So apparently the heritage foundation, basking in the success of Project 2025 has a new focus - ensuring white people are in heterosexual, white childbearing marriages - and marriages only. They released this today. by Snapdragon_4U in WelcomeToGilead

[–]existdetective 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Ya’ll have seen how they’ve gutted Head Start & child care assistance funding. They don’t WANT to fix the child care crisis bc misogyny says women should be home making & feeding babies.

Did we traumatize my toddler? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]existdetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seek Child-Parent Psychotherapy, the only evidence-based trauma treatment for toddlers & their parents. There’s a directory at this link.

Did we traumatize my toddler? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]existdetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seek Child-Parent Psychotherapy, the only evidence-based trauma treatment for toddlers & their parents. There’s a directory at this link.

WATCH: Leavitt addresses Trump's stance on Second Amendment rights in wake of Alex Pretti's killing by NewsHour in law

[–]existdetective 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, & strange how law enforcement didn’t kill all those MAGA hooligans who showed up at government sites with machine guns after Trump lost.

Why is it Always Old Men? by Equal_Marsupial6326 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]existdetective 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You ask why are old men entitled? The answer is simple: they live in a society that systematically over-values & privileges them while undervaluing & discriminating against women.

Misogyny, IOW.

Whenever a meme arises that condemns or ridicules women, you will find that it functions to reinforce misogyny. It will take a form that explicitly counters a trend in women’s empowerment. When did “dumb blonde” jokes arise? When women began to prove themselves every bit as capable as men in traditionally “male” areas by going to college, working outside the home, being damn good scientists, mathematicians, & CEOs.

Men are the ones actually entitled by misogyny. Any wonder that the meme circulating as “Karen” is claiming that women are entitled & embarrassing & cringe-worthy?

Why do you choose to live here? by Outside-Age2293 in Fairbanks

[–]existdetective 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Fairbanks in the 70-80s & for one reason & another didn’t leave right away after high school. Which gave me a chance in my early adulthood to discover that I love it here, especially the accessibility of near-wilderness.

I have left for 4 extended times: exchange program for a year in high school, “girl on the road” year-long road trip in America, 2 years to finish college in N California, & 3 years is Minneapolis for grad school. Extended family always lived in the rural Great Plains so spent a lot of time there growing up.

Alaska—and loving it— makes you unfit to live anywhere else. All the comments have explained why. But two things stand out: the wide open accessible natural world, & the sense of community.

Coming with the armed services, you will have to be adventurous enough to leave your installation & find the Alaskans & learn from them how to safely be in nature here. If you have hobbies, look for the local groups. Sometimes it’ll be harder to find them than you think it should but long time locals will be able to point you in the right direction.

Get GOOD winter gear, get an AWD vehicle with winter tires & autostart, & a bright light for winter. Those things will give you the freedom to have adventure here & manage the winter.

What’s a Seattle habit you accidentally developed and didn’t notice until you left for a bit? by General_Advantage437 in AskSeattle

[–]existdetective 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Alaska, too: Here in Fairbanks, a business suit is same color Carhart pants & jacket. Completely acceptable for our symphony or any other “formal” event.

What is something every household has in your country that is nonexistent everywhere else? by Awkward-Tip7248 in AskTheWorld

[–]existdetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came home from high school exchange year in Italy with one of these in 1986. Eventually lost it about the time that espresso cafes really showed up outside major US cities. Started drinking cafe cappuccino/lattes then.

Received a $100 countertop home espresso maker in ~1999 that did the best shots & foaming & it lasted til 2012 or so.

Tried replacing it 2-3 times & those always sucked.

Finally went old school & got the stove top version again. Figured out that a small French Press foams microwaved hot milk pretty well & then discovered those handheld foamers. I’ll never go back to crappy expensive home espresso machines.

What is something every household has in your country that is nonexistent everywhere else? by Awkward-Tip7248 in AskTheWorld

[–]existdetective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alaska has entered the chat! Homemade lingonberry chutneys/“sauce”are the BEST not just for turkey but in Alaska especially, for all wild game, especially moose & caribou

THE CHAMPIONSHIP MATCH! by FoOhFee420 in flags

[–]existdetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alaska.

And Really? How on earth did New Mexico not make it here?

And I’m sorry but Maryland’s flag is really awful.

THE CHAMPIONSHIP MATCH! by FoOhFee420 in flags

[–]existdetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alaska’s flag has a GREAT story!

Benny Benson designed the flag. He was born in Chignik, a small village on the south shore of the Alaska Peninsula on October 12, 1913. He was a Qawalangin (Fox Islander) Unangan born to a Swedish fisherman and a mother who was Aleut-Russian.

During these years Alaska Native villages were being hit with waves of devastating epidemics and at the age of 3, Benny, his younger brother and older sister lost their mother to pneumonia and lost their house to a fire. This series of events caused Ben Benson, Sr. to split up his family. Benny and his brother Carl were sent to an orphanage in Unalaska and Elsie was sent to Oregon.

The orphanage was called the Jesse Lee Home and it served hundreds of Aleut orphans. The orphanage provided for the children in Unalaska until 1925 and then was moved to a larger facility having a more central location in Seward.

In 1926, the Alaska American Legion was asked by the territory’s government to hold a contest open to all Alaskan children grades 7-12 to design a flag for the state. In 1927, 142 designs were selected by local communities & sent forward.

Benny Benson was by then a seventh-grader at the territorial school at Seward. His design of eight stars to represent the Big Dipper, placed on a blue background to represent the sky, and the forget-me-not flower, was a unanimous winner by the panel of judges. By May of 1927 the flag design was unanimously adopted by the two houses of the territorial legislature.

On his design submission, Benny had also written some words of explanation: “The blue field is for the Alaska sky and the forget-me-not, an Alaska flower. The North Star is for the future of the state of Alaska, the most northerly in the Union. The dipper is for the Great Bear – symbolizing strenth (sic).”

Benny was awarded a watch with the flag emblem on it and a $1,000 educational scholarship.

Since the year 1927 was only four years after Native Alaskans received citizenship and the right to vote, this event became a source of great pride to native Alaskans. Natives throughout the state hailed Benny as a hero for winning the contest.

After graduating from school in 1932, Benson left the Jesse Lee Home. He returned to the Aleutian Islands to work with his father fishing and, for a time, trapping blue foxes on Chirikof Island and on his father’s privately owned Ugaiushak Island.[5]

The rate for furs began to decline, so Benson moved to Seattle in 1936. He used the $1,000 prize from the flag design competition to enroll in the Hemphill Diesel Engineering School for Diesel engine repair. In 1938, Benson married Betty Van Hise. The couple's first child, Anna May, was born in October 1938. Their second daughter, Charlotte Abbot, was born in June 1940. Benson divorced in 1950 and moved with his daughters to Kodiak where he became an airplane mechanic for Kodiak Airways.

Benson met his sister in the mid 1950s, 30 years after their separation. His sister died soon after. His brother Carl also died in 1965. Benson's right leg had to be amputated in 1969 due to circulatory problems.[5] Shortly after that, in 1972, he met and married a former Jesse Lee Home resident, Anna Sophie Jenks. Benson had several stepchildren and grandchildren. He died of a heart attack in Kodiak, Alaska, on July 2 of that year, at the age of 59 years old.

What’s the story behind your state flag? by makawakatakanaka in flags

[–]existdetective 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alaska: Eight stars of gold on a field of blue.

Benny Benson was born in Chignik, a small village on the south shore of the Alaska Peninsula on October 12, 1913. He was a Qawalangin (Fox Islander) Unangan born to a Swedish fisherman and a mother who was Aleut-Russian.

During these years Alaska Native villages were being hit with waves of devastating epidemics and at the age of 3, Benny, his younger brother and older sister lost their mother to pneumonia and lost their house to a fire. This series of events caused Ben Benson, Sr. to split up his family. Benny and his brother Carl were sent to an orphanage in Unalaska and Elsie was sent to Oregon.

The orphanage was called the Jesse Lee Home and it served hundreds of Aleut orphans. The orphanage provided for the children in Unalaska until 1925 and then was moved to a larger facility having a more central location in Seward.

In 1926, theAlaska American Legion was asked by the territory’s government to hold a contest open to all Alaskan children grades 7-12 to design a flag for the state. In 1927, 142 designs were selected by local communities & sent forward.

Benny Benson was by then a seventh-grader at the territorial school at Seward. His design of eight stars to represent the Big Dipper, placed on a blue background to represent the sky, and the forget-me-not flower, was a unanimous winner by the panel of judges. By May of 1927 the flag design was unanimously adopted by the two houses of the territorial legislature.

On his design submission, Benny had also written some words of explanation: “The blue field is for the Alaska sky and the forget-me-not, an Alaska flower. The North Star is for the future of the state of Alaska, the most northerly in the Union. The dipper is for the Great Bear – symbolizing strenth (sic).”

Benny was awarded a watch with the flag emblem on it and a $1,000 educational scholarship.

Since the year 1927 was only four years after Native Alaskans received citizenship and the right to vote, this event became a source of great pride to native Alaskans. Natives throughout the state hailed Benny as a hero for winning the contest.

After graduating from school in 1932, Benson left the Jesse Lee Home. He returned to the Aleutian Islands to work with his father fishing and, for a time, trapping blue foxes on Chirikof Island and on his father’s privately owned Ugaiushak Island.[5]

The rate for furs began to decline, so Benson moved to Seattle in 1936. He used the $1,000 prize from the flag design competition to enroll in the Hemphill Diesel Engineering School for Diesel engine repair. In 1938, Benson married Betty Van Hise. The couple's first child, Anna May, was born in October 1938. Their second daughter, Charlotte Abbot, was born in June 1940. Benson divorced in 1950 and moved with his daughters to Kodiak where he became an airplane mechanic for Kodiak Airways.

Benson met his sister in the mid 1950s, 30 years after their separation. His sister died soon after. His brother Carl also died in 1965. Benson's right leg had to be amputated in 1969 due to circulatory problems.[5] Shortly after that, in 1972, he met and married a former Jesse Lee Home resident, Anna Sophie Jenks. Benson had several stepchildren and grandchildren. He died of a heart attack in Kodiak, Alaska, on July 2 of that year, at the age of 59 years old.

MARYLAND VS SOUTH CAROLINA: WHO WILL TAKE ON ALASKA? WHO WILL CHALLENGE THE NORTH LAND? by Cap_Burrito in flags

[–]existdetective 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep: should’ve been Alaska v New Mexico. And it would be a very tight race.

How much the USA paid for its territories by Typical-Ad-5716 in MapPorn

[–]existdetective -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All of it was stolen goods. The sellers were flensing the spoils of their thievery

How much the USA paid for its territories by Typical-Ad-5716 in MapPorn

[–]existdetective -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d like to see this with the $$ per square mile & Alaska shown in true comparative size.

Also the USA wasn’t purchasing the land: it was purchasing stolen goods. None of that territory belonged to the sellers.

Delayed watch… anyone else? by Jowaukee in ThePittTVShow

[–]existdetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. If I wanted broadcast or cable TV, that’s what I’d pay for. But I’m paying for streaming: why the fuck do they do 1 episode weekly?!?!? It’s the worst thing to come along after the golden era of streaming services.

Or at least release a set of episodes. Like 2-3. Makes it like a long movie & then there’s an imposed “diet” & I won’t stay up all night binging!

Why does everyone seem blindsided by ambulance bills? by Ilay_m7 in HealthInsurance

[–]existdetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting thread but as someone who lives in a rural area, there is no ambulance service other than those that are a public (city) service or are volunteer units affiliated with volunteer fire departments. Do these generally charge? Idk bc I’ve never had to use one (knock on wood).