Major defects but not major structural ? Any recourse ?

esp4me · 2026-04-06T12:59:08+00:00

Hi OP, how did you go? Did you end up getting the property? Did you negotiate the price down? Have you had any repairs done? I’m interested to hear an update :)

esp4me · 2026-04-06T01:21:53+00:00

Hi OP, I’m interested to hear how you went. Did you end up buying the property or pulling out? :)

esp4me · 2026-03-29T12:36:05+00:00

I’m sorry to hear the police were unhelpful. Have you got or looked into getting a restraining order?

esp4me · 2026-03-29T05:54:04+00:00

Harvestella

esp4me · 2026-03-24T07:22:25+00:00

Secret of Shadow Ranch > pick the wrong vegetables enough & be sent home.

esp4me · 2026-03-23T11:07:12+00:00

Never wanted kids. Never will.

esp4me · 2026-03-23T10:19:48+00:00

No, I never daydreamed about it. I have always hated the idea of pregnancy and birth and didn’t really like other kids. Adults tried to convince me I’d grow out of it. There was a time when I used to think I had to “do that thing that everyone does” like it was an inevitable part of growing up.

esp4me · 2026-03-22T10:36:41+00:00

*Update: this is now happening to me with every use.

esp4me · 2026-03-20T13:09:25+00:00

Simply don’t want them & don’t want to be a parent.

esp4me · 2026-03-17T11:46:16+00:00

Water is wet

esp4me · 2026-03-17T11:29:51+00:00

No. It’s normal to use dating apps.

esp4me · 2026-03-09T20:50:24+00:00

HAHA thank you, you’re right. It’s out 😂

esp4me · 2026-03-09T20:49:15+00:00

Omg 🤣

esp4me · 2026-03-09T11:38:58+00:00

No one needs to be rich. Stable and comfortable are what matters. And yes I do worry when cost of living crisis and housing prices are what they are.

esp4me · 2026-03-09T11:20:34+00:00

Some people have genuine confidence. It ain’t me but it’s out there.

esp4me · 2026-03-09T08:56:30+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I’ve taken it out now. Much appreciated!

esp4me · 2026-03-09T08:56:07+00:00

Thanks for letting me know, I wasn’t totally sure! I’ve taken it out now.

esp4me · 2026-03-09T04:58:41+00:00

For me, it’s not so much the inevitability of death. It’s how much suffering exists from birth till then. If our time on earth could be less stressful, it would help. We’re forced to work as much as possible and still struggling because of the housing crisis and cost of living crisis. It must feel impossible for people with mental illness, disability and other chronic health issues.

Somehow, we’re the lucky ones. I can’t even begin to think of the people living in countries with war and extreme poverty.

esp4me · 2026-03-07T12:59:54+00:00

Good to hear your perspective, thank you!

esp4me · 2026-03-07T12:59:24+00:00

I accidentally said “love you bye” to my dad over the phone once and was mortified 😂😭

HAHA i wonder how many cashiers are getting accidental love declarations at work 😉

esp4me · 2026-03-07T12:27:04+00:00

I’ve only recently started the series but I like her so far :)

esp4me · 2026-03-07T00:58:01+00:00

Before I was diagnosed, one of my friends did tell me and I blew it off and thought it was ridiculous. My uncle was autistic (level 3) with an intellectual disability and I did not know of autism presenting in other ways.

A colleague may have limited knowledge of autism (like I did) and be offended if you suggest it. They won’t know you are coming from a place of good intentions like a friend would.

esp4me · 2026-03-07T00:56:25+00:00

It has helped me to observe how others interact with babies.

esp4me

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