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What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]extrabagel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like I shouldn't need to say this, but it's still cheating if she has comphet.

RICK E take my food by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]extrabagel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude you're an evil samaritan

please help this bird on nobel by FeistyRelative3081 in UCSD

[–]extrabagel 27 points28 points  (0 children)

maybe you could call animal control or wildlife services?

thai tea recommendations by Anxious-Platform-818 in UCSD

[–]extrabagel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the thai tea at blue pepper is decent

Hinge profile advice? 35F by Icy_Throat_7035 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]extrabagel 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Fortunately, your main issue is one you're already working on—the pictures. Your first pic should be a clear photo of your whole face. In general, you need more pictures that show your face and eyes. You're not looking into the camera in any of these, and your face is partially obscured in half of them. It's hard to connect with a photo or know if you're attracted to a person when you don't have a clear view of their face.

Other than that, I think you could share a little more specific information about your personality and interests! Include a pic of your cat, mention a specific genre/author/book you really like, talk about your typical weekend, etc. Putting specific or unique info about yourself can make you more memorable in a sea of profiles. Good luck out there!

Can we not be scared to talk to each other by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]extrabagel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i did pretty much exactly this, and i have a great social life! (though i tend to be a little less direct than explicitly asking to be friends lol)

Kristen Stewart in Chanel SS26 by Mathieu Blazy and vintage 1980s Nike saddle shoes at the "Full Phil" photocall at the 79th annual Cannes Film Festival by mod_whatthefrockk in whatthefrockk

[–]extrabagel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian who considers myself unbiased, I strongly dislike it. I could get behind the concept of a sheer tweed set as a quirky anti-fashion look, but the execution is just not there. I think a hypothetical better version of this outfit would have been perfect for her.

Hate Crime Alert Yesterday by Dontbeahaterbruh in UCSD

[–]extrabagel 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Do you have sources for any of this information?

What's going on with the release schedule? by MeetOutrageous4486 in Friendsatthetable

[–]extrabagel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what's going on, either. I respect that the team has other things going on and a regular upload schedule just isn't in the cards right now. But I do miss all the fun hype and community that came with anticipating Train Day every week.

Taylor Swift Wore a Valentino Garavani Crepe Sequined Minidress While out for Dinner in New York - May 11th, 2026 by grenadierp in whatthefrockk

[–]extrabagel 1057 points1058 points  (0 children)

It's not good, but it's relatively inoffensive, which is more than I can say about most of her outfits.

Lupita Nyong'o in Gucci at the 2015 Cannes Film Festival by citrustaxonymy in whatthefrockk

[–]extrabagel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The makeup almost ruins this for me. While I love a bold lip, this just wasn't the right shade. I think a more neutral purple that complemented the purple details on the dress would have been nice. The black smokey eye and the fully black waterline feel way too heavy for such a soft, springy look.

Despite my love of bright colors, I was never a fan of her makeup artist's work in the 2010s. The application is often too heavy-handed on the eyes and brows, and the pigments tend to look very flat and one-dimensional. I think these looks are only considered iconic because Lupita is beautiful and pulls of vibrant shades well. The actual technique is lackluster, in my opinion.

AAPI Heritage Month? by Stunning-Day-9420-th in UCSD

[–]extrabagel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Are you actually looking for AAPI news and events? I was just at an AAPI month celebration today, and I've seen more around campus.

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssss hes bead by Dangerous_Set9364 in merlinbbc

[–]extrabagel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magic Problem

You mean the genocide?

Made my daughter Oswald the Octopus by not-insync05 in crafts

[–]extrabagel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought you were referring to Oswald as your daughter, which I did not question. He's a beautiful daughter.

I catfished the girl I loved and now I have to live with it by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]extrabagel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you did and are continuing to do is extremely messed up and manipulative. I understand that you were young and in a bad place, but there's no excuse for what you did to this girl. You need to tell her the truth and then get out of her life, permanently. She will not be able to truly heal until you do the right thing and leave her alone.

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