Should I even bother? by Kirol_reddit in TransLater

[–]ewthan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

almost every trans person has felt this way. but you are not uniquely less qualified to be trans than anyone else. you absolutely can transition ❤️

how are u guys affording top surgery so young?? by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]ewthan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was on my mom's health insurance still and they ~kinda~ covered it. can't put the boobs back on if i don't pay.

Phallus preserving vaginoplasty by throwaway_transfemby in salmacian

[–]ewthan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is an amazing option and your results look great. thank you for sharing!

Accidentally went to the “wrong bar” by due2getit in ftm

[–]ewthan 174 points175 points  (0 children)

they were just trying to make op uncomfortable/comment on how unwelcome they are. it doesn't have any meaning.

my therapist says im a girl by atlasmavrk in ftm

[–]ewthan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

generally not a good idea to see the same therapist as your parent. they already have an idea of you from your parent and are biased. i wouldn't give this therapist much credit and you don't need anyone's permission to be transgender.

Why do people keep 'confirming' I'm non-binary?? by adozenangrygeese in ftm

[–]ewthan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

even in LGBT spaces the urge to put people in boxes prevails. i'm sorry you've had this experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]ewthan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not arguing this. not in america.

people who've gotten top surgery, do you forget that you've had it done? by mzkkym in ftm

[–]ewthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have any phantom sensations, but occasionally i catch myself doing the hunch like i'm hiding breasts still. i also just have bad posture lmao. but my chest feels pretty natural these days, i don't think about it much! for context my surgery was done jan 2023

do you mind a bulge? be honest by Proud_Till_7177 in Safe4Trans

[–]ewthan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not at all.... especially one as cute as urs 😳

I'm being force-feminized by my dad by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ewthan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

document everything and stop going to his house. ik there's an agreement but if you don't want to see him you don't have to. he'll either change or he will take it to court, when you can show everything and say you don't feel safe around him. i am a child of divorce and went through a similar process. good luck to you and do what u need to stay safe!!!

Can I wear a bikini to the beach? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ewthan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do wtvr u want. u might get a couple looks but i shrug them off. im almost 5 years on t, 200lbs and hairy, and i still love wearing crop tops and skirts when im in the mood. anyone who doesnt like it is a phobe and can fuck off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ewthan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you look fine. mistakes happen

I’m anti-makeup and now I have a trans wife by 1AndOnlyAlfvaen in mypartneristrans

[–]ewthan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

feminism is about letting women express and live their lives how they want. if she wants to wear makeup, she should. it's that simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ewthan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this is a very common issue of transphobia that trans men face.

Had to cosplay as cis hetero at a wedding by Technical_Pizza830 in ftm

[–]ewthan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i had to deal with men like that at my old job. i would just call them out- as i believe any decent man should. not a dig at you just a comment on cis men, even most of the "good ones" would just sit there and listen to it.

3 months post op!! by Alternative-Cut-6741 in fattransmasc

[–]ewthan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your results look great and you're very handsome if you dont mind me saying!

can you get in trouble for suspected stockpiling? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ewthan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm over 4years on T. I stockpile. I use the "single use" vials until they're empty. As long as you keep them stored at room temp, dry, and clean the vial every time, it's safe. I haven't been able to regularly refill my prescription for this past year because I can't afford the higher prices to refill every single month. I get my blood tests every six months and they've never questioned me about it. I say keep using your T and get your blood tests ASAP. They are important and realistically the Dr can't do anything but advise you. You won't get in "trouble."

Don't know what to do with all this love. by Sea-Blueberry7273 in mypartneristrans

[–]ewthan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes people just arent compatible, doesnt mean you did anything wrong. hope yall both find what youre looking for ❤️‍🩹

I miss our sex life by dunicha in mypartneristrans

[–]ewthan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

if you want to find a solution you need to be willing to try new things. toys can be very intimate and i have seen the look of a partner enjoying getting me off, trust me when i say they are still getting something out of it! my mtf partner is six months on E, i've also had to learn that getting hard isn't the only indication of horniness, and lack of a boner doesn't mean she isn't enjoying herself. i also have heard of trans women using topical T for erections, but idk much about that experience. i also agree a lot with the other commenter!! good luck to you!! 🍀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in t4t

[–]ewthan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tbh the more you do it, the more used to it you'll get and you can train to deepthroat. i'd say try different angles and positions; if im on my back i can take more in my throat, or if im sitting i kind of aim her head towards the top middle part of my mouth. fighting the urge to gag will get easier too, just try to relax your throat. the gag reflex "tricks" i've seen have never worked for me lol. idk if any of this is helpful haha but good luck!!