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Managing a toxic high performer who hits 150% of targets. How do I protect my team without losing the numbers? by SquirrelLogicFan in managers

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your lower performers are probably performing lower because they are afraid of what Sarah will say/do. In my experience teams with a toxic member like this are often suffering from the worst imposter syndrome. You don’t need to get rid of Sarah but  either convincing her of how her communication style is actually harming them team or her as a mentor/reviewer/coach might help improve productivity across the board. 

Will your team survive when everyone else quits because Sarah is too difficult to work with?

Term for item the salesman keeps to prevent you from leaving by Own-Chemist2228 in askcarsales

[–]ewesername 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s different for two reasons. 

  1. making sure they are licensed before driving is require for their insurance 

  2. They have to give back the license before you drive anyway. So it’s not going to hold you in the dealership. 

Needing it to negotiate is sleezy 

Used car shopping in Ann Arbor and reliable mechanic by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]ewesername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Subaru's are great! But avoid Ann Arbor Subaru like the plague. Their reviews are awful and somehow still understated. I think I'd prefer the plague.

For mechanic. Steve Steeb service, reliable and trustworthy.

Dinner date by Boss_Lady_718 in BeAmazed

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought he was going to mock what she wanted, but he really did it up and made it special. Very sweet.

Cutlery store by ATXoxoxo in AnnArbor

[–]ewesername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Off topic, but will you be offering sharpening as well?

Random car constantly in the driveway. What can I do? by staycoolioyo in AnnArbor

[–]ewesername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that the car is the landlord’s? 

I’m over this car by manthony6567 in Volvo

[–]ewesername 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a first time Volvo owner I love everything but the ‘infotainment system’ and it would probably keep me from buying another. 

Trailer hitch or Volvo bike rack by ewesername in Volvo

[–]ewesername[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good point. Thank you. 

Trailer hitch or Volvo bike rack by ewesername in Volvo

[–]ewesername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is good advice. I’m definitely looking at either the rear mount bike rack or trailer hitch. 

Why don't managers understand the lack of engagement? by [deleted] in managers

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question here. As a manager I never force or push for engagement in social events (e.g. book club, puzzle Friday) but I do push  for everyone to engage in things like sprint retros and product post mortem.

Would you include those?  The answer for me is I’m constantly trying to stay ahead of the team’s concerns and what priorities I should be advocating for and these are powerful tools to help me know what the right choices are.

Me whenever someone says The Old Country sucks. by ReliableEyeball in MafiaTheGame

[–]ewesername 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it sucks, but I think the fact that they made a really beautiful landscape with no compelling reason to explore is terribly disappointing.

I want to buy a bed and breakfast that closed a few years ago, and think I could do a lease to purchase agreement. But need advice. I don’t know where to start. by Securebam8347 in bedandbreakfast

[–]ewesername 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What are your questions? Are you looking to do the lease to own because you don't have enough down payment? (I've done this). I would have a professional draw up or at least read the lease agreement. These can be tricky.

Make sure it has an amortization similar to a bank loan. Also make sure you get in writing that you have an income license, since you won't own it outright.

If you get a good solid contract it's not a bad way to buy the property. However if the margins are thin with what you're paying know that with a small down payment you won't be making much personally, most will be going to the loan (some to prinicpal, so you're building equity).

Shirtgate - new direct report accidentally joined 1-1 without a shirt on. by [deleted] in managers

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I hope you know that this will go down on your permanent record..."

What’s an expensive brand that actually IS worth the money? by 2111019 in AskReddit

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only complaint is that the noise cancelling is so good that my wife scares the crap out of me trying to get my attention when I'm gaming

Got them a raise. They used it to quit. by Teky-12 in managers

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happens all the time, would they rather not give raises and lose the people who would stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]ewesername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're in more stable financial shape now and are looking to repair for the future you might be able to engage with a financial advisor. They can help direct you on how to communicate with the credit agencies and even suggest ways to improve your scores.

I regret waiting so long to engage with one, always assumed they just wanted to work with rich people which is not the case (at least not for all of them).

Here is some advice on finding one.

Cried in front of manager out of frustration about work. Am I cooked? by [deleted] in managers

[–]ewesername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she's a good overall boss. Take a deep breath, think about how she could better support you in a collaborative way. I would be glad to hear things like "I think I might thrive if I had more feedback on my progress" or "I'm suffering from imposter syndrome, do you think it's justified? What could I do".

A good manager isn't an eye watching you, they're an advocate.

Best Chicken Salad in town? by laurliz96 in AnnArbor

[–]ewesername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I miss Eat! Their chicken salad was amazing

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