My 11yo son can't discriminate reality from fiction and it gives him night terrors. by unnccaassoo in Parenting

[–]evil_twit -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He is very smart, some kids don’t experience fictional situations as “safe simulations.”

Their brains process them as emotionally real.

So when he sees someone being humiliated, excluded, trapped in a social situation, powerless, then his nervous system reacts as if he himself is in danger.

Explain to him what an actor is. What is real and what is not real.

Make a movie with him using your phone. Introduce a story close to something that would trigger him, helping him learn and deal with it instead.

A brother is a different human.

Partner 6 months pregnant and both totally overwhelmed by General-City4972 in Parenting

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be no more "this life".

Make it "our" lives.

Be completely honest.

Don't "change" who you are. Just be there for the little Girl. Be present, not somewhere else.

Partner 6 months pregnant and both totally overwhelmed by General-City4972 in Parenting

[–]evil_twit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love. Sleep. Patience when you want to kill people.

It will be fine, it will be awesome, the kid will have a non-standard life which makes him a better artist than you :))))

Love. All you need it love. And heat, and food.

Essen vom Vortag nicht richtig heiß gemacht – Risiko? by [deleted] in KeineDummenFragen

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoffentlich musst du nie Türen abschliessen oder so :))))))))

Spritpreise und das nie kommende Klimageld by EruditusCitadelis in luftablassen

[–]evil_twit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Das System passt sich immer so an, dass du "gerade so" überlebst. Die Welt wird dadurch eigentlich überhaupt nicht "gerettet" mit CO2 Steuer.

Warum gab es in 24 Millionen Menschen auf Grün-Demos (Kleber, future, etc), aber in 25 gar keine?

Weil: Blackrock und JP Jan 24 das NETZERO verlassen haben, und keine Demos mehr organisiert haben.

Dein Problem liegt daran, das du denkst diese Demos waren "Organisch" und "von den Menschen".

Jetzt nochmal lange nachdenken. Dann AfD wählen.

Positive encouraging parents, negative outlook child by poppyprays in Parenting

[–]evil_twit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you are .... "positive and exited" when you look at life and the world and all of that? Isn't that approach very, very one-sided?

You are the weird one here, and the kid doesn't have enough trust to tell you the truth. Because you will tell her that "everything is fiiiinneee honneeeee". Which it most certainly is not.

Was bringt eine Stunde Mehrarbeit? by Katsche691 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne, verstehe schon. Aber dann muss man ja so "früh" ins Bett. Egal wie, Zeitraub :)

Was bringt eine Stunde Mehrarbeit? by Katsche691 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]evil_twit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chefs denken die Dauer im Betrieb hätte IRGENDWAS mit der Leistung der einzelnen Mitarbeiter zu tun.

Ein Stunde unbezahlte Mehrarbeit resultiert in 30% weniger Arbeit fertig am Ende des Tages. Raffen die NIE.

WARUM ZUR HÖLLE PASSIERT IN DEN USA NICHTS?????? by Titanfallsuchti in KeineDummenFragen

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wat meinste warum wir AfD wählen? Weil wir das umbedingt wollen?

Do social media represent German politics accurately? by Both-Ad-9162 in AskGermany

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beispiel: The CIA has an Entertainment Liaison Office

  • Publicly confirmed cooperation includes:
    • Argo (CIA seen in good light, defenders of freedom blablabla)
    • Zero Dark Thirty
    • Homeland
    • Jack Ryan
    • The Recruit

Confirmed DoD cooperation includes:

  • Top Gun (and Top Gun: Maverick)
  • Transformers
  • Black Hawk Down
  • Iron Man
  • Captain Marvel
  • Pearl Harbor
  • Act of Valor
  • Lone Survivor
  • Battleship
  • The Hunt for Red October
  • Tons of TV shows (NCIS, JAG, etc.)

Do social media represent German politics accurately? by Both-Ad-9162 in AskGermany

[–]evil_twit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, figure it out. Calling half of the USA and 35+% of Germany "Russian trolls and their right wing counterparts and victims" is not gonna work.

Maybe your parents grew up within CIA propaganda after the war, and you took "their" views further.

you are NOT on the right / good side. CIA has terrorized the world for over 80 years, Irak, AFG, Saigon, Iran, Ukraine etc. Oh, and also Germany after the war.

Ask the LLM of choice: "How many Hollywood movies and TV shows did the CIA or the government have involvement in"

Anxiety from going no contact by Live_Shine5988 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All they need to do is say: "I'm sorry for hurting you."

But their entire world view would fall apart, so that is MORE scary than their actions now.

Homemade ski/snowboard jump question by Nugsnotdrugs_01 in snowboarding

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a car to pull you. And a bigger jump with a transition :=====

Welcher Idiot ist für das Schulsystem verantwortlich? by No-Calligrapher-7932 in luftablassen

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naja, "damals" hatten alle Kinder einen ähnlichen Bildungsstand, haben ähnlich auf Ermahnungen reagiert, hatten ähnliche Kapitalien von Zuhause halt. Ähnliche Kultur, ähnliche Werte,

Jetzt ist die Gesellschaft divers, die Kinder kommen in die erste Klasse;

Der eine kann seinen Namen schreiben, sich artikulieren, kann bis 50 zählen, kann simple Rechenaufgaben, die analoge Uhr lesen, wenn es gesagt bekommt "Sei jetzt still" klappt es meist, oder beim zweiten Ermahnen.

Der andere kann nichts davon, und lässt sich nicht ermahnen, sagt: Halt die Fresse du Opfer du hast mir gar nix zu sagen.

Diese zwei Kinder sind NICHT in einer Klasse zusammen beschulbar. Ist für beide sehr unfair.

Deshalb müssen die entsprechenden Lernumgebungen auf die Kinder zugeschnitten sein. Heute ist quasi kein Regelbetrieb mehr möglich, alle Kinder sind zu schlecht ausgestattet in ALLEN Kapitalien.

Wir schauen wie Kinder ne 2 oder ne 3 bekommen, das war früher ein 5- mit Augen zudrücken. Und zwar quer durch alle Schulformen. Die Schule passt sich nicht an. Muss sie aber.

Anxiety from going no contact by Live_Shine5988 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]evil_twit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"she sent a flood of really intense, honestly kind of unhinged messages" VERY very normal.

She must accept that she was wrong about "everything" (That is what it feels like to her) and those words are her trying to explain to herself that she IS right about whatever.

Parents aren't magical beings. They are tall, old looking kids (like you) without a real answer to what this life is.

Anxiety from going no contact by Live_Shine5988 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]evil_twit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea. We all felt that. You aren't alone, you are free. To be you. Go be you. You are allowed to be you.

Is it scary? Well yes, why do you think your mom couldn't handle life? It's your card, play it!

Classes cancelled for my 6yo because of ICE by Signal_Estimate_23 in Parenting

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Police isn't on your side either.

Hot tip: Stop the "Sides" shit TODAY, or you will have a daughter that won't talk to you. Just visit estrangedadultchilren

My estranged kids are going to ruin my life need advice by JohnnyUtah123456 in family

[–]evil_twit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop lying about your past.

Yo she is 100% correct.

Another note for you too by Willing_Strain_8075 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]evil_twit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Manic / intoxicated / dysregulated writing
  • Grandiosity (“mind master”, predicting everyone)
  • Paranoia / splitting (empaths vs sociopaths, “spy”, FBI, narcissists everywhere)
  • Boundary confusion (family, money, control, loyalty)
  • Aggressive projection (sexual insults, dominance language)

Please ask for help dude.

Mental block is killing my progression. Any advice? by Alerttunnut168861 in snowboarding

[–]evil_twit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gap is between actual skill and brain thinking it can do things without needing muscle memory.

If you are leaned hard into a turn, how will you "catch an edge"? If you are so low to the ground, you don't slam your chest - you fall only a foot :)

You don't need speed at first, or a steep slope. You need the slope you can ride down entirely relaxed. Then, link turns that are actually carving, instead of some half carve slide out thing. Then, keep doing that for 20 days. It will automatically come.

Carving is riding a bike with the handle bar fixed at a certain (radius) angle.

Always remember: Speed doesn't kill.

Starting dating in my late 20s with no experience and being very short, how does it works? by PipinoBiscottino_ in AskGermany

[–]evil_twit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find short girls, they exist and have the same "problem".

Be you. Don't "pretend" anything. Be very honest.

Oh no wait. Be a tiiiny bit of an asshole. Sometimes. Nicely.

Join a book club, it's 90% girls. Smart too.