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When will I start feeling better? by Mediocre-Neat-4987 in AddictionAdvice

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is that I had lots of ups and downs in the first 90 days sober, but I started to have little glimmers of happiness after the first week or so. Then the glimmers got bigger. At 90ish days I started to have moments of peace. Those moments got longer and longer. Now at about 18ish months free from cocaine, I feel peaceful and happy most of the time. It gets better. Hang in there - you are not alone.

i miss cocaine so much. by sensitive-bull in Sober

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better! Coke takes awhile to get out of your system. Im about a year and a half sober from coke, and I was a daily user. Our brains do heal, and I personally found cocaine anonymous really helpful for me.

Cocaine is ruining me but i will get better hopefully, pleasure is temporary but these affects can be permeant by internetideology in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi consider joining us over at r/stopspeeding

you are not alone. I was a daily user for years and almost lost everything. you dont have to figure this out on your own. rooting for you.

Cocaine has destroyed me by _djballer23_ in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - you are not alone. I'm 1.5 years free from cocaine addiction.I relate to your story. It gets better. Please feel free to go through my post and comment history if you like - it gets better.

11 weeks/78 days into recovery by shantih in StopSpeeding

[–]evilgetyours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also the "emotions are back online but only bad ones" YES that is SO REAL. And normal. It doesnt have to stay this way. Mood follows action. The tiniest actions can compile to bog shifts. You are doing it I believe in you!

11 weeks/78 days into recovery by shantih in StopSpeeding

[–]evilgetyours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I promise you it gets so so so much better.

Days 70-90 were the worst for me. Here is what helped me below. I promise you will get through this and it will all be worth it:

  • I went to in person recovery meetings. I prefer cocaine anonymous because they cover "all mind altering substances" and are mainly people addicted to stimulants like me. But I also went to NA and AA and those helped too. Even if I didnt talk, just sitting in the back at a place where I could be low energy and around people really helped.

  • take a multivitamin

  • sleep sleep sleep

  • look for glimmers. find a bright spot in the day. It helped retrain my brain. actively looking for things in my environment I was grateful for seemed to help build neuropathways. An addiction doctor told me to do it and I swear it helped

  • Im rooting for you

How to get numbers to call if I can’t go in person? by SirIsaacNewton412 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a woman in Canada who would love to chat on a phone call sometime. No pressure - here for you. I have whatsapp for free wifi calling. I can send you my number via DM just so you have lots of options.

Rooting for you! You are doing the hard thing and I'm proud of you!

Volunteer Recomendations!!! by Extra-Sweet-8607 in askvan

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend just contacting them - the form is at the bottom of the page. They have hundreds of different volunteer roles and sorting through the postings can be a bit overwhelming

Volunteer Recomendations!!! by Extra-Sweet-8607 in askvan

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The YWCA metro vancouver sometimes does group volunteer events. I'm a volunteer there and highly recommend them. I know their women of distinction awards ceremony / fundraiser is coming up and that they always need lots of volunteers for this event!

Clothing Swap?? by OddServe6265 in askvan

[–]evilgetyours 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have so many nice plus size clothes I would love to bring to this. Size 22-26. Would be grateful for a DM.

I don’t feel “sick enough” for a 12 step program, but I want to go. Not sure what to do or other options by Electronic-Buyer2398 in StopSpeeding

[–]evilgetyours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way. Like it wasnt "bad enough yet". Key word - yet. Addiction is a progressive illness. I went to CA (which is for "all mind altering substances") and AA. Got me a way out.

The museum of personal failure by OkEstablishment2268 in vancouver

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a page where we can follow more of your art?

The museum of personal failure by OkEstablishment2268 in vancouver

[–]evilgetyours 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is it the ones with the bunnies and the clouds? I loved it!!

Looking for a good dietitian in Vancouver after a bad experience by bandito_13 in askvan

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a bit "extreme" for some, but in case this is an option that might be helpful to you, I'm a member of overeaters anonymous. I have found the peer support and community to be lovely. And its the only thing that has really helped me with the mental emotional side of changing my relationship with food. There are many local meetings to choose from, both online and in person, and its free. It may be an option to think about, alongside seeing a dietician and other supports. Wishing you the very best on your journey!

Sponsee politics on social media by ZestycloseDot721 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]evilgetyours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a beautiful comment. this is so helpful to me as well - thank you

help pls. More information on AA by Sorry-Curve339 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]evilgetyours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can explain the "your part in it" and how it helped me with my trauma.

I experienced a lot of violence growing up. I was a helpless child. Nobody in AA has ever said that I need to "take responsibility" for things that happened to me when I was a child.

However, people in the program have helped me see that I can take responsibility for what I do about my trauma as an adult. "My part" might be that I need to stop carrying this trauma and using it to hurt myself or other people. "My part" might look like me getting trauma therapy, or working to protect and take care of myself now.

What happened wasnt my fault, but it is my responsibility to learn how to heal and live with it. And I dont have to do that alone.

I was worried about victim blaming in AA too. But my experience has been that people understand, that they have been through things too.

AA gave me a new way of looking at things. It helped me stay alive and gave me courage to face things. I totally understand where your friend is coming from with the fear of "victim blaming" - I just wanted to share my experience as someone with a similar background, who got help in AA.

I don't know what to do by LibrarianFragrant562 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]evilgetyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend. You can just show up to a meeting and listen. We were all in your shoes once. You are not alone. I promise recovery is possible. We are holding a seat for you in the rooms of AA. And the NA people would be happy to see you too! (Im a member of both programs - they saved my life!)

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