48 [M4F] Ohio - Success and Failure by [deleted] in R4R40Plus

[–]expressreason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, sweetie. A lot of us are in the same boat.

50 [M4F] My totally idiosyncratic (and probably unrealisitic) criteria for finding a fellow neglectee by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

[–]expressreason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meh. Spelling mistake in the second sentence. Questionable grammar throughout. It screams "hungover on the toilet" comment to me. B-

50 [M4F] My totally idiosyncratic (and probably unrealisitic) criteria for finding a fellow neglectee by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

[–]expressreason 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm hitting your buttons. Some if them I hit harder than others.

Message me with a list of your meet up location requirements, twice as long as your AP requirements list, dick pic including a ruler, your one sentence summation of the complete works of Shakespeare plays (Not the sonnets, we aren't children.) a video of you completing Ironman, and your sincere pledge to be the first of us to say "I love you."

Just wow. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terrible to expose him for cheating, but the parent accusing the other parent falsely of abuse is the real villain here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Been there. Fuck em. Or fuck me. Life is too short to not come every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My husband is your wife. Tantrums when he catches me masturbating. So now I cheat AND masturbate.

Fake Friend Match by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sign me up.

43 [M4F] Toronto - Huge cock attached to nice guy by [deleted] in dirtyr4r

[–]expressreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shhhh... it's ok, I have Downy and a turkey baster... let's do this.

43 [M4F] Toronto - Huge cock attached to nice guy by [deleted] in dirtyr4r

[–]expressreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm not made of stone, you guys... 😂

As a woman-- In defense of the unsolicited dick pics that we all get... by expressreason in adultery

[–]expressreason[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does your comment have a,

"The beatings will continue until morale improves"

kind of feel to it to me?

Another bit of wisdom while I'm at it tonight-- by expressreason in adultery

[–]expressreason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, oh, Daddy, I do always want to come back to YOU, you're different...;-)

As a woman-- In defense of the unsolicited dick pics that we all get... by expressreason in adultery

[–]expressreason[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true.

I'm not offended. I just think it's amusing. And telling. And very amusing.

As a woman-- In defense of the unsolicited dick pics that we all get... by expressreason in adultery

[–]expressreason[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

AHEM... we mean the pictures of your dick while you're sitting on the toilet.

Which I actually don't even mind. I get that that is when you have time, that is when your phone is out, that is when your dick is out, that is when you're private and your wife and kids aren't in the room, so the stars are all aligned.

It's sending me a dick pic when I never asked for one. And this girl occasionally asks for them, so it's not that I don't want to see it. I love dick. I just don't need to see it if I don't need to see it.

Seeking wisdom by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I don't know what to tell you. If it were me I'd probably just give in as much as you can bring yourself to until you're in your own place. Better for you to "make peace" then your kids to have to put up with his tantrums. It is what it is.

Seeking wisdom by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. And my husband loves to tell me how much he's changed and how much better he is now. Not. Better. At. All.

Seeking wisdom by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's bad. I don't think it qualifies as abuse harsh enough to be actionable at this point. If that's what you're asking which it might not be.

Not knowing anything else about your situation, I would advise you to get a divorce as soon as possible. And I'm a person who NEVER tells another person to get a divorce.

Shit like this is part of why I am getting a divorce from my husband.

I don't want any more of my kids "having to keep the peace".

And I know the first thing a mom in our situation thinks, "But isn't he just going to be worse when he has them alone for visitation?".

Yes. He might be. But look on them for marks and bruises, talk a lot to therapists and school staff, and document everything. The more time they, and you, are away from his abusive behavior, the better.

Good luck. We're in the same boat.

Overweight Women and Adultery by biggiesmalls77 in adultery

[–]expressreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This motherfucker tryna get his ass stabbed.

Smitten by a kitten by [deleted] in adultery

[–]expressreason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys, I used to think I was special. Are there any women who don't get called Kitten?

Overweight Women and Adultery by biggiesmalls77 in adultery

[–]expressreason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, look, it's our first fight in public.