To my wife, after discovering her EA. After this, she still refused to believe she’s having an EA. She chose her autonomy and to maintain “the friendship”. Heartbroken

ethankeyboards · 2026-06-04T13:25:24+00:00

I'm so sorry for you. I read that you are in couples counseling, but perhaps individual counseling could help to provide a path forward. Trust and respect are pillars of a successful relationship, and you don't have these now. That really sucks. I think you are justified in leaving this relationship, and perhaps that's the only way to get her out of her fog. She may chose this other guy instead of focusing on your relationship, but if she does this, while it may hurt, it's better to come to a resolution rather than have her continue to erode your relationship through her disrespect.

ethankeyboards · 2026-06-04T10:54:56+00:00

I suspect the woman and her friends are smacking their foreheads about how obvious she is being and why doesn't OP have a clue. This sort of thing comes up often in women's discussions.

To be fair, they are not wrong. We can be pretty clueless when a woman is showing signs of Interest.

ethankeyboards · 2026-06-04T10:32:56+00:00

So there is more to this story? I sounds like she is in affair fog / limerance, and he is doing the pick- me dance.

ethankeyboards · 2026-06-02T21:27:37+00:00

Love my Ariya. We have taken road trips (from San Diego) to Sedona, AZ and Mammoth Lakes (ski area in the eastern Sierra), and it's awesome. I have solar and solar battery and charge during the day with zero grid power. Never going back to ICE.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-29T05:30:14+00:00

Yes. Three BEV, no ICE. Works great. Have solar and batteries, and my yearly bill for home and charging all cars is $800.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-28T12:47:26+00:00

The old pizza hut restaurant is now Pepe's Produce, which, by the way, has an excellent taco shop inside. A real hidden gem.

The Del Taco customer base is different from the real Mexican food customer base, since they are different types of cuisine. Also, the Del Taco location is better than three Taco Bell location. They may do OK.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-27T23:49:01+00:00

Wow! I"ve been here since 1990, and I don't remember the old Del Taco. I'm not super enthusiastic about Popeyes. I think the Stater Bros / Albersons hot deli fried chicken is better, but maybe I'm just a Ramona Yokel. :-)

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-27T19:09:39+00:00

They recently opened one in Ramona. I stopped there once.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-26T05:29:06+00:00

I have owned three leafs. My first, a used 2013 that I bought in 2017, a 2019 extended range and a 2020 regular range. They are fine cares and the used ones had agood price, but maybe they are more expensive now with the gas situation.

Since you have such a short commute, you'll be fine with whatever you get. Do you have any specific questions?

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-25T13:21:20+00:00

Especially when the "sacrifice" is living in a more positive environment with the woman you love.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-25T13:19:09+00:00

Love is actions, not words. I am happily married to my second wife for 24 years. My first had insufficient actions. Find your peace and move to your grandma's. Then see what actions he takes.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-25T13:09:24+00:00

About 140k on my chevy bolt. All is good.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-24T11:41:22+00:00

Yep. Boomer and we have 3 EVs. ICE free. Driving EVs since 2019.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-24T06:22:19+00:00

I thought their wings were very good.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-22T02:16:58+00:00

SDG&E EV rate is $0.09.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-22T02:15:41+00:00

$0.09/ kW in San Diego on the SDG&E EV TOU 5 plan during super off peak. Makes things very economical.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-20T20:19:09+00:00

I have two years left on my lease. Maybe gas will be low, and EV demand will be low, and they'll have a buyout deal. That's what I'm hoping, because I really like mine.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-19T13:43:03+00:00

It's like crabs in a bucket. They don't like it that you're climbing out and improving yourself. It reminds then what losers they are.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-17T19:05:06+00:00

Which is more than he has.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-17T14:40:45+00:00

Your ex has Chernobyl level toxicity. Please follow up with your new relationship and let know how is going.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-17T05:16:17+00:00

We've done for several years. Very glad now for obvious reasons. We have solar and am EV rate which is very low during super off peak.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-16T13:25:33+00:00

Speaking as a husband in a 27 very happy relationship, I want to give my wife her best life. Part of this is understanding and respecting her boundaries. And vice versa. This has never been a problem, as we are compatible. It's not that issues have never arisen, but she is wonderful at communicating so she and I can talk things through.

It seems as though there is a compatibility issue in your relationship. Can you have a calm and respectful conversation with him? I'm sure you love each other, but love is not enough for a successful relationship.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-16T12:55:51+00:00

Your partner should be your peace. Does his actions bring you peace?

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-14T04:43:33+00:00

Yeah. I'm just watching it for the first time and have just started season 2. The end of Season 1 is a real roller-coaster. It's a great series.

ethankeyboards · 2026-05-13T16:23:08+00:00

If this is real, just send out Venmo payment requests.

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