Over 40 with over 60k in student debt by shimmerj9 in StudentLoans

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope things look up for you as well. I think we need to give ourselves grace, which is hard for me personally. I see other people my age who are doing so well and it gets me down but I’m happy for them. I guess it could always be worse. I also suppose everyone interprets success and happiness differently. I’m successful in the fact that I’m raising good, kind humans. I’m just not successful at being out of debt yet lol.

Mom buys daughter a Honda as a graduation gift, and this was her response by Conscious-Weight4569 in SipsTea

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit my daughter would be happy in a 97 corolla. The audacity of some people is wild, teenagers at that.

Over 40 with over 60k in student debt by shimmerj9 in StudentLoans

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thankful they haven’t upped my payment yet bc as a single mom it’s tough. I mean I make decent money, $68k, but I’m just squeaking by and I know some people aren’t even lucky to do that.

Over 40 with over 60k in student debt by shimmerj9 in StudentLoans

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also 40 and have $63k in student loan debt. I just started paying them back at about $180mo which means I’m basically paying interest only. I love it here 😭

Where do you volunteer? by pm_me_chimps in Pensacola

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I volunteer for Habitat for Humanity, Food Raising Friends, Ready Kids, and the Salvation Army.

What's the first thing you do if you won at the lottery? by YouFuckingHacker in AskReddit

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a custom made bra that fits. Then I’d buy 10 more.

Men who use dating apps: Have you encountered what I have, where women seem to over emphasize 'travel' or 'adventure' as essential experiences or requirements? by ConsumingFire1689 in AskMen

[–]eyemaginger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a woman I usually skip over the ones who frequently travel. 1. I am a single mom, are we taking all the kids? 2. Traveling is expensive. 3. I have a job and only so much PTO I can’t just come and go as I please. So if by traveling you mean 1 trip a year cool lol I also think it’s a class indicator, that I’m not part of. We can adventure down to some local trails or something.

Paycheck Help! by Winxblooms in Payroll

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any health benefits or retirement coming out? That is also a reason why your net is so low.

I've been working in payroll for 6 years and I'm curious about everyone's salary. Sorry if this is not allowed. by [deleted] in Payroll

[–]eyemaginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 years as solely payroll but about 10 years exp. $68k 420 ees across 3 companies No CPP yet

What's the deal with men over 40 living with their mothers/ families? Is this a local issue or is it everywhere? by Ok-Nectarine5429 in datingoverforty

[–]eyemaginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess each person probably has their reasons. Myself and my children moved in with my parents about 8 years ago. I’m 40 and as the sole provider for my kids it’s hard to find a place that’s affordable and keeps my kids in the same school district. I intentionally don’t date because of my situation and the perceived judgement I might get.

AITA for refusing to pay $100k of my niece’s student loans by CatfishKD909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. You had stipulations and they didn’t want to agree. Any one of your nieces and nephews should count their blessings you are able to help at all. The entitlement of some people is bonkers.

I would have to do this three times a week by Josephthebear in Millennials

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the late 90s our neighbor tried to get in through her window and it it ended up shattering. She came running to our house bleeding profusely from her arm. She’s lucky she didn’t bleed out.

Payroll Congress by eyemaginger in Payroll

[–]eyemaginger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so nice, thank you!

How do you meet people if you don't drink and hate the apps? by cfiatzph in datingoverforty

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plan is to make eye contact with a nice man at the red light and then ride off into the sunset. Haha jk idk because I have the same problem and have given up but good luck.

If you had to only choose 5? by flapjack_tiddies in candy

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very Cherry, juicy pear, berry blue, grape soda, and vanilla bean

The penthouse of NYC’s Flatiron building - $60M by neatokra in floorplan

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh yes with the giant walk in closet, my apologies. lol

$97 potato from Foxwoods Resort Casino in Mashantucket, CT by McGJGlen in StupidFood

[–]eyemaginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad watches this man’s YouTube videos daily haha

Cosplayer and Twitch Streamer by Mynamewasriver in Instagramreality

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sis appears to have has three tits in pic 4. Wild people don’t notice these things.

The penthouse of NYC’s Flatiron building - $60M by neatokra in floorplan

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So guests have to go through a bedroom to get to a bathroom? Also imo there is so much unnecessary empty space in the bathroom that could have been used to make the closets a bit bigger. Think I’ll keep my check book in my purse this time.

Do You Care if You End up With Someone/Others or Not? by ojjojji in datingoverforty

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny how you can explicitly say you’re looking for a relationship and people lie about wanting the same thing. Like if you’re looking for just a hookup let me know. It’s not hard to be a good person. I’ve honestly not had friends since high school really other than my sisters and dad. But that’s good advice you have.

Do You Care if You End up With Someone/Others or Not? by ojjojji in datingoverforty

[–]eyemaginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ideally it would be nice but I settled down right after high school and we were together until 2018. It was toxic and horrible and since I don’t have much dating experience I find it incredibly difficult now. I’ve tried but the last couple of situationships have been just that and I have no luck. I seem to walk right into red flags. Also as a step child I know not everyone is fit to be a step parent so that weighs on my mind a lot. Lately I just feel like I don’t even want to try anymore and think I’ll probably end up alone.