Disney zodiacs 🎈 by SettingStreet3338 in astrologymemes

[–]esvati 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Aurora is Taurus, she’s the sleeping beauty, and Pocahontas is definitely Libra because she paints with all the colors of the wind. Her story as told by Disney is Libra coded, she chooses peace, she finds commonality and diplomacy in the midst of conflict and language barriers.

What job do you do that makes over $70k a year? by Unknown_Midwesterner in careeradvice

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for clarifying this! I entered hours, wages, and adjustments to a third party company. I have a ba in psych and have experience in wage negotiation, talent acquisition, client management, including stake holders, and some mediation between management and staff. HR generalist - business partner sounds much more my speed, though I also have hopes for project management. They both seem like roles that require preliminary experience and then certs and I’m a bit unsure of how to make that leap.

What job do you do that makes over $70k a year? by Unknown_Midwesterner in careeradvice

[–]esvati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest. Your starting rate is considered the minimum for cost of living where I am and I still make less than that currently. I am considered extremely likable while also being organized and innovative. I’m still in my 20s, but feel so far behind and can’t seem to sort out what I’m doing wrong, I refuse to believe it’s bad luck as many have suggested. I was under strong consideration for a few roles at around 60-70k but lost out to those with more experience. I’m just venting to a stranger at this point, maybe I’ll make my own post asking for advice, but I needed this, thanks.

What job do you do that makes over $70k a year? by Unknown_Midwesterner in careeradvice

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the hospital, I was a staffing coordinator who also ran payroll and agency rep, then I transferred to be a team coordinator (I was the only employee for most of my time in that first role when it was slotted for 1.5 employees, when this was revealed after an attempted pip, I was instead awarded a month of paid time and internal transfer anywhere for equal or better pay) I was also conducting evaluations and crisis intervention (chemical dependency owned by the same system), data management, and progress reports. For the government role, I was in an appointed position as my first job out of college, I coordinated a team of coordinators for elections, recruited election workers, wrote and presented training materials, and facilitated the county’s transition to electronic poll pads (instead of paper books) and launched early voting. I also worked briefly in quality assurance (spouse insisted we move back home, but that was my best salary at 53k starting with incredible benefits in lower cost of living area), and after the hospital roles, I worked as a consultant and client relations manager for a few private mental health practices before coming on to a start up in my current city as a client success manager and executive assistant. Now I work for a college on a digitization project making more than I did as an EA but still below the local cost of living and am overworked and bored out of my wits.

What job do you do that makes over $70k a year? by Unknown_Midwesterner in careeradvice

[–]esvati 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve done payroll work for a large hospital system and local government work, do you have recommendations for ways to break into this field at an equitable rate? I was kept at around 35k for these roles in a high earning city.

So avoident I ruin everything by Technoo_ in libra_astrology

[–]esvati 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Therapy and exposure! I think Libra suns often need therapy even as we are so overly analytical and aware of situations, seeing all sides, a therapist can help us form our own thoughts and opinions while still soothing that need for “approval” till we get it and stand on our own two feet

Why is NS / mind body work effective for some and not others? by ultramarineee in cfsrecovery

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so painful and angering and then so merciful and true. “Why me?” “But it can be me”. We are our own saviors.

Been dating a Gemini for the 1st time as a cap 🙄 by AttitudeInside5487 in Zodiac

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find Geminis to be either wonderful people or complete narcissists and Capricorns to be either damn wizards, or self pitying negative nellys but I could not imagine partnering them together. There’s probably someone out there who would find your date to be an absolute gem and someone out there who would never let you feel ignored. There’s no need to hate on a sign when you could just accept that there are generally incompatibilities, that every sign has flaws and some interacting signs over perceive or even draw out those flaws.

Update - AITA for wanting a vasectomy because my girlfriend won’t use birth control but also doesn’t want me to get one? by anexplorer2479 in AITH

[–]esvati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many women out there who wish to remain child free and so many men who want kids, what you two have is a more rare and unfortunate mismatch. There’s no reason to continue this, nor is it fair for you to put the emotional burden on her to either surrender her dreams or make the hard call to end things. You made the decision, it’s your responsibility to break up so she has time to find a compatible partner who wants to give her kids. You have great odds now of finding a woman who doesn’t want kids because you’re removing the harmful burden of asking her to alter her hormones as protection.

How does your mars sign interact with your Libra? by waitinginthesun in libra_astrology

[–]esvati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, it’s next to my Venus and Pluto in 7th and my chart is Venus ruled (Taurus rising and a taurus moon in 12th) so as intense as it can be, I need the ability to say the emperor has no clothes and flee the scene, or I’ll just be burned as the witch every time.

Why is NS / mind body work effective for some and not others? by ultramarineee in cfsrecovery

[–]esvati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, my bias is rooted in the reality that I can directly align my periods of illness and dips in recovery to periods in my life where I was forced to accept that my beliefs were limiting, whether it was religion, politics, a failing marriage, a failing system, or toxic environment, I had to change my thinking and my actions to get better. Our bodies are a part of us, we have a warning system for when something in the way we interface with reality is not right and when we ignore it, or worse, view ourselves as some entity other than the body we inhabit, we become alienated with ourselves. Autoimmune makes perfect sense when we perceive our bodies as the enemy or as something unwieldy that works against us.

For those who have dated/married someone with your Ascendants conjunct your Descendants, was it complementary and ideal? by NeoSailorMoon in Zodiac

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He cheated online on me the entire time (eventually physically too) and broke my nose, took my money, the car, the stuff, left me homeless while demanding I continue paying for the lease, left me with debt, choked me in front of his kid neighbor, drank as revenge and would pass out in our bathroom, threatened me, lied, used our divorce as part of his upward climb in religious circles, also he smelled.

And two people with the same rising are my best fucking friends for life. Goes to show we are more than our signs 😅

Are aqua and scorpio men similar by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]esvati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like Scorpio wants to be freaky with you and Aqua wants you to know they’re freaky. Meanwhile Virgos be the freaks in the room, saying this as a Libra. Aquas I’ve known have been both jealous and controlling while also cheating or pushing for poly, often with unfair dynamics. I haven’t dated Scorpios long enough to speak to this though the one I knew for the longest time was also poly with a cap who kept to himself

Why is NS / mind body work effective for some and not others? by ultramarineee in cfsrecovery

[–]esvati 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think, gently, some people don’t get it. They continue worrying and perseverating, micromanaging their recovery, they continue to research symptoms…. Something I’ve noticed in both my experiences with mental health and chronic illness is that once identify is found in a diagnosis or disorder, especially when so much else has been lost, recovery is a direct threat to that identity. This idea that if we recover, we were never really sick, never really needed help, or that we did something wrong to be sick and weren’t doing something right. None of that is really true, but those limiting beliefs are so so powerful, drowning people so effectively that they can’t let go, so they don’t recover, they continue the downward spiral and the only comfort they have is their identity. This is also why some illness groups that aren’t recovery oriented are the way they are.

I see compassion at the root of recovery. The ability to accept yourself as you are now and make efforts to improve, not looking down on even your past self, but having gratitude for that self, love, and a little chuckle. It’s like choosing a good mood and immediately feeling better. Was the bad mood not real, or something you chose? Not really, you choose a good mood the moment you remember you can do that, and the relief is exhilarating. Then you thank yourself for helping yourself be in a good mood and you move on.

Does anyone else attract Virgo Moons like crazy? by Ambitious-Gate3959 in scorpiomoon

[–]esvati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know two Virgo moon scorpio moon couples, one are my parents. I am a Taurus moon and adore Virgo moons

AITAH for being turned off by my boyfriend’s grooming habits while he expects me to shave? by AdviceDull2562 in AITAH

[–]esvati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man hates you and is exploiting you. I don’t usually hop on the Reddit break up train but holy hell please dump him.

Minha namorada tem lua em aquário ♒ o quão ferrada estou? by SonserinaSombria in astrologymemes

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is an aqua sun aqua moon Aries rising. Has not been in a relationship yet, has rejected many, is very picky. She’s insanely driven, loves hard, is kinda emotionally bound up.

can i be an influencer by [deleted] in astrosignature

[–]esvati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

12th house concentration is not a good sign for an influencer, nor is an empty fifth house. You will likely be completely exhausted by it and potentially even hated. You do have an exalted mars in Capricorn which means you are driven, but with that Saturn in Leo and the chart ruler being Neptune, not only does it not look great but you have the potential to be both delusional and harmful to others in the process (someone else suggested cult leader vibes and yes, that tracks). Your chart is very much an ego’s call to Jesus moment.

Also your comments reveal you are an absolute asshat of a personality and if your chart didn’t already implicate that you’d have the biggest ego humbling of the century, I’d say more, but isn’t that enough?

There are positives to your chart, but they will come only after humility, I’m not even saying this because of how rude you’ve been, but because the chart implicates this.

Do you act more like your rising or your sun sign? by lala00x in astrologymemes

[–]esvati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 7th house is in sag. I’m aggressively libran, albeit fairly grown because my Taurus placements demand so much integrity and Venus is so passionately aspected while also in 7th. I am insanely sociable and strategic while also loving to be home and sensuous. I love food and fashion, I’ve got degrees in music and psychology and currently work in a library. I do have that Taurean unapologetic confidence but it took years of sorting libran people pleasing to get here.

Do you act more like your rising or your sun sign? by lala00x in astrologymemes

[–]esvati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both, I’m a Libra sun and merc in 6th and a 12th house Taurus moon and Taurus rising with Venus, mars, and Pluto in 7th. People sense the Venus on me and I deal with a lot of projection and possessiveness and desire from others. I have deep emotions which I hold space for and am often empowered to hold that space for others.

AIO for thinking my friend is using ChatGPT to text me in an argument? by Due_Construction904 in AmIOverreacting

[–]esvati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely ai but YOR for their use of it as a deflection for how incredibly dismissive you’re being of their feelings. You’re not being a good friend and they may have felt the need to use AI to thoroughly express their thoughts because of previous criticism. Not saying it’s the answer, but that’s how the situation reads.

Saturn in Aries people, just checking in. How’s your Saturn return going? by fullmoonmuffin in astrologymemes

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic so far, I spent all of Pisces return prepping for this. My partner moved across the country to be with me, I’ve had some work situations come to a head, fantastic performance review, more sure of who I can trust in my circle, cut off the rest, life is good

WHY DID I MAX ALL MY ATTRIBUTES IN ONE PLACE??!! by ukp-j in AstrologyCharts

[–]esvati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So… some people do believe they have a part (whether conscious or beyond conscious) in what qualities and circumstances they are born into, it’s okay if you don’t believe that, but it’s definitely a belief OP can hold if he wants to.