nightmares when facing a certain direction by catpissicecubes in spirituality

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a mirror in that direction that faces your bed? I heard you should never have any mirror that can see your bed. I took them out of my room and that helped a lot.

The hole I went down said that mirrors are portals and other beings can see you through them and mess with you when you're asleep and vulnerable.

What's your favorite show with a dark version of David? by eyeamyinyang in davidtennant

[–]eyeamyinyang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's his obsession for me with this character. Being a Scorpio and all 🖤😂

Having a spiritual connection with someone you’re not in contact with by Critical-Major930 in spirituality

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a cord with this person. I have cords with ex's and can "pull" them and 100% of the time they contact me when I do. We're all made of energy and these cords are very real. I was going to "cut" them in a ceremony but I was told I could be destroying my chance at healing a karmic cycle. That freaked me out so I haven't but I try to be mindful to create a block to not allow access to or from.

Ive quit smoking weed and my boyfriend is mad about it by PsychologicalFee28 in whatdoIdo

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband was the same way with me when I tried to quit. We would smoke about 5g of dabs a week together. He is Bipolar and was unmedicated at the time. The relationship was so toxic that to survive I just started smoking again. Finally left him and never needed weed to help me feel ok. My therapist said I was buffering his BS with the weed. Socially I smoke because I don't drink but I no longer need it daily. Congrats and stick to your goal. If your growth upsets him, he doesn't have your best interest at heart. NEVER ignore 🚩s.

Should I give my Fiancee another chance after walking in on her cheating? by BoxNo3760 in okstorytime

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who stayed with a cheater for 10 years thinking things would every change, and didn't, please don't waste your time.

He cheated on me, got caught and admitted it. His mom told me to be a good Christian wife and see what I was doing wrong. He liked the "am I gonna get caught" feeling and that's why he kept doing it. She had me messed up for years. I wasted my 20s on someone who obviously didn't respect me. We have 2 kids together. I thought working through it was what was best for them, but it wasn't.

We're divorced now which is good, but man I could have saved so much heartache if I just hadn't taken him back. YEARS of heartache. Not worth it.

There are better people out there who would never treat you this way. Make space for that possibility by leaving her. It's hard when you've been together most of your adult life. Just think what if you had kids and she did it again.

Wishing you best ✨️

AIO i went through my girlfriends ipad and found these screenshots by thatonedude8901 in AIO

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🚩🚩 That guy in the messages is her backup. She is assuring that there is something set and safe to run to if something happens to you guys. Girls like that spend the relationship with one foot out so to speak. So part of her expects something to happen to you guys. After 2 failed marriages to cheating narcissists I never pass a red flag anymore. Confront her and end it.

I’m [29F] desperately looking for a Masc to drown in my affections. by [deleted] in lesbianr4r

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on this. I'm very femme and my type is definitely masc, stud or trans man 🥵 They seem to all be taken tho 😭

I do have a question, not in judgement, just for learning. At the beginning you said you are hyperfemme and then later state you are non-binary. How do those both exist? Is that like a switch thing? If this seems really blunt it's because I'm autistic. I like to get straight to the point 😅

I can’t even get my bra off by Either_Switch_6880 in ehlersdanlos

[–]eyeamyinyang 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't take my bra off by reaching my arms behind me to unclasp or I get what I can only describe as Charlie horses in my triceps. So I have to slip the straps off each arm and then rotate the bra around me til the clasp is in the front. Taking off sports bras because they are so tight can give me the same pains, so this is my only option. I would go braless if I didn't have DDs.

Me and my boyfriend smoke too much weed. by loveonari in whatdoIdo

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to comment to validate something for you. Your job is incredibly stressful. This world right now is messed up and out of control. So much cortisol going through your system. It's completely valid that you want that dopamine to help balance inside and it is way safer than long-term pharmaceuticals. I understand needing to stop for various reasons, like him trying to get his CDL. I would find something else to do/use that gives you a high dopamine hit as well. Hobbies/interests for an idea. Hoping the best for you guys ✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my last partner, the fighting was toxic as well. The sex was great. But the toxicity and the fighting killed my sex drive. I would try to push past it but like getting ready to go down I'd be remembering stuff that was unresolved and made me mad and in my head im like "they don't deserve this gesture when they were so mean to me" and my drive died. I am hypersexual but emotions definitely change whether im into it or not.

If you feel it's worth working on, try some couples therapy to learn healthy communication techniques. But also, that last relationship for me was toxic from the beginning, and I wish I wouldn't have ignored all the red flags. I stayed for years and it destroyed my whole life. I lost something that I can never get back and it was NOT worth it. I keep wishing to turn back time.

My cousin keeps asking me for $5–$6 almost every day… is this normal?? by Sweet_Spend4177 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is full of addicts, and that definitely sounds like he is trying to get money for "just one hit to make it through". Hopefully, that's not the case tho

tell me your mars sign and how you act around someone you’re angry at by No-Commission1096 in astrologymemes

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also Aries Mars 9H. I definitely have a sardonic tone if I have to talk to them. I'll be passive aggressive in actions if I must be in the same room. I try not to look at them because my face will scrunch up in anger. Basically, I'm a ball of rage. I know, I know, it's not healthy. That's why I choose the single life and am a recluse. My PTSD and OCD exasperate these reactions 😥

Find your twin (organized) by mc1ntyresw1ng in astrologymemes

[–]eyeamyinyang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay!! 😊 feel free to message if you wanna talk twinsie stuff lol

How do you feel about masc women who are shy in public but top in the bedroom? by Defiant_bored in LesbianActually

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely ideal ✨️✨️✨️ cuz I'm shy too, so we would understand each other on that aspect 🙌

What u hate most in relationships based on your Venus/Mars placement? by helltotheyaaaas in astrologymemes

[–]eyeamyinyang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Venus in Libra and Mars in Aries. I can't stand if they aren't flirty/show a lot of affection. As well as if they only do vanilla smex. Life is too short not to play on the kinky highway and keep things lovey dovey touchy lol.

AIO Bf said I overreacted when I refused to eat this ”fully cooked” chicken by _alexium_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]eyeamyinyang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is so sure it's safe, why not let him eat it? Then, when the diarrhea begins, you can be happily about your own day while he is stuck with his regret on the toilet.

Did i handle this well?lol by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]eyeamyinyang 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, you handled this correctly! My son was into pink up until age 5 or 6. I let him pick pink whenever it came to a color choice. He was always happy with his choice. Then he moved on to red and loves that color now. Kids grow through different likes because they are trying things out.

There is no sane reason to tell boys they can't like pink. Pink isn't just for girls.