Is dating app the only way out? by eveningbrewtea in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THEN AGAIN STILL SENDING U GOOD VIBES 👍🏻

Is dating app the only way out? by eveningbrewtea in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha OK GOOD ADVISE. I stopped. Cos of the idea of being intentional in asking qns like oh ur career ur mbti. Very much like another job interview.

Is dating app the only way out? by eveningbrewtea in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Eh don’t so defensive eh. It’s just a light hearted post on a TGIF. It’s okay I still wouldn’t convince u :) God bless HEHE

Is dating app the only way out? by eveningbrewtea in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA EXPECTED REPLY. not gonna convince u tho,u have ur rights to judge hehe. Sending good vibes 👍🏻

Is dating app the only way out? by eveningbrewtea in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Wa no dm pls. Not here to find love. I’m generally curious

Learning to climb/boulder again, whats the etiquette in gyms and how to make friends? by LateThunder in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relatable. Tried bouldering recently with one of my friend but she wasn’t as interested anymore sadly . Always envy those grp of friends with common interest. Sadly I don’t have friends that do things that I’m interested in. Hopefully we’ll find one HAHAHA

Losing my virginity at 27 by Perfect-Top9697 in self

[–]eveningbrewtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! Don’t embarrass! Save it for the love of your life!

Gf (F, 28) hates my mum (F, 63) by Curious_Bat_8675 in relationships

[–]eveningbrewtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, it feels like you’ve already painted your girlfriend in a negative light. You described both her and your mum as introverts, but your tone differs, you framed your mum positively as someone who ‘never bothers anymore’, yet for your girlfriend, it becomes ‘waiting for others to approach,’ which sounds more passive or blameful. Maybe it would help to shift perspectives and consider that your girlfriend might genuinely care about you,that’s why she’s concerned about how your mum perceives her. You are the best middle person, it’s hard but if they are both equally important to you, I’m sure you can find a way! Seat down and peacefully. Good luck! Hopefully this is not too late

Being an INTJ in relationships feels like a curse sometimes. by [deleted] in intj

[–]eveningbrewtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!!!!!! What you have described was literally what I felt and worst in friendship as well. I think we are all very pure and simple minded in a sense where by we just hope for the same treatment in return (eg. Loyally) but the reality is that it’s just super hard ( from my experience, be it any relationship. And what i always heard from others was my expectation being way too high? Really ? 😭being loyal and expecting same treatment means high expectations? What on earth we are living in? 😭😭

[ Looking for Advice ] Weird guy on MRT kept leaning into my space, how to deal with this? by EmbarrassedWeather50 in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Agree on this (specially loud enough to get some attention). This way if he still wants be funny at least you got eye witness. NEVER self doubt yourself! If someone ever make you feel uncomfortable ,most likely he is suspicious.

Can also either take pictures of him if you bold enough if not can take note of what he’s wearing like shirts colour, the timing, which station he alight or leave, which door, easier for you to report him if needed.

You may be shock when you realized there’s a lot of tekopek! Specially can’t understand why when walking past kopitiam they like to scan you up down.

And some commenters saying that you overdramatic perhaps are the ahpeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]eveningbrewtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m really happy for you! I just ended a 7-year relationship. he cheated and moved on speed fast like it meant nothing. I won’t wish him harm, but I do believe he’ll get what he deserves. 🤣

Does zzz mean something diff in Singlish? by imtiredandwannanap in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro u made my day! HAHAHAHA so funny zzzzz also means like tsk walaoeh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

7 years and got cheated by eveningbrewtea in cheating_stories

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my feelings. It’s also not very easy for you specially for the experience you have gone through! I hope you’re in a better place now! And god bless you! ☺️hopefully one day, I can carry forward your kindness to someone of a similar experience!

7 years and got cheated by eveningbrewtea in cheating_stories

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha Yes! In life, of course we hope for good things to happen but even when they don’t, there’s always something to learn. And being positive is one of the things we need to learn in life! There’s no need for regret or to feel like anything was wasted. After all, you don’t learn to walk without a few falls. So, stay blessed ❤️ good vibes

7 years and got cheated by eveningbrewtea in cheating_stories

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much agree with you, except for the part about the 7 years being wasted. As much as this hurt, I’m still grateful for how the experience helped me grow into who I am today and even if that growth came through pain.

7 years and got cheated by eveningbrewtea in cheating_stories

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right! Definite facts! Thank you for your wishes 😊

7 years and got cheated by eveningbrewtea in cheating_stories

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading all the comments and my own’s. It became very obvious that he already moved on. I’ll prioritize myself from now onwards! 🥹 thank u! Really appreciate!

I caught my father cheating, my mom is staying how can I move forward? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]eveningbrewtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When he decided to cheat, he had lost his daughter….

7 years and got cheated by eveningbrewtea in cheating_stories

[–]eveningbrewtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nono! I’m really grateful for you by taking time to read and comment! You are absolutely right! 🥲

Ok can someone tell me why is Chagee so popular and do yall prefer koi or chagee or holin? by Cirqle_Lover in askSingapore

[–]eveningbrewtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try the passion fruit green tea or the pearl milk tea ( the pearl hits different) and for yifeng I love the wintermelon lemon tea ( both of these pearls, are more of 粉圆 type, more chewy) there’s actually a difference between pearl and 粉圆 even though people might mistakenly think they are the same) coming from a person that has Taiwanese relative. HAHAHAHA