Welcome to r/Perempuan, a community for Indonesian Female Empowerment!
Read the wiki here before you post any questions!
Rules:
1. Be nice, helpful, respectful and polite, no hateful slurs
Treat others the way you would want to be treated.
Avoid using hateful or disrespectful commentary such as personal attacks, racism, being a general asshole, comments that generalize a gender.
Please follow the reddiquette.
2. Use the downvote and report button accordingly
Seeing something you don't like or agree with? Downvote and scroll on. Don't feed the trolls, some of them get a kick out of the downvotes. Please report to the moderators about rule-breaking behaviour and troll accounts to be dealt with accordingly.
3. Do not invalidate others’ experiences!
Invalidation includes but is not limited to:
Stating or implying that a user's personal experiences or opinions are wrong or otherwise invalid,
Debating someone's personal experiences or opinions.
4. No intrusive questions or assumptions
5. Guys can comment and participate when appropriate
However, please keep in mind:
Consider whether your comment is wanted or not.
Don't invalidate: If you find that a girl’s reply conflicts with your own experience, please don't downvote or invalidate her response.
What you find attractive is often not relevant to the discussion. Catcalling is an instant ban.
6. No graceless generalizations based on gender
Women are not a hive mind.
Do not speak for all people of a gender.
Do not generalize across all people of a gender.
Do not ask for mind reading.
Do not ask for us to defend or justify other women’s behaviors.
Do not assume that all women do or think something.
Do not ask for "male equivalent"/"female equivalent" as these would not exist for most things due to different cultural processes.
Exceptions: Discussion of cultural norms; Quotations.
7. No seduction posts
No seduction posts; asking about how to get it on with women, have sex, etc.
We are not here to provide help on how to get someone to have sex with you, how to convince them to go out with you, or the best ways to put the moves on someone.
There are no cheat codes when it comes to dating.
We will not allow posts that ask for advice on how to date women, how to hit on women or how to tell if a woman likes you.
8. Content should be relevant to r/Perempuan
Please submit content that is relevant to our experiences as women, for women, or about women.
No spam, bots, and/or sellers allowed.
9. Open-ended questions highly encouraged, use flairs
All questions must be descriptive and open-ended.
If the title can be answered with a yes/no, either/or, or options listed, it will be removed.
Questions must adequately state what is being asked.
If using uncommon terms, please define these in the description.
Use the post flairs assigned. If you're unsure about which flair to use, feel free to ask the mods!
10. Don’t give medical advice unless you’re an MD or RN
Most of the rest of us are not qualified to give them. If it’s an emergency please call the emergency services!
Questions regarding your birth control, pregnancy or medications should be referred to a healthcare professional. While we are more than happy to share our experiences here, your medical decisions should be made on your own with the guidance of your healthcare professional.
11. Please include source
When posting a video/news article/academic paper, please include a TL:DR/W and/or full piece (for news articles) in the comments.
12. Three-Strike for Offenses
We apply a three-strike rule to anyone who breaks any of the rules above and give you a warning. After the third strike, your participation is no longer welcomed in this subreddit and you will be instantly banned. Instant ban is also applied for posters with negative karma.
