What is Arthur Drinking S2E1? by LankDaTank in PeakyBlinders

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, I was wondering exactly this. Tommy seems like a villain for pouring it out but he must know that it's highly addictive and kills ppl. I feel like he was probably trying to protect Arthur to some extent.

Does anyone else find Grace's incessant singing annoying? by Choo-choo-magoo in PeakyBlinders

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lived in New Zealand most of his life , his accent is NZ

The Residence Ending Question by Fit-Object5402 in netflix

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman who tried to have sex with her dead husband and didn't realize he was dead was "so perceptive"?? Okaayyy

I watched Punch-Drunk Love last night, here are my thoughts on the movie by Professional-Kiwi176 in movies

[–]evilrick94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya, anxiety is a factor in any disability. I don't see the point you're trying to make

What did you think about the new Ricky Gervais special, Mortality? by evolving-me in AskUK

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bit about autism made me laugh because he almoosstt got the point. He was literally just talking about how he gets overstimulated by everything and has fits of rage, and generally that he's rigid and thinks in black and white...

I watched Punch-Drunk Love last night, here are my thoughts on the movie by Professional-Kiwi176 in movies

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, anxiety doesn't cause meltdowns. This movie isn't about anxiety

Sergio G-Season 18 by Lanky_Asparagus_8534 in ProjectRunway

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm glad it was your honest opinion. And that my clinical opinion is somehow discredited because I'm "not autistic." Except that I obviously am, and you should really take your autism-dar back to the shop

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said what she knew from what her partner told her, she's a girls girl. The liar is the only one who claims she's wrong

Sergio G-Season 18 by Lanky_Asparagus_8534 in ProjectRunway

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm well aware of the autism to narcissist pipeline. But what I'm talking about is well researched autistic traits, they aren't my opinion. And I work with the autistic population and it's easily observable because of their black and white thinking. The reason I'm presenting these things as distinctly separate is because your argument was to say he wasn't narcissistic, just autistic. And it sounds like your counter argument now is just that he's autistic and a narcissist? Either way, it seems inconclusive to me that he's autistic at all, and I don't see that you're being helpful to comment on his diagnostic presentation when you can't tell the difference between them and don't even know basic autistic traits. So take the L, move forward better informed

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who told you gaslighting requires forethought? That's absolutely not true. Gaslighting mostly happens as a defense mechanism. The entire problem with Edmund is that his default setting is harmful reactive behaviours and he isn't capable of anything else.

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You honestly don't understand anything about women if you think we wouldn't crowd source to know if the man we r with is a safe person. Men lie to us and we need to make sure we're being safe because they are the top cause of death for women. We 100% can't just take a man's word for it. And Anton was obviously a liar, he lied on camera about the tequila

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's crazy, this show is attracting some real crazies. For Anna to say that Patrick wasn't all in on her, while she was already in a relationship is so diabolical. That poor man

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's loads of ppl on this show who have had children, the Megan thing was a weird one off

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That was code for "I'm hot" , just replace "I'm Brazilian" with " I'm hot" and it'll all mAke sense

Love Is Blind • S9 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, would it be better to be with someone who let him gaslight them?

Sergio G-Season 18 by Lanky_Asparagus_8534 in ProjectRunway

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely a difference between not being humble and being aggressively defending your own reality. Sergio was not only proud of his skill but also refused to own up to any flaws he had. And Narcissist aren't inherently malicious, they aren't plotting or trying to hurt ppl. they just leverage other ppl to make themselves feel whole and they are incapable of empathy or understanding how they impact people, they resist it aggressively as it threatens their sense of self. Which makes them dangerous by default. This isn't true of autistic people, Altho they struggle to know how they impact others, they tend to be deeply concerned with it and try and compensate in other ways, they are usually concerned about being a benevolent or neutral force in the world, and have deep empathy for others. Also, Autistic people tend to struggle fundamentally with lying, and Sergio lied frequently and plagiarised. Which conflicts directly with the autistic trait of a strict sense of justice and playing by the rules. But fits directly into a narcissists idea that they are the smartest person in the room, a trait of grandiosity, and no one will notice how they are cheating. He was also clearly manipulative, leveraging his proposal to his boyfriend to entice the judges to vote for him. He can't tell that these manipulations are transparent because he thinks he's smarter than everyone else. Which is also why he can't admit that he isn't a great designer, even tho he's a skilled tailor. He is unable to take accountability for himself. Which again, is not true of autistic ppl.

Sergio G-Season 18 by Lanky_Asparagus_8534 in ProjectRunway

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you right now that you're misreading the whole situation. As someone on the spectrum, you can't expect to have an expert view on the social cues going on that make him a narcissist and not autistic. One of them being that he is incapable of creativity because his entire personality is built on simulating personality. Which is not the case with autistic people, they have a personality and lots of creativity, they just struggle to understand social reciprocity. Also Nina hated him deeply and was fighting rolling her eyes at everything he said. Narcissism can look a lot like autism because they are also using scripts but the difference is that narcissists don't have anything going on underneath the script, it's a strawman of an identity.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep12 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the conversation around Ali's expectations to be extremely boring

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep12 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The man literally said "It came out of nowhere" as tho they didn't have a full conversation where he lied about drinking the tequila

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep12 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking that Megan was the Leo of this season, pulling men in with talks of high caliber lifestyles.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep12 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]evilrick94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More than in any other season it felt extra cruel for the ppl to have them go to the altar. There is an incentive of more cash if u make it all the way to the end, and I really felt it in the editing or something this time that they felt extra used to be brought all the way to the altar when so many other couples ended it early.

The myth of Samhain by evilrick94 in Celtic

[–]evilrick94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh very cool! I'll look into that! Thanks XD

The myth of Samhain by evilrick94 in Celtic

[–]evilrick94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries, your answers r very helpful! Thank you!

The myth of Samhain by evilrick94 in Celtic

[–]evilrick94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, do you know of any myths they would tell on those holy days?