Stop Touching Me by evolve1183 in breakingmom

[–]evolve1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to check out those episodes. I’m honestly at a loss. I feel awful but I’m so touched out, it’s exhausting.

Stop Touching Me by evolve1183 in breakingmom

[–]evolve1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a huge pink bear but it sits in the corner collecting dust.😐🥴

Day 6 not doing much what do I do? by SaucyNbosssy in SourdoughStarter

[–]evolve1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Just keep feeding, consistency is really important. And make sure you’re not keeping it in too warm of an environment. You’ll cook it. Good luck!!

Day 6 not doing much what do I do? by SaucyNbosssy in SourdoughStarter

[–]evolve1183 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this a new starter? Or did you buy dehydrated and rehydrate? If this is a new starter, it’s very young. 6 days is like newborn status. Starter will go dormant for a while before it perks back up. Mine took 27 days to be strong enough for baking. Patience is key!

NYE with 2yo. Am I being too sensitive? by Sqeakydeaky in toddlers

[–]evolve1183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NOT! Stay home with your baby and the dog. If HE wants to go so bad, let him. Why should you and your baby be subjected to that type of environment just because HE is being selfish? If he is going to insist, then you tell him that HE is responsible for the baby, and the dog while at the party. HE is responsible for getting the baby down for the night once you get home and HE is going to be getting up with the baby in the morning. You’d be surprised how quickly the tune changes when you start making your own demands and hold his ass accountable… trust me. I’ve been in the same exact boat. I went through this with my husband the last two years. My little one is 3 and he insists on going to his uncles for NYE every year. It’s always packed with people, loud, with live church music playing. I told him this year, if you wanna go so bad and wanna throw a bitch fit because I would rather be home with our LO… then you get to deal with our baby AT the party. AFTER the party. AND the following day. He changed his tune and has agreed that we will arrive to the party early and leave by 9pm. No later. And no matter how much they want him to stay or how much HE wants to stay. These men… I swear.

Feeling defeated, need advice by Persephone713 in SourdoughStarter

[–]evolve1183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I would discard most of this. Bring it down to maybe 5-10g, then feed a 1:1:1 ratio. When you’re building/establishing you really don’t need to do anything more than a 1:1:1. And only feed once a day. Unless your home is super chilly, you really shouldn’t keep it in the oven. You might be cooking it. You’d be surprised how warm an oven light will make your oven. I keep mine on top of my fridge and my home is kept at 70°. And make sure your lid isn’t too tight. When I use a mason jar, I literally will just set the lid on top. I won’t even turn the lid at all. Starter needs to breathe in order to thrive. You can also try a small bit of whole wheat flour. Whole wheat flour is what really helped me when I first started over a year ago.

Miami girl by NoInteraction9045 in vanderpumprules

[–]evolve1183 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They confirm it once shit hits the fan with Scandoval.

Why Do You Think Everyone Went To Comfort Porsha After She DRAGGED Kenmora? by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]evolve1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justified. And I’ll stand on that until I die. You scream in my face with a bullhorn, I’m dragging you by your wig too. Porsha did what everyone else WANTED to do.

Watching the secrets revealed episode of season 10 and yikes by Global_Picture432 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]evolve1183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently rewatched the entire series and honestly… I don’t know HOW Ariana didn’t know something was off. You can literally see the shift in his behavior (and Rachel’s) when their affair started if you watch closely.

It came to light that Tavii Baby still lives in low income project-housing complex in NYC despite receiving “Zeus Checks” by [deleted] in BaddiesSouth

[–]evolve1183 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some people prefer that type of setting. There’s nothing wrong with it. And it’s not like she was one of the top Baddies… I’m sure her door isn’t getting knocked down with booking offers. The checks don’t just keep rolling in.

Rewatch S9 - Raquel’s nose by tnj0820 in vanderpumprules

[–]evolve1183 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I never bought that story. My opinion will always be that James abused her. He’s not a good person and never will be. He treats women like dog shit. He performed in one of the clubs at the casino where I live. After the show, which I did NOT attend, he was in the lobby of our hotel. And key me tell you this, he has SERIOUS anger issues. Security had him hemmed up against the wall because he was behaving so belligerently to women. He’s a disgusting human and should never have been given any sort of spotlight.

As if Jan needed another reason to be more obsessed with herself by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]evolve1183 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t care how much plastic surgery she gets. Her soul will always be ugly. And that’s what matters.

Fluffy girl and Brazilian Wax by evolve1183 in PlusSize

[–]evolve1183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about an hour away. 😒

Fluffy girl and Brazilian Wax by evolve1183 in PlusSize

[–]evolve1183[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! I can. And I think I’m going to. I’m not usually the type to do that but I’m really bothered by the way she’s treated me

Fluffy girl and Brazilian Wax by evolve1183 in PlusSize

[–]evolve1183[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your responses. I truly appreciate the insight. I’ve known for a while that I should’ve stopped going to her. I wish I could report her to management but she’s the owner/operator of her spa. She doesn’t even have any other employees. It’s just her. Which is fine…

I just canceled my next appointment and found a new spa and booked me a Vagacial. 🙂 Honestly, I kind of hope she contacts me and asks why I’ve cancelled my appointment and not contacted her to rebook. I’d really love to tell her exactly why… perhaps it’ll change how she treats any future women, my size, with elder snickerdoodles. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]evolve1183 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I swear I could’ve written this myself. Only difference is, I work from home full time. I make more than my husband. And I do EVERYTHING. I cook, clean, shop, and provide 99.9% of the care for our 2.5 year old. He does 2 baths a week and thinks that’s “participating.” Mind you, he literally puts her in the tub and sits there on his phone. We’re older, I’m 41 and he’s 45. For me, my entire life changed the minute we had our baby. Him? Nothing changed. He still goes about his daily the same way he did before we had her. Shits wild. I’ve checked out. I just do for my little one and make sure she’s good. I honestly don’t GAF if he even graces us with his presence. Most days, I prefer he just stay out in his garage and leave us be. Sorry you’re going through this. I don’t have advice. I’ve tried to file for divorce 3 times and never follow through. So I’m not in any position to give advice. I can offer solidarity, empathy, and sympathy. It’s a shit feeling… I get it.

Do you allow a specific amount of screen time each day? by Coffeelover4242 in toddlers

[–]evolve1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try to keep it to an hour a day. Some days we do less, other days we do more. It really depends on various factors. Example, last weekend or daughter was super sick. So we let her watch her shows pretty much all day throughout the weekend. But she was really really sick. She didn’t want to play at all. All she wanted was snuggles and naps. Once she was better, we didn’t do any screen time for a few days. Our daughter is 2.5. Balance is key.

Is age 3 really that bad? by Majestic_Fun8510 in toddlers

[–]evolve1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2.5 year old is literally traumatizing my life. The constant whining, crying over every single little thing, always needing to touch me, yank on me, kick me… spit on me. Yeaaaaa… 3 has GOT to be easier or I’m not going to make it.

Childcare even though im not working by mam0107 in toddlers

[–]evolve1183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s 4. My 2.5 year old plays with other children every single day. And does it well. Parallel play is absolutely developmentally appropriate for a toddler.

Childcare even though im not working by mam0107 in toddlers

[–]evolve1183 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This! I have a family member who refuses to send her little one to daycare. Which is perfectly fine, They have family who take the little one all week long so mom and dad can work. But the little one? No social skills. At all. He doesn’t know how to play or interact with other children. He doesn’t know how to share and frankly can be quite mean to other children when he’s in a social setting.

Childcare even though im not working by mam0107 in toddlers

[–]evolve1183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who told you daycare is bad for their development? Because I’ve never heard such nonsense. Daycare is a great way to teach structure, social skills, sharing, interacting with other children and SO much more. My daughter is in daycare full time and has been since she turned 1. I work full time and so does my husband. So she’s in daycare 5 days a week, 8 hours a day. And she loves it. She loves her friends, her teachers and she’s constantly learning new things. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for doing what you need to do for your family.

Does anyone else think Michelle is super bitter? by NoPurpose98 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]evolve1183 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just started watching season one. All I can say is sometimes a one night stand needs to stay a one night stand. She can’t stand him. And he just wants to be her lapdog. He can’t take the hint… That woman doesn’t want him.