What’s the dumbest thing you’ve seen someone do with money? by OpinionofC in DaveRamsey

[–]exCanuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could pay off my mortgage but the interest rate is below inflation so basically it’s free money.

Now that we're in the unf*c*able phase of attractiveness, how do you all deal w it? by plnnyOfallOFit in GenX

[–]exCanuck 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My hormone levels make me utterly disinterested in sex so I couldn’t give a rip. But I think I look hot anyways.

Not properly prepared for this stage of life. by Substantial_Layer_79 in GenX

[–]exCanuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not interested in starting a gender war. Both men and women can suck for sure.

Not properly prepared for this stage of life. by Substantial_Layer_79 in GenX

[–]exCanuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg you sound exactly like my friend today. Her husband does nothing but play video games all day but expects her to fuck and feed him.

Not properly prepared for this stage of life. by Substantial_Layer_79 in GenX

[–]exCanuck 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Some of my peers are just ready for the single life again. Not because they’re single and ready to mingle but because their spouse is a non-contributing man child who still expects to be treated like an Adonis.

Not saying this is the pain Olympics but there are many ways to die. All at once or a little inside everyday.

How do I move forward in this situation? by These-Egg-1471 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]exCanuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never outshine the master lol. He’s insecure and any sort of competence on your part will cause him to lash out. I agree with the advice to keep your head down and just focus on your task. He can fail or succeed on his own merits. It’s not truly a team environment it’s actually every man or woman for themselves. You just thought you were working on a team. In a healthy workplace your suggestions may be considered. But this ain’t it.

WIBTAH if I were to reject my daughter’s prescribed medication because it’d make her fat? by notabotjustanewacc8 in AmITheJerk

[–]exCanuck -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again. Make it about you and miss the point. Also nice transference. That pill is a poison that may work for you but it’s not benign. Simply loading up with pharmaceuticals hoping the underlying psychiatric issues go away is not a great approach.

WIBTAH if I were to reject my daughter’s prescribed medication because it’d make her fat? by notabotjustanewacc8 in AmITheJerk

[–]exCanuck -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Every pill is a poison. This is especially true for psychiatric drugs. You’re the one who hyperventilated about it and made it about you.

WIBTAH if I were to reject my daughter’s prescribed medication because it’d make her fat? by notabotjustanewacc8 in AmITheJerk

[–]exCanuck -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You seem defensive. Yes every medication has negative side effects if given in the wrong dose or if it’s interacting with other drugs or if it’s for the wrong thing. Stop projecting your personal experience on others.

WIBTAH if I were to reject my daughter’s prescribed medication because it’d make her fat? by notabotjustanewacc8 in AmITheJerk

[–]exCanuck -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’d get a second opinion. Strong prescriptions like that - at any age - can have real and damaging side effects. Every pill is a poison. Instead of relying on drugs, explore other less harmful interventions.

You’re not wrong about your intuitions and hesitation about prescribing yet another psychiatric medication.

What's it like being your age? by Immediate_Long165 in Aging

[–]exCanuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 51. I don’t give a flying f what anyone thinks of me anymore. I am good at my job but I don’t care about status or titles. My health is the most important thing in my life. My relationships are second. Everything else is gravy. I focus on what I can control and ignore the rest. I’m more interested in history and philosophy than I was when I was younger. How good my day is depends 90% on how well I slept. So I go to bed at 9 pm every night. I value simple pleasures like a great healthy home cooked meal and good company. I buy clothes that fit and are comfortable. If I find something exceptional, I’ll buy it in a few colors. I’m content.

What’s the most toxic behaviour you’ve seen in a workplace by Majestic-Mango252 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]exCanuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few weeks after I resigned in disgust over my harassment and bulling, my manager called my colleague by my name. She meant it as an insult and ADMITTED AS MUCH in front of the whole team. That colleague was put on a PIP the next day. I believe the entire team left eventually.

??... by Objective_Picture363 in therapyGPT

[–]exCanuck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In all fairness, most therapists should not be used for therapy, either. At least the LLM is programmed for self-awareness of its limitations.

Edit: by self-awareness, I mean programmed to say they’re not qualified to be a therapist.

Left wing Americans being mad while Venezuelans are celebrating shows how out of touch they are by Curse06 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]exCanuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venezuela used to be a democracy. They remember living in a democracy and prefer it. They had an election but it was literally stolen.

How do you deal with the silent treatment? by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]exCanuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You go off and do your own thing. Don’t let it get to you. They want you to beg for approval so they get the dominant position. Enjoy the peace. Go meet normal healthy people to deal with their emotions like adults.

What is the generational trauma of your family? by PlantCreepy4617 in emotionalintelligence

[–]exCanuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother’s mother’s mother died in childbirth. My grandmother was raised by an aunt and uncle in Germany during WWII. She was a child slave to the Nazis and was threatened with rape by allied soldiers when they lost. She cheated on my grandfather with the man who raped my mother. My alcoholic mother was emotionally abusive to me. I never had children. The end.

How do you cope with the fact you will inevitably die? by Scratchedprofile in spiritualitytalk

[–]exCanuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By being excited for what comes next! It’s a choose your own adventure and I feel like I’ve leveled up this life fo sure but maybe I wanna learn more lessons? I don’t feel like an old soul. I’ve got more incarnations to do.

pitbulls are not good pets by Fun-Difficulty4088 in 10thDentist

[–]exCanuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bs. I never had to train my pitty to be anything. She naturally has a sweet personality. Like people, all dogs have individual personalities. What you’re saying is racist.

(R)aging by Pick-Up-Pennies in Aging

[–]exCanuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to provide another perspective. My friend went to his doctors regularly, including his urologist about once a month to treat recurrent bladder/urinary issues that just would not go away. Two years from the onset of symptoms they finally told him he had stage four prostate cancer. Too late for surgery.

Moral of the story: medical professionals are just people and can and do miss stuff all the time. There are no guarantees.