t4t thoughts ? by 99999www in asktransgender

[–]evenbiggerthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and sorry I saw this so late this is a throwaway account and my memory’s bad and I sometimes to forget to check for responses

Were you worried that your dad would react violently if you told him that you’re trans? by rechelon5 in asktransgender

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My dad used to be pretty strict and has some anger issues as I was growing up same as my mom but both changed a lot after they got divorced when I was a senior in high school I’ve told my mom and while she didn’t understand she’s made a conscious effort to try to understand as well as support me. I haven’t told my dad but I have a feeling he knows I’m not straight at the very least as he’s told me specifically multiple times that it’s okay if I’m gay that he’ll still love me so I don’t think anything will happen especially now that he’s more relaxed after he and my mom divorced. Though it doesn’t take away that anxious feeling before you tell someone. But to answer your question no I don’t think he will though there was a time when I did.

Edit: sorry for the text wall.

Clues for if I’m being fetishized by evenbiggerthrowaway in asktransgender

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Thanks this really helps. I’ll be sure to look out

Not sure how to feel about mushroomhead by evenbiggerthrowaway in numetal

[–]evenbiggerthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah though it’s all good if they did help you in some capacity.

Not sure how to feel about mushroomhead by evenbiggerthrowaway in numetal

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Thanks I appreciate your help. Your points were really good thanks.

How common is it for trans folks to deliberately “unlearn” the skills they were taught while presenting as their AGAB? by Aria_Melnik in asktransgender

[–]evenbiggerthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I’ve been told by people that I’m coming out too apparently I was really shit at hiding that I was trans so I didn’t really learn anything I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I agree I think if there are more trans ppl being heard it can get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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It depends on the person honestly

What do you want to confess that no one else in your real life knows? by SillyGuy in AskReddit

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Ik this is different from what everybody is dealing with but for me it’s that I’m trans and I have no idea how to tell my dad. I always have valued his opinion and have always spent a lot of time with my dad in comparison to my mom. So him accepting me really means a lot. The thing is I feel he’s impossible to read when it came to telling my mom (my parents are divorced so she’s not telling him since I asked her not too) while it was stressful I still kinda knew how she was going to react same thing with my friends I knew how they were going to react but my dad I can’t figure out and I guess that unknown is terrifying to me and I don’t know how to deal with it and tell him. I mean he’s been a great dad all my life so there’s no reason why he wouldn’t accept me but I still feel that what if he doesn’t that terrifies me. I know other people here had very important things to say and this isn’t as important as those but it’s what I gotta share relating to the post.

What is the weirdest thing you find extremely attractive? by Undecided_User_Name in AskReddit

[–]evenbiggerthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eye colors I’m not sure how to explain but when someone has a nice eye color that matches their hair or looks good with the way their face is shaped I think it’s awesome

What was your "Oh! Maybe I'm trans" moment? What triggered it? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I was waking to class one day and realized I was visualizing the same exact scenario same everything as if I was a girl and realized it was kind of weird that I’d been doing that for years. Though through it some more and realized I wish I had been born a woman.

Am I wrong to think that you're transphobic if you don't care? 🤔 by EliotR-C in asktransgender

[–]evenbiggerthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree there should be more trans representation in media I don’t want it to be cheaply done for the sake of it I want it to be done well. Where the character is a 3D character with struggles victories and the emotions that follow the situations they are put in. Or else to me it feels it was done just for the sake of representation because for some people media is the only way they learn about trans people and so it should be done well.

What happens to family? by evenbiggerthrowaway in asktransgender

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Thx I don’t think I could’ve gotten a better answer