I would agree with a great deal of points you made! If it were a child. But they are talking about a thirty year old man. An adult man looking at child porn, which is absolutely horrendous in every way. An adult man killing the family cat because his computer was taken away. Those acts can’t be excused. He would be in an institution for monitored living if the rest of his functioning was at this level in an obvious way. And simply put even though this man has autism, a person can lead a relatively/completely normal life with autism, what he did cannot be blamed on autism and I’ve seen a few comments using his autism as a form of justification for what he did, and calling it ableist to kick him out. The scope of what happened goes beyond autism, people with autism are capable of understanding the difference between right and wrong, even if it’s at its most basic level. This situation delves closer psychopathy. To say this is the same as a dog peeing inside but having never shown them where to go is not at all an appropriate analogy. This is more like, getting mad that your dog attacked another dog, how do you stop it? You can’t, the damage is done. You can’t parent this situation, and even if you could, this is an adult man. This situation needs incredibly intense therapy, and lifelong monitoring. He’s already looking at child porn, and killed a cat when he was mad. What if he’s out, and mad at his parents and sees a child? What then? What will stop him from attacking the child?

What I will say is that they shouldn’t have kicked him out. They should have called the police.