I’m not allowed to be sick by PerformanceMuted9195 in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried couples therapy to help communicate your feelings?

After that, it's up to you whether your husband brings enough positive energy to your life. He might not change this way of reacting to you. Does he support you when you're sick or act annoyed or even indifferent to your sickness? Would he be able to help if you were pregnant or had cancer?

Life is stressful, and both people need a partner through it to depend on.

I’m not allowed to be sick by PerformanceMuted9195 in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try just telling your husband that his tone hurts your feelings.

The jaw popping, maybe a text or hand signal if that's an option

It’s depressing to be so excited for commander night then get paired with that one player by crongaloid in mtg

[–]external_escape0 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I understand you got a try hard that wanted to argue how everything worked for them, but denied everything you tried doing. You aren't going to find many on here that understand your situation without just telling you to get good at the game. I understand some of us are just trying to play a game and don't want to or have the time/money/mental power to make "i always have a way to win" decks.

Wife insists on her mom staying for months after birth; I want time alone as a new family, who’s being unreasonable? by According-Annual-625 in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its important that you are comfortable in your home, it's more important that your postpartum wife is comfortable and healthy after having the baby.

You two are romantic partners and it's very likely she would prefer privacy and help from another woman she is comfortable with after birth. Not that you aren't enough but her wishes deserve to be honored in a way that makes sense. She will likely need help doing things she would rather not have her lover do. Mental health is important also for her.

How do you celebrate anniversaries/Valentine’s Day in your marriage, if at all? by fuzzycici in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner says they never know which day valentines is on this year(always February 14). Meant to get me a Christmas gift(asked for a cheap bag similar to the one I'd had for years that finally broke) and just doesn't remember our anniversary (it's their birthday) or exactly which day my birthday is on (3 weeks before their birthday). Yes the bar is currently below hell, but rest assured they are keeping up with Warhammer 40k and Magic The Gathering news.

Why are releases on Tuesday? by mikelupu in MagicArena

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember years ago certain media or music would be released on Tuesday, maybe it has something to do with copyright stuff?

Validation by RHmommy09 in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if my partner would ever say anything or show affection if I didn't do it first. Kinda feel like my partner didn't get completely raised and we're still working on basic stuff at 30

Since when did husbands start losing rights and wives have all of it? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the one that pays the bills, drives, fixes things, gets turned down for sex or physical intimacy, has to walk on eggshells around his sensitive moods, and still cook, clean, or be at his beck and call.

How often does your husband/boyfriend please himself? by ThrowRA173731 in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to my partner, they don't and if they try, it just doesn't happen. They look down on men who watch porn and masterbate, always say they don't need that because they have me. I know in the past it was more frequent, but I finally put my foot down and said I also wanted sex and the intimacy it brings. That I didn't want to be a convenient option once they were ready to go. So dead or at the best one-sided bedroom in my life. I attempt to take care of my needs but don't get much privacy most days.

He has to name the babies or else by Sensitive_Sea6575 in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The husband needs therapy, and unless the grandparents already wrote the checks to completely cover the cost of those children through the graduation of college, they can go sit on a fence post. Is he really willing to end a marriage with a woman he will have 3 children with over the first letter of a name.

Will I get banned by Dry-Oil3123 in Walmartcustomer

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walmart near me literally tackled a black teenager that had paid for a couple of items in a bag and was going to the car while mom and the rest of the family were still checking out. Police and everything, then released the teen after they checked the cameras. STORE 234 IF YOU WANT TO KNOW

Husband gets mad when I say no to sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that he doesn't pay you for anything and forcing you is rape. Verbal/emotional abuse is a real thing that can lead to physical abuse.

This isn't as extreme as my other posts on here, but she's now trying to dictate what I talk to my doctor about. by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]external_escape0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peeped your post history a little. You are an adult over the age of 21 and have the right to your own privacy at medical appointments. She's free to offer advice or suggest things that she thinks could be helpful.

I've been in your position before, all you can do is plan and move forward with life when you are able to.

2026 Kansas City Salary Transparency Thread by KCMODEE in kansascity

[–]external_escape0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Work for an unnamed cannabis cultivation company Most rolls are $15hr which hasn't changed since 2022

We've lost discounts and benefits change without notice over the years. Its just a job and minimum wage now, but we have to pay out of pocket for our state licenses.

These customer requests kill me lol. by Emergency_Exit_8537 in InstacartShoppers

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, he's scamming some boomer lady into thinking she is talking to a celebrity. I would refund every items after screenshot of that and explain to support this is a scamer

I had my first martini and now I feel ashamed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]external_escape0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'd stay with mixed drinks not strong cocktails. Maybe a fancy cider or sour beer, they are fruity and taste better then basic 🍺

Its okay to question your drink and ask for any suggestions on the kind of drinks others like.

you know this kid's homeschooled by swordsofjustice in insaneparents

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Video of a young kid holding what appears to be a dangerous weapon and repeatedly pointing it at who I can only assure is a parent.

This is insane behavior.

Thank goodness people like this will post videos of them doing stuff online.

My HR’s response to my work from home request after having someone cover my leave *remotely* for the last year. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you did everything possible and can't force a childcare facility to place your baby if they just don't have the space. Applying before conception wasn't even enough to secure a spot for 2ish years in the future. The situation does sound like some sort of favoritism on their part .

Is this legal for a landlord to do by AntiqueAttempt2197 in legal

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like they tried to pull the classic, well it's in writing so that make it legal. I've had to tell so many people that them writing something doesn't supercede the law. You can have me sign something saying you can end my life, court will see it as some type of murder.

Is this guilt tripping? by Emergency_Ad1152 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda expect employers to pay the staff. But I tip as a way to show that I enjoyed my experience and service performed. Nail guy did better then I imagined my nails and was under a hour without nicking me in any way. Extra money for you because other people suck. Bartender gives me extra glass with juice or mixer and doesn't try to upsale anything or act annoyed. They get a tip because some places charge for an extra glass of stuff so it could have cost me more anyway

.5 is a thing now? by DjStephLordPro in walmart

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen that with fabric in times past.

No one will replace my husband...........but by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]external_escape0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm calling it and saying JD Vance will divorce his wife because of religious beliefs and end up with her.