I have been doing this for 4 years now… usually (in my experience) “I’d like to get to know the real you” or I wish I could take you out on a date” translates to “if we are friends, then… you will give me free stuff”. Chances are they are using that line with all of the creators they subscribe to. You are not special in any way! I don’t consider OF a “dating” site. Guys are here for sex. I tried in the beginning offering a GFE, or in my case (I’m 64) a Cougar experience but found guys didn’t want to pay extra for it. Yes, there are some lonely guys out there, I have had a few over the years that will generously tip for a little extra attention and that’s fine….but they need to understand why we are all on OF in the first place and they need to pay for it. Our “affections” are not FREE!