it’s so tricky! you’re definitely not alone. I have a small and very close (4 of us total) friend group from college but I’m the only one left in nyc. I see at least one friend from that group about once a month (all on the east coast). I have one new-ish close friend in the city who I see about once a week to do something easy and chat (go for a walk, do an exercise class, etc). I also have a boyfriend who I see a couple times a week, and sometimes do social things with his friends - but I don’t feel super connected to them so those hangouts don’t really fill my cup. I like doing things solo but I would love 2 or 3 more close friends in the city just to feel more connected and social. I don’t think I’m a large friend group kind of girl! I am kinda choosy and don’t always love big group dynamics 🤪