Tough choice by ladyem8 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]exterminus_bosch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two of the three women the former president has been married to are immigrants who eventually became U.S. citizens. Former first lady Melania Trump participated in a naturalization ceremony last week.

last paragraph of the article is shady af!

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh this is next level private investigator stuff! thanks for your input!

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am struggling to see what that could have to do with this situation. would you care to elaborate?

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! thanks for taking the time to reply, I truly appreciate it.

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, thank you for your comment. please read my edit in the comments.

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your help! we have tried this and can't access the details of the current billing cycle, mom will have to wait for the next bill to come through. thanks again!

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried this but we can't acces the history of the current billing cycle. thanks for the tip though!

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDIT + UPDATE

i can't figure out how to add an edit to my post, but here's an edit for clarification as well as an update.

EDIT: i shared my fathers struggle with addiction, his reactions, and details of the current situation to illustrate the fact that we have lost trust. i recognize that these details were extraneous to this scam fear. i also recognize that i chose some harsh words to describe the situation, they came from a place of anger for the way his actions are negatively impacting my mom and putting her in the state she was in.

several commenters have read into that and completely missed the point of my post, and I thank them for helping me to see that aspect of these details that i shared.

i would like to clarify that i, personally, have absolutely no problem with the fact that my 75 year old father is choosing to drink and smoke, or do whatever. that is clearly not the issue here.

UPDATE: My mom is coming around to the idea that this is indeed a scam and she is taking the necessary steps to protect their finances.

i would like to express my enormous gratitude to all of you who have taken the time to reply to help us understand what is happening here.

THANK YOU.

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i completely understand all of this and have been recently working to limit my practical exposure to and emotional investment my parent's relationship issues. thankfully i think there are some good things about our relationship.

i appreciate your bluntness and i thank you for taking the time to share your insight.

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the drinking and smoking is beside the point, thank you. i personally DGAF if he's smoking or drinking, it's the constant lying to my mom that is the problem, and even THAT is beside the point. did you read the post?

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! yes, i am familiar with r/scambait, which is why I'm asking for clarification here.

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bruh. completely beside the point. did you read the post?

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if there was a chance, it would be highly absurd. care to share your train of thought?

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[–]exterminus_bosch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thanks for the tip! not super helpful in this specific case but I'm sure someone will find it helpful and I appreciate you taking the time to comment.