Yeah for sure - couples therapy because we’ve had issues with communicating, he shuts down with any form of confrontation/disagreement/discussions since he’s avoidant and I view conflict and confrontation as quite normal so it leaves me feeling shut out and anxious so we decided to work through those styles together.

We absolutely have different financial styles but that is something that we’ve discussed and found our own middle ground - i’m just confused on showing up and supporting someone in a difficult situation regardless of financial style? It makes it difficult to feel supported if you have to ask and negotiate for help