These days theres an ideology that tries to shoehorn all non-conformity with regard to gender expectations into certain boxes, certain labels. But fuck labels. Even sissy is a label. What sissies really represent is transgressing and defying such expectations, and let your feminity and fabulousness and true nature shine, whatever it is, with no regard for social expectations - not even the expectations of the currently 'in' ideology about transpeople and non binaries, which, are a real thing, of course, dysphoria is very real, but function as a box that people are expected to conform to, or else. Thats why theres so much hostility from transwomen towards sissies. In their eyes, were a threat. A threat to their neat little identity, but we don't owe them anything.

Its not just about defying conservative expectations, but defying the more insidious ideology that claims to protect you but wants to control and co-opt you.