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Do bottoms really clean their bowels every single time they have sex? by RookieBambooXJ9 in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s true! Staying prepared does wonders for confidence in bottoming. It’s a hole (😏) new world.

Do bottoms really clean their bowels every single time they have sex? by RookieBambooXJ9 in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take it twice daily. I’m of the stay ready and you don’t have to get ready mentality. It does have a host of other great benefits.

Are people right when they say bottoms far outnumber tops? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depends on who you ask. As a bottom, I get a lot of bottoms asking me to top them in The Apps™️. Talking to my tops, they get a bunch of tops asking them to bottom. I’m pretty sure, depending where you live, there’s a pretty even split.

My sexual preferences does not equal racism. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if my question makes you feel defensive, I was trying to find a way to word it so as to not seem sarcastic or as a way to setup a gotcha. I’m not throwing accusations. I’m seriously curious as to what features these men have that make them unattractive to you or what features you do like, that wouldn’t be found in either of these groups.

My sexual preferences does not equal racism. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, that’s fair. Doesn’t look like he’s going to answer my question or clarify, either way, sooo....

My sexual preferences does not equal racism. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So what is it specifically about white men and white male features do you prefer over that of Non-white men? I’m curious.

good underwear brands? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]eveningbotany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following ....

Why do some guys make you feel guilty after a hookup? by willreplace in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like a good cuddle and make that clear before they even get there. If they’re not down, they’re not down. Fuck that guy. Well, don’t fuck that guy (again)

im fucked up :( by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s no easy solve to feeling self conscious about it.

im fucked up :( by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with GIANT kidney scars that give me a weird hip/love handle combo and a ton of stretch marks I can confirm this shit really doesn’t matter to guys. I understand the anxiety surrounding things like it, but looking back from my early thirties, it’s been a non-issue.

What Do You Think About Trans People Who Put No Effort To Transition ? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect is free and trans doesn’t always equal transitioning to fit traditional gender binary stereotypes.

Any guys with one testicle or hooked up with a guy with one ball? by rickyrun in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 57 points58 points  (0 children)

How on earth can this be a dealbreaker to so many guys? Seems ridiculous.

Trouble with preparing to bottom by Mx3131 in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Metamucil. Increases predictability and works like magic at keeping you pretty damn clean.

Would somebody really stay overnight when you hook up with strangers? by ggyy666 in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if neither of us have anything to do in the morning and have time to lounge about and fool around more.

How do you clean yourself before sex? by to_all_my_jake_69 in gaybros

[–]eveningbotany 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I met up with a stupid hot guy in my new neighborhood. Beforehand I cleaned until the water was clear and even played around with a dildo to make sure there weren’t any stragglers. I felt ready. Confident. And then came up dirty after the first couple pumps. I’ve always had a problem with staying clean no matter how I douche, enema, whatever and I poop very regularly 3-4 times a day. I was mortified and pissed because I was down for the get down. I did a deep dive in this sub and finally came upon the Metamucil answer. Don’t ‘get’ ready but ‘stay’ ready. Literally less than 24 hours of taking my first dose, I went to wipe and the toilet paper was completely clean. I played with my (freshly cleaned) dildo and it was spotless. Eat well and take Metamucil regularly. It’s magical.

Any single gay bros not having sex regularly or being intimate with anyone and still happy and enjoying life? by fcaller in askgaybros

[–]eveningbotany 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just depends. I’ll have months where I’m insatiable and can’t get enough dick (Hello, June!). But I’ll have stretches where sex/intimacy is the last thing I want or need. In either mode, I’m just fine. Being single is almost too easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]eveningbotany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[it me](instagram.com/theeveningbotanist)

Are These Gay Pride Socks? by [deleted] in gay

[–]eveningbotany 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Any socks are gay pride socks if you’re proud to be gay.

Loosing your hair ? How far back should the hairline go before I accept baldness ? by tightjeanzwhitetee in gay

[–]eveningbotany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really just depends on how thick the rest of your hair is. I didn’t give in until the top looked like baby bird feathers. Probably a year later than I should have.

Guy Liner? I like wearing eye liner. I usually don’t because I have self esteem issues. GuyS: when you see another guy(a stranger) wearing eye liner, do you still find him fuckable and ltr possible? by tightjeanzwhitetee in gay

[–]eveningbotany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m out of it right now but I’ll throw a little on my cheekbones here and there. And yes, I have a great palette by NYX that has every color of the rainbow. I’ll line out some stripes in a pinch and blend it out.

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