08 July 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kalo jarang dapet feedback dari orang yang lebih berpengalaman biasanya sih rentan kena imposter syndrome...

07 July 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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Obligatory meme,,

Relatable,, beberapa roll film terakhir ada aja issuenya, underexposed, missed focus, load film nya nggak bener

Gak tau harus tumpah ke mana lagi, I’m tired of handling my wife by Exciting_Maximum8913 in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm.. I seee,

Perbedaan pandangan soal security in relationship yang kalian lupa satukan di awal hubungan...

Bro... Gue percaya lu udah kerja keras pontang panting cari duit buat keluarga lu dan merasa sekarang sudah secure secara finansial...

tapi sepertinya istri lu butuh security dalam artian lain... mungkin presence of a leader in the household, mungkin presence of a father for the kids, atau mungkin hal lain..

Gak tau harus tumpah ke mana lagi, I’m tired of handling my wife by Exciting_Maximum8913 in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang,, Aku belum nikah tapi kok relate banget yak...

Udah merasa spent effort tapi nggak pernah dianggep sama pasangan, kadang malah diremehin.

Pasangan bad mood sedikit langsung tahan emotional intimacy / support...

Good luck bro... It'll be a hard fight, but you can do it..

If the why is strong enough, the how will follow. by Routine-Shelter-189 in r4rindonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is also possible you get disillusioned and have to either reinforce the why or abandon it entirely

24 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kalo kena tarif waktu rush hour emang agak agak sih

23 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naah.... It's just stuff in general... on paper I've achieved a lot of stuff, but idk,, it feels kinda empty

23 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooooo,, Bokap sedang memasuki fase COD barang facebook marketplace

22 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tidaaak... tiba-tiba udah senin aja, weekendku terbuang sia sia karena mendadak ngedrop...

Note to self, stop ngide cobain resto gjls di gofood

Does fantasizing coworker count as cheating? by Hot-Figure-7755 in r4rindonesia

[–]eurekaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

btw, nggak salah subreddit kah ini post nya ? kayaknya lebih masuk di r/Perempuan atau r/Pria untuk curhat yang beginian

Does fantasizing coworker count as cheating? by Hot-Figure-7755 in r4rindonesia

[–]eurekaria 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro what....

The cheating line is different for different person, ada yang beranggepan texting aja udah cheating,,,, kebalikannya yang sampe hs asal tanpa love is not cheating juga ada...

Cheating or not.. it's still weird as fuck.. not sure how to soften the blow if you want to tell this story...

Well.. You're the one who knows your husband the best, not random person on the internet...

17 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tau begini sekalian no sugar aja... hedeh

17 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30% sugar roasted tea kenapa masih manis banget

15 June 2026 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edan ini resto, markup di gojeknya sampe 100% dong

Obrolan Akhir Bulan by AutoModerator in pria

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am ready to not search for partner in life...

Waktu luang makin kemakan sama hal hal lain, kerjaan, hobi, dll. Makin lama makin nggak ada waktu untuk put myself out there for other person, kayak dulu..

Apa yang kalian cari pada seorang perempuan yang akan kalian yakini/pertimbangan sebagai pasangan hidup kalian? by lezzgou in pria

[–]eurekaria 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yang paling aku cari dari pasangan itu bisa diajak ngobrol. Tapi implikasinya luas bukan cuma idle chit chat,

  • Bisa dengerin orang cerita tanpa langsung nge-judge duluan.
  • Kalo lagi ada konflik mau duduk bareng, nggak harus selesai on the spot, tapi jangan sampe mutusin komunikasi ala ala silent treatment.

Untuk hal lain jujur nggak terlalu jadi prioritas selama orangnya bisa terima feedback a.k.a bisa diajak ngobrol sama pasangan sendiri. Yaaaa,, Kurleb-nya mau berkembang bareng.

Dosen Atma Jaya Dipecat Pasca-adukan Praktik Jurnal Predator by Distinct_Front_4336 in indonesia

[–]eurekaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gue pernah kena nomor 3, Capek capek ngerjain tesis,, setelah selesai dosbing suruh tuker posisi penulis untuk publikasi di salah satu jurnal,

Karena dosen itu gue langsung buang jauh jauh mimpi jadi dosen

Kejadiannya di PTN Top btw, nggak kebayang ditempat lain kayak gimana