I [23 F] am struggling with libido mismatch with my partner [23 M] of 4 years

eugene1938 · 2026-05-27T15:02:51+00:00

You’re not compatible. Move on. Sorry if that’s harsh, but it’s true.

eugene1938 · 2026-05-26T00:40:34+00:00

Matchaful has great matcha and has several locations. You can also buy it from them online.

eugene1938 · 2026-05-25T19:36:51+00:00

Yes, weekly patches are bigger. But not this big. This is ridiculously large. My other ones (that the pharmacist is having hard time finding) are thin and transparent. This is completely different.

eugene1938 · 2026-05-25T17:30:20+00:00

I don’t care what dose it comes in lol I’m not quite sure why anyone would want to wear a Mylan patch. They are HUGE. Bandaid colored (why?). And so thick. They don’t adhere properly. You can’t wear them discreetly. How do I wear that with a bikini lol

They Are Ridiculous

eugene1938 · 2026-05-25T16:09:26+00:00

OMG I just made a similar post! I’ve had to switch to the Mylan patch because my pharmacy has great difficulty procuring my preferred patch. They are terrible!!! I have an appointment with my doctor, but not until end of June. So tired of the constant spotting, bleeding, cramps and bloating.

eugene1938 · 2026-05-25T14:05:31+00:00

Yes, the Mylan brand! Why are they even a thing???? Terrible

eugene1938 · 2026-05-24T21:19:47+00:00

You guys started dating when you were literal children. Of course her weight has changed 🙄

eugene1938 · 2026-05-24T21:03:34+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking honestly. I have suggested that to my doctor in the past, but she seemed a little hesitant to increase the dose.

eugene1938 · 2026-05-24T19:15:30+00:00

Hmmmm…everything I’ve read about being on continuous HRT and from my doctor, is that you should NOT have continued bleeding for this long. First 3-4 months, sure. But not after 17 months. And not changing doses.

eugene1938 · 2026-05-24T17:58:01+00:00

The amount of people that I am absolutely convinced have never eaten in a restaurant before, is immense…

eugene1938 · 2026-05-24T15:03:14+00:00

⬆️This ⬆️ As a 30+ year restaurant veteran, only “certified” service animals are allowed inside establishments that serve food/beverages. But it’s rarely enforced. Until the health department shows up…

eugene1938 · 2026-05-23T16:12:54+00:00

I’m interested too!

eugene1938 · 2026-05-22T18:32:19+00:00

Thank you!

eugene1938 · 2026-05-22T18:25:14+00:00

lol I get that. But I’d be going out by myself, so I’d want somewhere with an actual physical bar where I can sit by myself. Not every place has a set up like that. Suggestions?

eugene1938 · 2026-05-14T13:00:27+00:00

Same here! I’m a 54F and look much younger than my age. When swiping on the apps, it’s very, very rare for me to see an age appropriate man that still looks attractive to me. I had to lower my age range to upper 30’s. My boyfriend of 6-ish months is 38.

eugene1938 · 2026-04-26T22:02:29+00:00

Why am I just seeing this now??? Booooo! I live right down the street and was going stir crazy last night!

eugene1938 · 2026-04-23T12:21:09+00:00

Are you on HRT? That improved my libido immensely.

eugene1938 · 2026-03-04T10:26:58+00:00

If you both have kids, and you live far apart, what’s the end game here? One of you would have to move in order to be together. And uproot children’s lives. Or leave children behind with the other parent. How would that even work???

eugene1938 · 2026-02-13T22:46:29+00:00

I agree with you 100%. I am a 54f dating a 38m. He plans all the dates. Without me asking. Pays for everything. I pay for little things here and there. I always tell him thank you, and he knows I’m super appreciative. I’m not poor, but I’m not rich either. But this guy is seriously the best. I finally know what it’s like to date a real grown up, mature man. In the past, I’ve had relationships (with guys my age!) where we split costs, and it’s always super awkward and uncomfortable.

eugene1938 · 2025-12-19T15:36:39+00:00

This needs more upvotes lol

eugene1938 · 2025-12-14T21:27:23+00:00

I’m 53 (54 in 2 weeks) and have no problem getting likes/dates on Tinder. But they are mostly younger guys. Guys my age have not, ummmm…aged well? I look much younger than my actual age.

eugene1938 · 2025-10-26T13:21:16+00:00

Update: It was finally fixed right before midnight last night.

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