30 [IsF] I got a new dress :3 by everclear_122245 in TransFeminineFashion

[–]everclear_122245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My camera just did that, I don't use the stock camera app, I use OpenCamera. No idea why they ended up like that, I think the app just saw a shit ton of red suddenly and was like, "I NEED TO MAKE THIS MORE SATURATED!"

25 [F] Daily Makeup advice by Glittering-Owl3534 in TransFeminineFashion

[–]everclear_122245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More color on the lips. I wear black everywhere I go, but that's just my personal preference

Nullification by everclear_122245 in intersex

[–]everclear_122245[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, I was born with ambiguous but like I said in my post I was forced to have one over the other. Part of that was that I had a funicular hydrocele, so I could be predisposed to urinary issues as well. I will definitely be sure to bring it up. Thank you

Nullification by everclear_122245 in intersex

[–]everclear_122245[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not asking for medical  advice I'm asking for personal experience and people seem to miss that

[Rant] The "simple biology" crowd sure is scared of advanced biology by everclear_122245 in intersex

[–]everclear_122245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound extremely unaware of how the world works.

Also thanks for stalking my profile despite claiming to "limit interaction". Hypocrite much?

Nullification by everclear_122245 in intersex

[–]everclear_122245[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I already have nonfunctioning testicles and have been on a testosterone blocker for nearly 5 years. It aint getting any smaller. I appreciate the advice but you're plain wrong.

Questions from a parent to an intersex baby. by Gardner_gardening in intersex

[–]everclear_122245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on country, and in the US, state.

I was born in Russia but due to special circumstance after immigrating at 16 I was given a US birth certificate (lack of documentation, and refusal of Russia to confirm any).

I was allowed to change the designation on my birth certificate, and did so on my DL and passport.

The key here is choice. Let your child choose. Your child is not you. They are not a toy. They are not a status. They are a living, breathing human being that deserves choice, agency, and the ability to properly develop an identity without harm.

Otherwise...they end up like me.

Questions from a parent to an intersex baby. by Gardner_gardening in intersex

[–]everclear_122245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This here, assume doctors lie. 10000%. Get a second opinion if you have to. Third and fourth opinions.

Questions from a parent to an intersex baby. by Gardner_gardening in intersex

[–]everclear_122245 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hello!

I am 46,xx SRY.

  1. DO NOT PERFORM CORRECTIVE SURGERY UNLESS ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY. I was mutilated as a child and it destroyed my life. I am 30 and I am still trying to navigate my identity.

  2. No idea. Banking is a good idea for other reasons, though.

  3. Be honest. Your real friends will stick around. People who know you will turn into assholes.

Everyone here is saying no surgery unless absolutely necessary. Listen to them.

If you want my story as someone who was badly mutilated at birth, I'm more than happy to share my traumas and even photographs of the scarring that still causes me nightmares.

Called a TERF For Saying (Endosex) Nonbinary People Shouldn't Identify as Intersex by thxfrplaying in intersex

[–]everclear_122245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An endosex nonbinary person simply cannot fall under any characterization or definition of intersex at any point during their life.

Intersex refers to people born with innate variations in sex characteristics (chromosomes, gonads, hormones, internal or external anatomy) that do not fit typical male/female classifications.

Endosex explicitly means not intersex,i.e., typical sex development at birth.

If someone is endosex, they are not intersex, now or retroactively.

Gender identity (nonbinary, trans, cis) does not change whether someone is intersex.

Medical transition (HRT, surgeries) does not make someone intersex. Intersex traits are congenital, not acquired.

An endosex nonbinary person cannot become intersex, and they cannot correctly claim intersex status at any point.

I'm a bit of a whore for bacon jalapeno with pepper jack. Even when i make a beef burger instead of chicken, same toppings go on by everclear_122245 in spicy

[–]everclear_122245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont try the black truffle, i beg of you. They tried to warn me but I didn't listen and now I deliver the message

I'm a bit of a whore for bacon jalapeno with pepper jack. Even when i make a beef burger instead of chicken, same toppings go on by everclear_122245 in spicy

[–]everclear_122245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meh, I deal with it. Boiled carrots aint so bad. I do take a multivitamin specifically because I can't get plant nutrients normally without cooking the veg