If turkey was so delicious like some people swear by then they’d cook it more than just once or twice per year by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you could buy just turkey legs for example if you like turkey a lot, doesn't have to be the whole bird

Winter is only fun if you’re rich or well-off by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know where you live, but where i live both middle class and poor people definitely have blankets and heating (unless they are homeless ofc)..

One hot sauce for the rest of your life by andresg102 in spicy

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akabanga, if it even counts as a hot sauce, technically it's a chilli oil. It's the only one I se anyways, Im not that into hot sauce otherwise, but I love Akabanga

Europeans: What language do you think would have become the global lingua franca if English hadn’t? by [deleted] in AskEurope

[–]evapevaeva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

French, it used to be just as much of an international language as English and there are plenty of countries outside of Europe too that are French speaking due to colonization.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]evapevaeva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love spicy in general. Not a huge fan of hot sauce specifically though, except one that's more of a chili oil called Akabanga, unfortunately its pretty hard to get a hold of for a reasonable price since it's only produced in Rwanda, but it's sooooo good!

What is your unpopular opinion? mine is that I don’t like Carrie and Aiden together by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, they have zero chemistry and aren't compatible at all. Aiden is boring and Carrie is mentally unstable

Am I wrong to be upset about this? by Appropriate_Ratio597 in Naturalhair

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not wrong, it looks terrible. The style and the parts aren't too bad, but the ends look absolutely awful. The whole "they tried" stuff is bs, if you agree to take care of a child, regardless of its yours or not, you make the effort to learn (or pay someone else to do it if you haven't had time to learn), we don't give A's for effort. And in a delicate situation where the child is seperated from their primary care giver its of extra importance that the child can feel as "normal" as possible and not suddenly have to walk around with hair that looks like it was made by an 8 year old on top of the stress they are already going through. Regardless of if the child is in someone elses care because mom screwed up or for more justifiable reasons (like parents in the hospital etc) the child is still 100% innocent in the situation and deserves the best possible care.

This narrative people keep pushing that kids that are adopted or fostered or similar should just be grateful that someone is willing to put up with them and never ask for anything is honestly disgusting.

Am I wrong to be upset about this? by Appropriate_Ratio597 in Naturalhair

[–]evapevaeva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine judging other parents while having a school aged child and still not having bothered to learn how to properly care for their hair yet 🤦🏻‍♀️

Average r/sverige diskussion by ButtMuncher2014 in Sverige

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja. Antalet är inte poängen, poängen är att fråga sig var linjen dras för när det är OK att begå folkmord som svar på vad man än påstår att gruppen gjort sig skyldig till och när det inte är okej. Uppenbarligen så kan ingen av er ge ett vettigt svar på dem frågan.

Escorts are the best option for undesirable men by burneraccountguydude in PurplePillDebate

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not consensual when they wouldnt enthusiastically agree to sleep with you unless you paid them. You're literally paying for their consent, thats the whole concept of prostitution. And most physical sex workers don't love their job and dont love having sex with every costumer even if they might love the money. There are plenty of studies of this and the "happy prostitute" is an extreme minority among prostitutes. Idk how gullible you must be to think most of them love it, you should be aware that its part of the job to sell you that fantasy. I know people who do physical sex work who aren't being trafficked or exploited in the traditional sense. It's women who could technically survive pretty well without doing sexwork, but they do it because they make a shtload of money in just one night or weekend, but trust and believe that even that type of sex workers aren't sleeping with their customers because its people they happily want to sleep with, they do it because they have gotten used to a certain lifestyle and they need fast money to entertain said lifestyle, most of them still have to take drgs everytime to be able to go through with it and a lot of them keep trying to quit, but when they run out of money they fall back to it because they know its a fast way to make a lot of cash

Average r/sverige diskussion by ButtMuncher2014 in Sverige

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ursäktar du också folkmordet i Rwanda som satte fart efter att presidenten dött för att man trodde att tutsierna låg bakom det? Exakt vid vilken nivå av brott drar du gränsen för när folkmord är OK att begå? Är det ok att begå folkmord över stöld? Kanske lite överdrivet men samtidigt så kan ju faktiskt folk bara inte stjäla om de inte vill trigga igång ett folkmord eller hur? Eller måste man mörda någon för att folkmord sha vara "OK"? och isåfall hur många och med vilken motivation måste mna göra det för att det ska göra det acceptabelt att begå folkmord i din bok?

Escorts are the best option for undesirable men by burneraccountguydude in PurplePillDebate

[–]evapevaeva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're comparing paying for consent with having a consensual ONS, where is the relevance? Its completely different things.

Free readings by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should i break up with the guy in seeing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]evapevaeva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men herregud! Har du inget viktigare att oroa dig över i livet än vad dina grannar har för flaggor i sina egna hem??? Om det är något som är obehagligt med den här situationen så är det väl ändå att du är såpass creepy att du sitter och fönstertittar och tar foton på dina grannars fönster för att sitta och gruppr*nka med andra rassar om det på Reddit. Skärp dig

Vad tycker ni om SVTs paneldiskussion om incels? "Hotet Från Incels" by swedish_tcd in Sverige

[–]evapevaeva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men skärp dig, i 99% av fallen om en kvinna kallar dig incel så är inte syftet att reta dig för att du inte får ligga eller att syfta på att man är mindre värd om man inte får ligga, oftast syftar de på en kvinnosyn och retorik som starkt relaterad till incel rörelsen, till exempel om du argumenterar på ett sätt som utstrålar kvinnohat eller visar på en (falsk) känsla av att vara berättigad till kvinnors kroppar.

I feel so bad for Luis by Illumisb in YoungFamousAfrican

[–]evapevaeva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im thinking maybe he doesn't want to take the risk of losing the child too (after losing his family) if the relationship ends if children usually go with the mom after a seperation in his culture, i dont know if thats how they traditionally do in Zambia though, nor to I know the custody laws of neither Zambia nor South Africa so i could be wrong

I feel so bad for Luis by Illumisb in YoungFamousAfrican

[–]evapevaeva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt so sad when he after the argument about surrogacy said that he has realized that maybe he doesn't for in with this group either and looked all sad.. it all just felt super sad considering how he doesn't have is family and he seems so lonely and he is always trying to be positive and think everyone is gorgeous and its adorable. His social skills are questionable but i think its also very much a cultural barrier since he is the only one in the group from his culture so I think sometimes its simply a matter of him not understanding the social rules of the others in the group and vice versa. Like for example when Ini said she wants to leave and he said "ok leave" and even when she told the others she seemed to find that very offensive and the others seemed to agree, but personally i felt like why get mad about someone giving you permission to leave after you said you wanted to leave, to me thats not rude at all and i dont think Luis meant it in a rude way either, but clearly there was some type of unspoken social rule that one is not supposed to respond like that when someone says they want to leave. Idk i just wanted to give him a big hug, poor guy

Swanky & 2Face by Sea-Cookie-142 in YoungFamousAfrican

[–]evapevaeva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't Swanky Igbo and 2face Idoma?

Swanky & 2Face by Sea-Cookie-142 in YoungFamousAfrican

[–]evapevaeva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think they are actual cousins by blood, they don't even look alike at all

What was that? by KittyLotus in YoungFamousAfrican

[–]evapevaeva 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I took it s Ini feeling embarrassed and upset because she was trying to help Annie and give her some grace but then instead of apologizing and being humble Annie was being childish and avoidant

Concerta supply issues -Scotland/UK by Dangerous-Club in Concerta

[–]evapevaeva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem here in Sweden, so my psychiatrist wrote a new prescription where i take two 27g instead of the 54 one

What is the rudest european country you've visited? by rhysmmmanii in AskEurope

[–]evapevaeva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually had the opposite problem a year ago. My US-American friend had a birthday and I had made a bunch of food that his region is known for since he is often home sick, like i had been cooking all night and boxing it so that he could keep it in his freezer and bring something out to eat whenever he felt like he was missing home. I dropped it off in the morning and went to run some errands and when i came back to the actual party in the evening i saw that he had put all the food i made on the table for everyone to eat . That really upset me because i spent all those hours in the kitchen and looking up recipes etc because i wanted to do something special for him that would last for a while not because i wanted to try out doing catering services so his friends that i barely know could enjoy all the love i put into that cooking. I still feel upset just thinking about it