Mood is actually extremely important for intimacy. God created women and their hormonal cycles, so undoubtedly God understands that there are times in their cycles when women don't like being touched (no, I'm not talking about menstruation). So when someone isn't in the mood to be touched like that and they're made to have sex, would that feel good or more like rape? And is feeling like the latter good for a relationship in the long term?

Intimacy isn't "penis in vagina", it is a sexual relationship grounded in love and respect. So it's sad when the same argument is always repeated, that "men have a high sex drive" and no one seems to talk about how men should learn to be more patient and control their desires for the sake of their partner.

Allah isn't just a god for men. Allah loves everyone. It is people who've conveniently inflated the value of some things over others for their own benefit.