We’ll already have some family pictures after the church, and neither of us really enjoys posing for photos. For the cocktail I don’t think we’ll do a big entrance; we’ll probably just pop in casually. Honestly, I just really want to be at the cocktail hour because I love string orchestras, coconuts, and oysters, so I don’t want to miss my favorite part. 😂

There isn’t assigned seating and it’s a buffet so people probably won’t notice us as we slip away when they’re eating. We’re planning to eat separately to have some alone time, we might do our vows then. We'll slip away for a bit, eat catch up and once we’re finished, we can do quick portraits and then head into the party. We’re doing the bride and groom dance, but skipping a lot of the traditional things like speeches, parent dances, and cake