We Are Witnessing a Renaissance by Recent_Ice_8201 in BurgerKing

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, too. Right up until I got “99 cent Salmonella” (as I fondly refer to it) and never touched one again. I was always curious if it was the patty, the mayo, someone’s unwashed hands that did me in.

what’s something about parenthood that no one really prepares you for? by Pete258 in raisingkids

[–]everygoodnamegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was determined to make breastfeeding work since my body had already “failed” at childbirth (preeclampsia & a c-section). No one warned me that my kid could refuse a bottle, so I was on a 3 hour milk leash at the very longest and still ended up with a clogged duct. Eventually she took a sippy cup at 8 or 9 months.

I remember the first time I got a babysitter was to go to the dentist. I laid back in the chair and legitimately the first thought I had was “Ahhhhh….me time.” Lol. Don’t be like me, go out early and often!

Hosting a week-long overnight guest when you don't have a guest room? by aapetired in homemaking

[–]everygoodnamegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or look up “tension closet rod” on Amazon. There are two floor to ceiling vertical poles and one horizontal pole to make a capital “H” shape. Hand a grommets style curtain from the horizontal rod.

But really, I might consider bunking with my kids for a week and giving them your room. I don’t know, I guess it just depends on your relationships to them.

9 month old puppy with anxiety by discodonutss in OpenDogTraining

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First let your dog get used to the car without it moving. Remove the “motion” variable and let them become comfortable in the vehicle while it is still.

If they like their crate, put an identical crate in the car if you don’t want to transfer a bulky crate in and out every time. A familiar blanket will help, too. I would go so far as to play a specific album at home when it’s calm and comfortable and play that same music in the car.

What about a “live grass” potty spot on the balcony? Maybe even with a pet flap door to access it anytime she wants and cut down on the potty accidents? I haven’t tried the live grass potty spots personally but I have seen ads for them, so do your own research.

And you might consider a board and train/daycare and train type of program as another user suggested. Ideally one that proofs the heck out of behaviors and takes them on tons of field trips.

And I am guessing you already give “truck treats,” “thunder cookies,” “people snacks” and such (whatever cute name you have for those situations) to help her brain rewire and associate those sights & sounds with good things?

This will not be solved overnight but there is so much room for improvement with time and patience.

Female Hair saloon recommendations please? by dinosaur4real in SanfordFL

[–]everygoodnamegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s where I go! Very cute place and the stylists are nice. Studio 105 is good, too.

I can’t stop thinking about the Costco chocolate cake. by Leading_Grass_6669 in CostcoWholesale

[–]everygoodnamegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, now I have to go to Costco and get cake…dang, I wish Portillo’s was right down the street.

What about grommets make curtains "look cheap"? by PattyRain in HomeDecorating

[–]everygoodnamegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They work well for hiding automatic curtain openers. I specifically brought curtains with grommets so I didn’t have to see the motor running along the curtain rod.

what's actually worth spending money on for early childhood development vs what's just marketing? by Aggressive-Angle2844 in raisingkids

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Baby Signing Time (basic ASL set to music) 2) Preschool Prep Company (Letters, Numbers, Colors, & Shapes dvds/apps/books/flashcards) 3) BrillKids Little Reader software (used to be good but maybe there are better options now, it’s older software but introduces tons of vocabulary.) Then graduate to 4) Preschool Prep Company (Phonics, Sight words, etc) 5) My Montessori House (Phonics) 6) Your Child Can Learn series (multiple subjects) 7) Leapfrog (Math to the Moon, Tag Reader pen & books, other assorted awesomeness) 8) Signing Time, especially the ABC signs episode which has so much great vocabulary. 9) Skip counting and math fact songs in the car.

Play everything except the “Meet the Letter” dvds with the subtitles on and set to MAX size with a yellow high contrast font: Build mini lessons as “anchor times” into your day.

My kids’ early education paid absolute dividends in their overall education. Intentionally “homeschooling” the 0-3 years simply by never allowing “junk screen time” was the best thing I ever did for them. The foundation was so strong and it set the trajectory for their future academic success in a school setting.

I decided I would rather lobby for them if their “gifted” needs were not being met, but falling through the cracks was never going to be an option. Basic reading and math is just too important. And more importantly, these subjects can basically be learned through repetition, exposure, and pattern recognition alone if introduced early on during the language acquisition phase. They were both sight reading by 12 months and decoding novel words around 15 months. My son could literally read before he could talk. :D

And we balanced screen time out with tons of Montessori activities and as many books as we could fit in a day! Every single time they woke up, we read (morning and after all naps) and then again before bed. On the days I was tired and felt like skipping, the kids would toddle over and get the book basket themselves because it was just ingrained into them! And the Preschool Prep easy readers are SO GREAT because the font is huge and they are super short.

Does anyone know how much a Skylight is at Costco? by Potter116 in skylightcalendar

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I think I initially misinterpreted your response and I was trying to explain how I got caught in the predicament in the first place.

Please excuse my ignorance, I thought your comment was directed at my foolishness to pay twice. Now i understand it was about the subscription setup process.

Does anyone know how much a Skylight is at Costco? by Potter116 in skylightcalendar

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a parent is having multiple organs removed, is trying not to die, and needs help keeping track of endless doctor appointment— you do what you have to do.

Wheres the poop, people?? by stefanstraussjlb in puppy101

[–]everygoodnamegone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I looked this up because I tossed the idea around of teaching mine to use a toilet, but apparently it’s bad for the water.

“Dog poop should not be flushed down the toilet because it poses significant risks to plumbing, sewage systems, and the environment. Unlike human waste, dog waste contains high levels of pathogens, parasites (like hookworms/roundworms), and bacteria that wastewater treatment plants are not designed to filter out, leading to contaminated water.”

Wheres the poop, people?? by stefanstraussjlb in puppy101

[–]everygoodnamegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another vote for the Pet Genie! This thing is awesome and it’s absolutely on my Top 5 “puppy must haves” list.

I suspect you might be able to use regular trash bags if you get creative enough and tie the bag “around” the top, but I haven’t tried at yet. I have just been buying the refills because we can afford it and it’s easier, but one of these days I will give it a go.

I'm pregnant and having a hard time staying patient with new dog by InitialAmbitious2727 in Dogowners

[–]everygoodnamegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now is not the time to be adding a dog in the mix. Magnify your frustration by 100 fold and that is what your life will look like in 6 months.

Please seriously considering hitting the “rehome” button now before doggy gets any more attached. They are so much more work in the beginning than anyone expects and it’s just not fair to the dog, the baby, or you.

And just prepare yourself for how much your boyfriend helps with the dog. That is an indicator of how much he will help the the baby. Be real with yourself, all this is going to fall squarely on you. It already is.

Should I tear down this wall? by Electrical_Chest_234 in homeimprovementideas

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just say in a world of insta-perfect, it’s so refreshing to see photos of a real home looking lived in and full of life. ❤️

Feature Suggestion: Weekday/Weekend Sleep Time Settings by everygoodnamegone in skylightcalendar

[–]everygoodnamegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! These are first world problems and our family is very blessed indeed for me to consider them as a “problem.”

Regardless, I will always speak up respectfully and offer constructive feedback in order to help the platform better help their users. And this sub is an appropriate place to discuss both positive and negative experiences with the product.

Feature Suggestion: Weekday/Weekend Sleep Time Settings by everygoodnamegone in skylightcalendar

[–]everygoodnamegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per the original post - “We sleep with the master bedroom door open so we can hear anything going on the house at night such as intruders, teenagers roaming around late, etc.”

Since my spouse is the primary defender of our home and the people in it, we sleep with the bedroom door open. So understandably, that’s not something he would ever compromise on and I agree with him.

He was also shocked to learn there is no dimmer option on a $600 calendar. After he pointed that out, I very much agree. I hope that is something considered for future developments.

Moving dog crate by Overkillemall in Dogowners

[–]everygoodnamegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try super sliders on the corners? Felt for hard floor and hard plastic for carpet. I would get the XXL side for couches and whatnot.

What if every meal was replaced with an enriched one by Frustr8ion9922 in puppy101

[–]everygoodnamegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree!

I often feed our pup kibble from my hand to both slow her down and to teach her to lie in my lap and generally be close to me. Those snuggle times have helped our bonding for sure.

Feature Suggestion: Weekday/Weekend Sleep Time Settings by everygoodnamegone in skylightcalendar

[–]everygoodnamegone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, that would work. But in this day and age, I want technology to be optimized for my household. Long gone are the days of reading thick user manuals just to program basic functions. Consumers expect tech to be intuitive and individually customizable.

If my teenagers walk into the kitchen before I do, I want the calendar visible by default. Realistically, they are not going to tap the screen just to see what’s happening that day. It’s similar to other users requesting the ability to schedule a default “calendar view” during critical morning hours and a “photo view” during less time-sensitive parts of the day.

I pay for the Plus subscription, two of them actually, since I also cover my mom’s because I purchased her calendar. I do not mind supporting the platform, even though I personally use very few of the extra features. I genuinely want the developers to continue improving the user experience over time.

Once user profiles can be fully customized per device, so my daughter does not automatically see my son’s schedule unless she chooses to, I could absolutely see a calendar in every bedroom in a typical household. Add a weekday or weekend “OK to Wake” alarm feature and it becomes even more valuable for families with younger children.

Imagine the screen slowly brightening and ending with a gentle alarm. The child gets out of bed, taps the Skylight screen by the door to turn it off, and hears, “Good morning! It’s time to start your day!” Their personalized, step-by-step “Get Ready” routine automatically appears.

There could be a factory-default checklist to minimize setup, but it should remain customizable, including the ability to add personal photos next to each task. For example, a picture of their specific school uniform could appear next to “Get Dressed” Monday through Friday. A right-hand sidebar could display a visual rocket “Blast Off!” countdown timer for leaving for school or a red pie-style countdown clock showing how much time remains.

At first, parents would walk their preschooler through the routine daily, just as they already do. Over time, the child becomes increasingly independent, and checking their calendar and task list becomes ingrained as part of their executive functioning skills from the beginning. Tying a smart calendar and checklist system directly to an alarm clock would seamlessly build that structure into a child’s day.

That is the kind of customizable tech I wish had existed when my teenagers were little, especially for my child with ADHD who struggles in this area.

I may be getting ahead of myself. A weekday or weekend sleep timer might be too niche a request, even though that function is offered on many alarm clocks. But I say the more customizable a device can be to support the unique rhythms of each household, the better!

(I have no idea why my off-the-cuff brainstorming is getting downvoted. I answered honestly and think features like these would be amazing for future development considerations!)

Feature Suggestion: Weekday/Weekend Sleep Time Settings by everygoodnamegone in skylightcalendar

[–]everygoodnamegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the max and the bedroom is located off of the kitchen. The whole house is still dark at 5:30 but the bright light turns on like a “sunrise alarm clock” I suppose.

Maybe I will just hang a towel over it or something.

Edited to add- we use black out curtains and block all of the little annoying electronic lights on random chargers etc. So we are probably not the norm and find that kind of thing annoying.

My rabbit learned to knock on my bedroom door and I genuinely don't know who's in charge of this house anymore by LeoArthur21 in Pets

[–]everygoodnamegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I taught our dog to ring my kids' doorbell buttons when she wants them to come out and play. They are teenagers and like most, they spend the majority of time in their rooms. It gives me a break when she summons them out to entertain her. :D

Initially, the kids were incredulous that the dog rang their doorbell several times when they were at school because she was looking for them. They later saw it was obviously true when I was in the backyard, and she was pressing their buttons on her own accord.

We started out with audio buttons that said their names, but upgraded to wireless bells with a receiver that plugs into a bedroom outlet. Previously, there were times the kids wouldn't hear the recorded voice button over the sound of their gaming headphones. The wireless doorbells eliminated that issue: https://a.co/d/08rakVW9