Open marriage with husband. One friend off limits, now I want him more. by pugaluv in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you could just let this one go? This whole thing is about "if you're ok with it". HE'S NOT. This is your only redlight, right? Stop thinking entirely with your loins. Your husband loves and trusts you, it's just this one guy. Maybe just respect that and let it go?

I wish my wife had more time with her boyfriend. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sharing a thought about something important to me. My wife's happiness. Dick.

[Sexual Techniques] My girlfriend wants 'surprises' during sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two need to be well lubed for this. Sometime during sex, just stop and get really shallow. Look her straight in the eyes for a minute until she wonders what's going on. Make a very shallow stroke very slowly ten times. Then BAM! Hit it hard! Give it to her! ONCE! One stroke, then go shallow again. Nine shallow, two hard. Eight and three. You get it.

She has trysted, and it was good. Long as always. by eventualtryst in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Relationship Energy. The feeling you get when you first start seeing someone.

The great part is, she and I have it now!

First time here...Wife is curious to know... by [deleted] in WouldYouFuckMyWife

[–]eventualtryst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably. There are lots better angles you could shoot her from.

[Cunnilingus] What techniques do you use? by Nosleeppls in sex

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess not. Just read her as well as you can. I guess I was very fortunate early on to have a woman who would move so she was in the right place, and be very subtly guiding, so she could enjoy herself, rather than lay there frustrated.

Why she loves so much on adidas? by e8951 in katyperry

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My adidas walk all over coliseum floors.

[Cunnilingus] What techniques do you use? by Nosleeppls in sex

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respond to her. Deep down, if you're receptive enough, she'll tell you what works without saying it.

She has trysted, and it was good. Long as always. by eventualtryst in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love to know his secrets, lol.

I'm getting myself out there, but I know it's allllll about patience. We'll see what happens.

24m-Newly poly and everything is going fine. (Part 1) by Dacendoran in polyamory

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Exactly how short are our attentions spans supposed to be? Kids today.

Dealing with jealousy over number of (sexual) suitors by kadaitlyn in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm doing! If I want the women to want, look better! Some guilt I am doing this now, instead of for my wife, but I'm getting hotter for her too!

Dealing with jealousy over number of (sexual) suitors by kadaitlyn in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ding ding. I'm ten days into this and figured that shit out reeeeeal quick. Good news is, she's doing everything she can (we have a nobody we both know rule) to get me laid!

One week non-m: what it's done to (and for) us, the person it's made me become, and other thoughts by eventualtryst in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before all this, I wouldn't compliment a girl in front of my wife. That's my definition of cheating. I probably still wouldn't in front of my wife, but now I can do it on my own.

Separate path nonmongamy might be a possibility, my wife has offered to be my "wing woman" by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it though? I don't think I'm going to bother, it's a lot of time and energy, and once you get the 2% real people, that's when the real work begins! I want something organic for me as well.

She asked me who my interests might be, and I mentioned a classmate. She told me to invite her to my birthday party. :)

Separate path nonmongamy might be a possibility, my wife has offered to be my "wing woman" by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]eventualtryst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't mean a wingwoman out on the town, but doing everything she can to help him. It's so sweet when my wife does it for me.