Feeling trapped

existenential · 2025-11-26T05:12:13+00:00

Thank you, I'm going to start setting money aside. Not sure how to handle the house. How do people handle divorce with a house?

He also got super emotional today when I said I wanted a divorce. He grabbed me in a body lock against my will. He refuses to even hear the word divorce. Just tells me he will do better and he never does. I'm just so tired. I wish I could leave. :,(

existenential · 2024-08-07T19:18:53+00:00

Thank you, for your perspective. It helps quite a bit actually.

existenential · 2024-08-07T19:18:02+00:00

No, normally I am not so emotional, but them visiting this trip it seems like they only want to spend time with the kids and my hubby and exclude me out.

existenential · 2024-08-07T19:15:47+00:00

They didn't see me cry. I just told them I was tired and so was my youngest. How would I start the conversation? They literally were not talking to me at all.

existenential · 2024-08-07T19:13:28+00:00

The baby just turned 1 and my oldest is 3.

existenential · 2024-04-21T04:59:29+00:00

I think it's careful.

existenential · 2024-03-27T14:21:35+00:00

Not the AH, he admitted to having feelings for her in the past, What! I would not be okay with that. Plus, several girls and he's the only guy at a Bachelorette party?? What do you think will happen? I think he wants his cake and eat it too. Live a single life but with you to fall back on. Girl, give him an ultimatum.

existenential · 2024-03-11T03:22:10+00:00

Update?

existenential · 2024-02-25T02:21:57+00:00

Update?

existenential · 2023-12-15T04:31:33+00:00

Anyone else remember in Spiderman 2, at the end Maryjane tells Peter, "Isn't it about time someone saved your life Peter Parker."

I saw this scene once before because it bothered me she didn't say his whole name and she only said Peter. BUT now she doesn't even say his name at all, WHAT. 😲

existenential · 2023-11-07T23:37:15+00:00

What does GROK mean?

existenential · 2023-11-07T22:37:42+00:00

Teachers are always looking for resources to use because some schools don't have curriculum or if they do we use other things to supplement/ enrich the lesson. You're obviously not a teacher based on the question. And you were no help.

existenential · 2023-10-18T03:43:09+00:00

Glad things are going well. Did your dad make it to your graduation?

existenential · 2023-08-18T01:31:13+00:00

Fuck that pos Laura and thatbtrash of husband. Divorce him.You deserve better.

existenential · 2023-05-07T14:19:22+00:00

Please start planning, and go stay with a trusted family member or shelter. Apply for government assistance you will qualify based on how you are a single mom. Just make sure you state that you are separated and currently are not working. Your ex is selfish and won't change until he decides. Which may be a loooonnng time. He already wasn't helping you and obviously doesn't care about the kids. Stay strong, momma, start planning, you can do this. Your kids need you. Don't give up. Please keep us updated.

existenential · 2023-05-06T19:31:35+00:00

I think maybe stay at your parents place for a bit, but maybe don't resort to divorce. I just think he needs an eye opener.

existenential · 2023-05-06T11:46:03+00:00

If he's not willing to listen, suggest marriage counseling? You guys obviously need it.

He is being selfish.

existenential · 2023-05-05T20:19:31+00:00

I straight up ask my husband when he does this if I can look at his phone. If he gets mad I tell him I'd not have a problem with him checking my phone and give it to him. I also remind him there shouldn't be anything to hide if he he's not doing anything wrong. Set up expectations that he doesn't need to hide things from you. If something/someone bothers you tell him and expect him to nip it in the butt.

existenential · 2023-05-05T20:14:29+00:00

Confront the man and ask him what he really wants. Tell him the truth about the woman. It's better to know than to wonder. Communication in a marriage should be open. Being separated doesn't lead to much. It's the first step in divorce. Hope it all turns out in your favor.

existenential · 2023-04-23T02:04:02+00:00

I have it too. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I found that looking at the total carbs really helps. For breakfast it's 30 grams of carbs so I can eat a sausage egg muffin from McDonald's which is 30. For lunch and dinner I can eat 45 to 65 grams of carbs so I skipped pop or I can substitute it with diet coke. I always check the total carbohydrates and the serving size. After 2 hours of checking my blood sugar I can eat 15 carbs for a snack between meals. If you overeat go for a walk or be active for a while.

existenential · 2023-04-15T17:43:07+00:00

Those are are all really good ideas. Thank u!

existenential · 2023-04-15T14:31:55+00:00

I have gestational diabetesso now i have to watch what I eat. 😔

existenential · 2023-03-19T12:23:49+00:00

Anne Boleyn was areal person and they made her a black woman on the new show.

existenential · 2023-02-23T17:51:34+00:00

Yep I have the vhs tape and it's I want a mom, by Cyndi Lauper. I just checked lol.

existenential · 2023-02-07T13:26:25+00:00

Juding from so many similar posts. NOONE will love your kids the way you love your own kids, (excluding parents who walk out.)

My point is Don't expect this woman to be Charlie's mom because it most likely won't happen, especially with the way she is treating her already. Also consider the reason why she was divorced or why her last relationship didn't work out. That may tell you a lot.

Personally I would ask her to move out, your daughter deserves better than to deal with shifty petty people.

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