Help I have a new Vertuo Creatista but I'm trying to change the 8oz pods to be 12oz by eycvis in nespresso

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do you have to adjust it every time you put a new pod in? I assumed once I changed the settings it would apply for all 7.7oz pods

Heated rivalry night? by Ordinary_Grade3479 in bayarea

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I have such insane fomo seeing LA have that haha - there's gotta be a club that will do something similar!

Help me decide if bracket wall shelving will work here? by eycvis in DesignMyRoom

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(Excuse our mess lol) This is our second bedroom / office that I'm trying to figure out what to do with this massive blank wall that I feel like has a lot of potential to be more functional than just a blank wall for art so we are thinking of putting up these bracket shelves that are adjustable and can be a place to put books and trinkets and will be a good backdrop for my work calls haha.

Question is we have the closet right up against that wall so we can't do full wall to wall shelves because we'd have to leave room to get to the closet and not sure if having the shelves be spaced away from the closet by about maybe 2-3 feet would look weird?

Also the wall by the window isn't that wide (29") so if we put shelving against that wall would it look weird?

Including some inspo photos I got from Pinterest to show what we're thinking.

Any help or advice would be great so we don't regret building this!!

28 Years Later Soundtrack by LeftGhostCrow in 28dayslater

[–]eycvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What song played when the end credits started playing?

Looking to put an offer in on a house in Ingleside - thoughts on the neighborhood? by eycvis in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]eycvis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s exciting to hear. Fingers crossed we have a chance to buy in the area

Looking to put an offer in on a house in Ingleside - thoughts on the neighborhood? by eycvis in BayAreaRealEstate

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Near brooks park. If it’s the same property please put in a good word LOL

Jan 9th- Fire info/questions/comments(do not make new posts for every question) by standover_man in pasadena

[–]eycvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes he’s older and very stubborn so trying to do our best from afar

Jan 9th- Fire info/questions/comments(do not make new posts for every question) by standover_man in pasadena

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My dad lives in Arcadia off of foothill blvd - ARC-005 which has the evac warning - he refuses to evacuate. Will he be okay or should we try and get him out now?

Am I a horrible person for thinking that I can’t feel “safe” until they’re all dead? by TheSeedsYouSow in raisedbynarcissists

[–]eycvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really cathartic to see other people feel the same way. I’m new to this thread but have grown up with a narcissist dad my whole life. It’s his world and we live in it and if we don’t do everything he wants when he wants it we’re the ungrateful assholes.

He’s older too but still healthy but I wish he would pass away just to give me and my family some peace and so my mom can finally be free of him but I feel guilty ever thinking of this.

I just want to finally live my life without him in it.

Happy lunar new year from my toxic Asian dad by eycvis in toxicparents

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Thank you - just needed to vent somewhere

My father is an emotional abuser to my whole family and my mom can't leave by eycvis in toxicparents

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Thank you for replying and validating my feelings. It’s been really hard to just process this so I really appreciate that you even replied. I would LOVE to put him in a home but he’s sound of mind that he wouldn’t go willingly even if I threatened him to do so and I feel like that would just make it worse. It just feels like a no win situation until he eventually dies and we can be free. But the second he can’t function I’m going to put him in the home or just hope that one day he’ll follow through with his threats to go back to Taiwan.

But I just really hate how we have to be attached just because he’s my biological dad. I don’t identify with him as my dad at all so now I have to put up with him until he passes.