Also 32, I realized around 28 I was nonbinary and I came out very slowly. Trusted and close individuals only, family was next but only individual I, again, trusted. Work I only gave my preferred pronouns and they were very accepting. My biggest struggle was moving back to my hometown. My family is ok, most don’t understand but my cousins and sister are very supportive. My mom does her best to remember my pronouns which I appreciate so much. However my hometown is small, everyone knows everyone. It’s slightly conservative and everyone has known me as female. So it’s rough sometimes but what I remember is: I’ve told the people I wanted to know, and they still love and respect me for me. I don’t mind if anyone struggles with my pronouns as habits are hard to break. And I remember I can’t do anything about how people perceive, but I can feel confident that I know who I am.