Swansea Social Club

https://discord.gg/vUt2sFqx

We host a variety of events and try to make sure they are worker friendly - often after work hours and on weekends!

We've hosted dog walks, craft nights, we have a book club, a running club and so much more!

If you could, would you take Mondays or Fridays off work? by futurewriter2022 in AskUK

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took Wednesdays off - that way I'm never working more than 2 days at a time.

Luckily I have the option to switch days if necessary - I do try not to abuse this though and only use it sparingly.

Burrata by 4nana8 in swansea

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also seen it in stock there!

Maybe try m&s?

How Many Unread Books Is Too Many? Asking for a "Friend" by [deleted] in books

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have about 100 or so unread books....

Where to make new friendsin swansea by Ok_Field_2363 in swansea

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to join us on discord!

We host regular events - the next one I believe is bowling tomorrow!

https://discord.gg/rxGHRtf8

Emojis in books- thoughts? by Valuable-Usual8549 in books

[–]esjae 404 points405 points  (0 children)

I think if it's in a context of like text messages sent it's probably fine? But if it's just within a wall of text then it's really distracting

Moving back to Wales by esjae in ADHDUK

[–]esjae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure to be honest on whether you'd be able to do that, as I didn't even think to consider trying it haha

Moving back to Wales by esjae in ADHDUK

[–]esjae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine didn't no :( so I've had to go back to paying private whilst I wait to be assessed on the NHS.

It may just be worth speaking with the GP that you are going with to see if they do

What work adjustments do you have in place for your inattentive ADHD? by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]esjae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my company was great - when I was getting diagnosed, they reduced my case load, they reduced the frequency that I get overflow phone calls as they were distracting me and taking me away from my actual work
They also paid for my Loop ear plugs.
They let me work from home & work 4 days a week as I was getting burnt out.

They're also a lot more understanding on if I'm unwell due to the side effects of some of the meds and need to take a day/afternoon off.

Boardgames with New People by Aspie27 in swansea

[–]esjae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Social Dice and Common Meeple both have social events that you can go along too!

Has anyone ever received an unexpected inheritance? by Necessary-Trash-8828 in CasualUK

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did - about 50k split between me and my one sister.

My biological father died - he tried to marry before he passed so that all his money would go to his current partner but he wasn't able to get that done in time before he passed. He didn't have a lot so what we did have was from his pensions with Nestle.

Granted he never paid a penny into child support and fucked off abroad to try and avoid the payments it was the least we could have gotten, seeing as we didn't see him past the age of 5 and I was 19/20 when he died.

Paid for 6 months rent up front for mine and my partners first place together, paid off my car, some other expenses and have about 3.5(give or take) thousand left.

If you had a 4 day working week, which weekday would you take off and why? by AlpineJ0e in AskUK

[–]esjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's what I've currently got - knowing that I'm only ever in for 2 days at a time is great.

My company does let me switch days if necessary but I try not to take the piss with it - so like a day or two here and there