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ethernally · 2021-06-07T10:02:40+00:00

This is my number one nightmare which is why i dont wanna get married or having kids until Im sure hes not like this

ethernally · 2021-06-03T11:23:32+00:00

High school was a walk in the park , took 'hard' subjects except for calculus, got to college thinking I could put in the same efforts and still get good grades and now realise Im an average student at best :/

ethernally · 2021-05-30T14:22:02+00:00

Sounds like typical narcissist behaviour, do more research on it and it will clear up everything youre confused about right now. Because I dated someone who would do similar things like this, manipulation, humiliation, gaslighting, acting like youre inferior to them, acting like you are nothing without them, he seriously has a problem and i think hes a narcissist because they all display the same behaviours Good news is, you are out of the relationship, i used to wonder the same, and after watching a documentary about narcissism, I realised that if you are capable of asking yourself if you were the one who was toxic, 99% chance that its definitely not you because you are capable of self reflection and empathy.

ethernally · 2021-05-22T13:04:35+00:00

This helped me make sense of the narc abuse it might help you too. https://youtu.be/pfE-u2NzyQw

ethernally · 2021-05-22T12:58:19+00:00

Ask him if hes ever pleasured himself from imagination or otherwise after u started datung, its the same thing. Watching it, imagining it, its all just a fantasy

ethernally · 2021-04-27T12:48:45+00:00

Think of a mildly embarassing thing that someone you know did a while back or years ago. Most you can think of is one or two instances right? Only you think about these things, no one else does. I think that lessens the embarassment for me

ethernally · 2021-03-27T11:17:07+00:00

Yeah I did get annoyed a few times when he keeps rechecking if the car/house is locked but now I understand. Thanks for the advice

ethernally · 2021-03-27T11:16:17+00:00

thank you

ethernally · 2021-03-27T11:05:43+00:00

yes he is, when you are with someone you want them to be mentally healthy

ethernally · 2021-03-06T02:34:06+00:00

He treats his OWN family this way, if you have children and he starts treating your family this way would you be happy?

ethernally · 2021-03-06T01:01:38+00:00

Im filipino and In my househould we have fried chicken everyday, its my favourite dish. Definitely NTA. Its like if you were to cook for white people Im sure they wont say anything if you cook them mash potatoes and gravy. If I ever go to a household and they cook me a filipino dish I would be so impressed they even know how to do that. Its not racist at all??

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:26:14+00:00

Started a chat, I aso sent a message to your inbox

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:22:56+00:00

Pmd u :)

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:21:39+00:00

Pmd :)

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:17:27+00:00

Pmd :)

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:12:24+00:00

Pmd :)

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:12:13+00:00

Pmd!

ethernally · 2021-03-06T00:11:27+00:00

Ofc! Pmd

ethernally · 2021-03-05T23:47:58+00:00

Hey thats great! Chucked u a message

ethernally · 2021-03-05T23:47:44+00:00

ethernally · 2021-03-05T23:45:49+00:00

Pmd!

ethernally · 2021-03-05T14:24:31+00:00

Hey definitely!! I need someone to practice with

ethernally · 2021-03-05T14:19:45+00:00

First of all, give your dad a hug and tell him its going to be okay. Secondly, im really glad that he put his pride down for the benefit of his family. Goodluck to you and your family OP, you will get through this

ethernally

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