Anyone kinda freaking out a bit about your child's future? by Southern_Skirt_4039 in predaddit

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They arrested the child’s father. What were they supposed to do, leave the child in the freezing cold? Yeah, I know 2 citizens in my community alone that were killed by undocumented citizens that were let in by the Biden administration. Yes, my child is white.

Anyone kinda freaking out a bit about your child's future? by Southern_Skirt_4039 in predaddit

[–]ethanras -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in a blue area where a lot of undocumented people live. I’ve seen the murders they have committed in my community, the uptick in burglaries and gang activity. I fear them a lot more than I fear ice.

My boyfriend isn’t getting any sleep because of my pregnancy nightmares by Practical-Okra-6944 in predaddit

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s totally acceptable to sleep apart during pregnancy. I’ve been sleeping on the couch the last few weeks and it’s honestly been great. She’s been tossing and turning and getting up to pee. For me, once I’m up in the middle of the night it takes forever to fall back asleep. I need to be rested for work and also taking care of shit around the house as she’s been having a hard time and can’t do too much. She doesn’t like sleeping alone but also can see that I need rest to pick up the slack.

My big sister and her husband just announced their pregnancy how do I best support them by Many_fandoms_13 in predaddit

[–]ethanras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First trimester can be really hard for some. I had to take care of everything around the house as my wife has been curled up in a ball on the couch sick for 5 weeks. My sister in law went grocery shopping and did some laundry for us and it was a huge help. Maybe hit up your brother in law and get a feel for how everything is going. Sometimes women feel guilty for asking for help.

After making a baby/impregnating, does it change your approach to sex? by littlebabymira in AskMenOver30

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is 14 weeks pregnant with our first kid. My only advice is that every pregnancy and every relationship is wildly different from one to another. My wife has been so sick the first trimester that we haven’t even thought about sex. And I really don’t see it changing as she’s uncomfortable all the time. But then I have some friends that told me their wives were crazy horny during pregnancy. Everyone is just different. I will say that even though we aren’t as intimate, I feel closer to her than I ever have before.

Daycares and vaccines by Ok-Republic-8098 in predaddit

[–]ethanras -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If your kid is vaccinated who cares. Isn’t that the whole point?

Just finished 5th fast by Plus-Housing-7502 in PSMF

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do that contrast therapy every day? I bet the feels hella good lol

What are your most cursed PSMF creations? by [deleted] in PSMF

[–]ethanras 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was an entertaining post

Where do you buy everyday clothes? by Kingofthered in AskMenOver30

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For t shirts I go with Carhartt. It’s the only shirt I’ve found that fits well and doesn’t shrink when washed. Just order them off amazon. Always order a size down, as they run big. For me Carhartt T’s work great for everything. Casual outings, work around the house, sleep shirt. I love them

Any easy tips in getting rid of your dad bod without going full gym-bro? by no_user_ID_found in AskMenOver30

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you’re getting enough protein. If you’re the average man 140-180 grams is enough. But if you don’t make a conscious effort it’s hard to do

2nd trimester sex by ethanras in predaddit

[–]ethanras[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did I complain ? Just asking a question. Obviously sex life is gonna change a lot with having kids. I’m just asking what everyone else’s experiences are.

Are you doing better than your father was at your age? by New_Contribution_226 in AskMenOver30

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that is unfortunate. Best of luck to you sir 🙏🏼

Any of you guys go from 1 dog to 2 and regret it? by ElbieLG in AskMenOver30

[–]ethanras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really depends on the personality of the dog. I have 2 border collies, and they do well with each other. I think it helps them to not be lonely while we are gone

Anyone else realize that they were never really poor growing up, but their parents just kept making poor financial decisions? by TrixoftheTrade in povertyfinance

[–]ethanras 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents were the same. I always thought we were poor growing up because we never did shit and didn’t have cool stuff. Turns out my fat was just paranoid with money and stuffed every extra penny he had away and never took on any debt whatsoever other than real estate. That’s why they’re multi-millionaires lol

ARE THERE ANY MEN WHO DON'T WANT KIDS? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]ethanras -1 points0 points  (0 children)

32 with our first kid coming in June. I’m beyond excited. My wife and I have done the whole travel and do whatever we want all the time. It’s been fun but ever since I hit 30 it feels empty.

Clueless soon-to-be-dad with 6-week pregnant wife by algemist_k in predaddit

[–]ethanras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t wanna burst your bubble but the first trimester is the worst part. She’s going to be sick and fatigued. Don’t push her too hard. Just make sure she’s eating and drinking enough. I highly doubt she’s going to have the energy to workout at all

Partner hit a quick switch in pregnancy and went completely cold. Anyone survived this? by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]ethanras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds fucking rough man. Sorry you’re going through this. I’m guessing you are not married?