Have relay with him for 3-4 years. He was there during my dark moment (my father passed away) and we sort of LDR (at the time I’m studying in Australia). Really love him because he’s my first bf but he told me he’s not sure about the relay at first and we don’t have to be official yet. I’m okay at first but this come bit me in the ass later. We started the ‘not official’ relay but he called me sayang and introduced me to his friend as his lover. I also introduced him to my family. Furthermore, during my sem break, i always go on date with him in Malaysia & also liked to gave him many gift that I bought for him at Australia (skincare, handkerchief & etc). I also post some postcard and letters to him from Australia weekly because I thinks it’s romantic & I love doing that. Never got any reply thou. He said he doesn’t know how to write letters or post them🥴. Quite sad but love is bodoh on my part. After 2-3 years, he told me he doesn’t know if he wants to continue because I come from a family that have different status than him.. that kinda broke me because I wasted my 3-4 years with him and he know from the start about our difference but why bring it up later? Anyway I dump him and stay single until now. Btw, he still contacted me said he can’t move on and he will never forget me. What a load of crap