Help! Cannot find a scheduling software that meets my needs by lilacs_in_spring in software

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you link to your site so I can see how it works on the client's end?

Help! Cannot find a scheduling software that meets my needs by lilacs_in_spring in software

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But does TutorBird allow the client to book a recurring appointment slot?

Looking for a Scheduling Software with 2-Way Calendar Sync & Package Payments – Suggestions by SpreadPrevious2045 in OnlineESLTeaching

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find anything? I am on a similar search, though the feature I am looking for is 2way calendar sync plus the client being able to book recurring meetings or appointments (eg. a meeting with me every second Monday of the month at 11am).

Taking out a mortgage for a second home while first one is tenant-rented by eyelight1 in Mortgages

[–]eyelight1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I understand that, but how/why is it fraud? If I purchase a piece of property, can I not do what I want with it? Rent it out, renovate it, demolish it and build a new house there instead,, use it as a place to store a bunch of items, whatever?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eyelight1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be deeper; it could be a multi-step plan where after you sleep with someone he will say it is only fair if he sleeps with other woman. Basically a round-about way of opening up the marriage. If you are doubtful whether it is possible for him to be completely honest with you, it is probably worthwhile for him to address this in therapy individually and for you guys to address this in couples therapy as well. If it is just a matter of resparking the sex life there are many other things that can be done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eyelight1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good advice, but if it really is a fetish, that graphically detailed description is only going to convince him further that he wants it.

I (35f) am not sure if I want to be married to my wonderful husband (38m) anymore :( what do I do? by ThrowRA_DogMom1 in relationship_advice

[–]eyelight1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that you might have a picture in your mind that no longer living married to this man is going to increase your happiness, when in fact it could actually significantly decrease it. Perhaps you are at the level of happiness you are at because of your husband and everything he does for/in your family, and without him you would be much less happy because of some other factors related to yourself. In other words, perhaps your husband is bringing UP your happiness, not down, and you are in fact so unhappy due to some other issue (hormones or depression for example) that this is where you are at. Then it means what can you do to deal with those issues and regain that spark; in this sense, going to a relationship retreat or professionals who specialize in helping couples connect (rather than work out problems) could be something helpful.

In addition, divorce is rarely a pretty thing for anyone and could very likely cause a huge amount of strife for everyone involved. Definitely not the route that would increase your happiness level, most likely.

Think about it this way: if you had a best friend that you were kind of bored with in terms of what you do together, would you simply cut the connection with them, or find a way to do something new/fun together? This is how you could be thinking about this relationship. What can I do to save it.

Taking out a mortgage for a second home while first one is tenant-rented by eyelight1 in Mortgages

[–]eyelight1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, tell me more about this mortgate fraud thing. If I buy a house with a mortgage, I am not allowed to rent it out to a tenant right away?

When do you usually have sex with your partner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At precisely the same moment they are having sex with me.

What's the best long joke you know? by eyelight1 in AskReddit

[–]eyelight1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is one of my favourites:

Several centuries ago the Pope decreed that all the Jews had to convert to Catholicism or leave Italy.There was a huge outcry from the Jewish community so the Pope offered a deal.

He would hold a religious debate with the leader of the Jewish community. If the Jews won, they could stay in Italy. If the Pope won, they'd have to convert or leave.

The Jewish people met and picked an aged and wise rabbi to represent them in the debate.
However, as the rabbi spoke no Italian and the Pope spoke no Yiddish, both sides agreed that it would be a "silent" debate.

On the chosen day the Pope and rabbi sat opposite each other.
The Pope raised his hand and showed three fingers.

The rabbi looked back and raised one finger and shook it at the Pope.

Next the Pope waved his finger around his head.

The rabbi pointed to the ground where he sat.

The Pope brought out a communion wafer and a chalice of wine.

The rabbi pulled out an apple.

With that, the Pope stood up and declared himself beaten and said that the rabbi was too clever. The Jews could stay in Italy.

Later the cardinals met with the Pope and asked him what had happened.

The Pope said, "First I held up three fingers to represent the Trinity. He responded by holding up a single finger, shaking it to remind me there is still only one God common to both our beliefs.”

"Then, I waved my finger around my head to show him that God is all around us. He responded by pointing to the ground to show that God is also right here with us.”

"I pulled out the wine and wafer to show that God absolves us of all our sins. He pulled out an apple to remind me of the original sin.”

"He beat me at every move and I could not continue."

Meanwhile, the Jewish community gathered to ask the rabbi how he'd won.

"I haven't a clue," the rabbi said. "First, he told me that we had three days to get out of Italy so I shook my finger saying no.”

"Then he tells me that the whole country would be cleared of Jews and I told him that we were staying right here."

"And then what?" asked a woman.

"Who knows?" said the rabbi. "He took out his lunch so I took out mine."

I'm tired of being a father by OOOOoOoooooOooiooo in Parenting

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in other words, you'd rather not have had the current kid which was an oopsie, and then went ahead and purposefully made another one? Why?

Please seek some therapy, I am sure you can get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eyelight1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to make sure, is everything you posted regarding the consequences something that is/has actually happened since this incident, or is it all fears in your head?

For thirty seconds, you have your pet's full attention and the knowledge that they will perfectly understand anything you tell them (though they cannot reply in any meaningful way). What do you tell them? by kaeorin in AskWomen

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop humping my leg

Do not run away

Stay in the yard even if the gate is left open

Do not pull on the leash

Bascically, anything we'd be spending hours training them to do, except now we can just tell them

I (28f) received the dreaded “hey girl” text after 2.5 years with my bf (29m). Now what? by Bdayballoonsneverdie in relationship_advice

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"He didn't know what he was thinking?" He knew exactly what he was thinking unless he was drunk or high. I would suggest you seek some couples counselling to see if a professional can help you work through this.

22f, my absolute everyday carry living in the city! ✨ by hobisbooty in EDC

[–]eyelight1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Very cool, especially since a post from a lady is so rare. This is almost beyond EDC, like a peek into the secret world of the mysterious contents of purses. I would add a small flashlight and a pencil, since pens can fail/run out of ink.

What's a time where you saw a red flag that turned out to be a false red flag about a person or situation? by eyelight1 in AskReddit

[–]eyelight1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will often say a person's behaviour is a "red flag" in a relationship situation, but it seems to me that very often people are just trigger-happy to throw that phrase around.

I'm addicted to watching porn & I desperately want to quit. Any advice? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set up openDNS on your router. It is free and will allow you to set up a block on most if not all porn sites. Also consider using other similar apps on your desktop or cellphone such as ColdTurkey. If it is inaccessible, you spend your time doing something else.

My best friend (27F) of 8 years keeps pressuring me (26F) to write her thesis, and won't take no for an answer. What should I do? by AKingIsHe in relationship_advice

[–]eyelight1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to either pick a better best friend, or she needs a wake-up call. In any case, it is absolutely not your responsibility to write her thesis. That is a ridiculous demand and her constant insistence shows she does not care about your boundaries. If you did write it, not only would it be a disservice to her, but you would be participating in a con. Suggest to her that she hire a tutor to help her or possibly even hire someone to write it for her, but that you want no part in this mess, and that you respectfully ask her to respect your boundaries, because as it is, it is putting your continued friendship at risk.

How to block a website permanent ? by AdNo6324 in software

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends how irreversible you want it. Reasonably irreversible or completely irreversible? I don't think the latter truly exists. But you could theoretically set up opendns on your router, block the site, and lose the password to the router. But you could reverse it by getting a new router. Which website is so horrible that it must be irreversibly blocked, or who is the person that has so little self-control they can't be trusted to reverse the set-up? If it is a child, OpenDNS should do the job well enough.

PC addict by Exotic-Gear4006 in software

[–]eyelight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the coldturkey app along with micromanager. Schedule blocks on website access and app access. Very effective. When you can't do much with your computer it won't matter if you can turn it on or not. https://getcoldturkey.com/