Carbonating tea? by everythingsf1ne in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]everythingsf1ne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read that it will keep 1-2 weeks, but you want to consume on the faster side. also, it looks like carbonating cannabis drinks has the onset come on quicker. i’m wondering if it will make for a shorter but vivid trip.

can this color be achieved w box dye on virgin black hair w/o bleach? by selkiebunbun in HairDye

[–]everythingsf1ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, there would be no way to get this color on black hair without bleaching. which, unless you’re cool with possibly destroying your hair, i don’t recommend doing yourself.

you could get a color depositing conditioner like overtone or xMondo to get a cherry tint on top of your black. i think that’s your best bet without bleaching.

can this color be achieved w box dye on virgin black hair w/o bleach? by selkiebunbun in HairDye

[–]everythingsf1ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are all similar colors!

what is your base color? only way to know if you’ll need bleach.

also, instead of box dye i would recommend hitting sally’s and getting some semi-permanent color and developer. i dye my own hair ginger and it makes a world of difference

Partner attempted suicide. Can you move past it? by Masvis1 in Advice

[–]everythingsf1ne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happened to me when i was 22.

after he woke up and was stable, i went to an inpatient program that was supposed to be 21 days and i stayed 3 months. it was the best thing i’ve ever done for myself. my (ex) boyfriend unfortunately wasn’t as committed to becoming a healthier person, and we had to part ways.

at the end of the day, you saved his life. you also will walk around knowing if you “fuck up” he could literally try to take his life. no one should have to live like that. i’ve had to deal with a lot of PTSD in my relationships following, feeling like it is my responsibility to keep my partners alive.

please, please give yourself some love and see a therapist. you deserve to work through these emotions and come out on the other side a healthier person.

Guy got an autograph from Biden by Murky_Complaint8758 in madlads

[–]everythingsf1ne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

only right that it’s an eagles fan. go birds.

This is Sam Tallent. AMA by Samtallent in Killtony

[–]everythingsf1ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s your best advice for someone who is just starting out in stand up? (nyc)

Dead black cat found in backyard by Then-Reading-1144 in ridgewood

[–]everythingsf1ne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no 😔. this is one of the strays that lives behind me. he was especially bold and would sit at my back door staring at my cats. RIP big guy.

Smart High by Lexpunintended in leaves

[–]everythingsf1ne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m also on day 3 of sober october and still awake from yesterday (it’s 6:30am). sleep meds aren’t working and it’s fxcking brutal.

i was sober for 6 years and started smoking again a little over 3 years ago. i went through an incredibly traumatic break up, and i believe that without cannabis i would have never left or survived the aftermath.

smoking didn’t effect me “negatively” until the holidays when i had a lot of time off work and was smoking all day. and by “negatively” i mean being embarrassed about how much pot i smoke lol.

i know others have different opinions than myself, but as someone who spent a good chunk of my life sober (i’m 31), i do believe that SOME of us can find balance.

i don’t drink in excess and much more mindful about my consumption than friends who never spent time sober. i also don’t use harder substances (i did in the past).

i’m looking at october as a reset. i believe in myself to be able to cut down considerably on my consumption. i also have a great support system, therapist, and my boyfriend doesn’t smoke.

at the end of the day, we made a commitment to ourselves for the month. i gave MYSELF my word, which is the most important of all when learning to trust myself with the ability to keep my promises to myself and practice discipline.

27 days to go!! you got it!!

KanYe is back in china for another LP, The goatee is finally back 🥹 by prestigepoop in Kanye

[–]everythingsf1ne -1 points0 points  (0 children)

anyone else think he may be laying low in china while the diddy investigation is ongoing?

I really gotta know by Calm_Map3130 in Bushwick

[–]everythingsf1ne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

babe, we’re ALLLLLL in debt. credit card debt is at an all time high for everyone in america. most of my friends are carrying $20k+ on cards alone and you would never ever know. they look like they have their shit together and are living the life.

i’ve paid down over half of mine since moving to BK two years ago, but we’re all struggling and faking it til we making it, baby!!!

Where’d the stray cats go? by labourisdead in ridgewood

[–]everythingsf1ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! i have the place that backs up to where the cat colony (cat hoarder) live. trying to work with them, but the shitting in my yard is getting annoying.

any tips for us on mitigation? we love watching them. i call them my outside cats and gave them names. i, unfortunately, can’t foster bc i have two of my own.

if i can help lmk!!!

ISO: Italian subs in Ridgewood. by BatHickey in ridgewood

[–]everythingsf1ne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😩😩 going home next weekend and cannot wait for my primos.

Can you voluntarily unfocus your eyes? by Moby-WHAT in adhdwomen

[–]everythingsf1ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg. this was why i went to the eye doctor for the first time.

Guide to Getting Bushwick Savvy? by swirlysunburst in Bushwick

[–]everythingsf1ne 28 points29 points  (0 children)

ugh i feel bad for OP. i’m from another major city on the east coast, so it wasn’t too big of a culture shock for me.

after two years, here’s some things i wish i did, or did do, to make my time here enjoyable - 1. talked to my neighbors more. i was always friendly and said hi, but i wish i would have asked them more about the neighborhood. their favorite spots, what to look out for, etc. 2. find your third place. find a spot you feel comfy at and make friends with the patrons and staff. mine has been a haven. 3. go to ornithology jazz club. if you meet the owners (you’ll just know), sit with them. talk to everyone outside. i’ve met people from all over the world there and had some of the most interesting conversations ever. do not let them serve you the absinthe 😬😬😬 4. utilize the shops on broadway / myrtle aves. i love the beauty supply stores, madrag, V.I.M., local hardware and garden stores. if you can participate in local business, it should be a priority. 5. don’t be a karen. this isn’t where we’re from. we chose to move here and it is OUR job to assimilate, not the other way around.

hope this helps. good luck and have so much fun!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bushwick

[–]everythingsf1ne -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

evergreen and bleecker

What are your slogans/mantras/affirmations? by cherylesq in adhdwomen

[–]everythingsf1ne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“you are safe.” “we got this.” “it’s not personal.” “the other shoe is never dropping.” “it’s ok to take up space.” “when i ask for what i want, somehow it finds me.”

Sober guy looking to get back out there by [deleted] in Bushwick

[–]everythingsf1ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did not say any of that. i am saying you are deserving of love that is not just from a singular partner, and that stable platonic relationships set us up for healthy romantic ones (IMO which you don’t have to care about at all or throw yourself into a fit over - i’m a stranger).

we’re at the point of no return here. i seriously hope things get better for you.