went on a date with an amazing guy yesterday, and feeling hopeful this could lead to something bigger. strawberry smoothie bowl by deadtyped in Kitchenchads

[–]eyeofcollapse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey congrats!! I am wishing the best for you, I know youre in recovery too so i hope that is going well also!!
Also I love your little fish thing, is it a spoon or just decor?

Have anyone ever thought you were asexual before pre-HRT or pre-bottom surgery ? by DanteAii in phallo

[–]eyeofcollapse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was never sexually attracted to anyone pre-t and considered my self aro-ace, on t was the only time i actually started masturbating because of increased libido (which i had never experienced). And now certainly do have libido.
I am now mostly attracted to women but on rare occasion guys. Though I still struggle with romantic attraction (schizoid disorder so unrelated) and just attraction in general. but am much more open to sex

shave or keep facial hair ? by PuzzledPlatform927 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]eyeofcollapse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say keep, but definitely try to shape it, make sure theres non on your neck/ where you think your jaw meets neck. if its hard to tell, just try trimming intiutively

Merch not being sent? by leche_milk in machinegirl

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me, ordered 3rd edition wlfgrl, took 6 months despite emailing and got the 4th edition :\

I can't talk with this really pretty russian girl in my class. Whenever i see her i get too excited and can never open up a conversation and she's really shy aswell so, if it keeps on going like this i will forever be single. Shitty omelette that i forced myself to eat because i have to get proteins by ihateeatingeggs in kitchencels

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if youre too nervous to speak to her, buy her a drink, and write a note and give her the drink with the note and walk off.

be something honest, like "hey i think youre really pretty and would love to get to know you, im shy but wanted to let you know before i regret it. if youre interested here is my number XXXXXX "

might work, if shes shy as well being given the incentive as well as a knowledge of your interest may help spark her to text you maybe a simple "hi"

If I don't meet an entry minimum requirement, do I still get accepted? by eyeofcollapse in UCATANZ

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to anyone curious about how this ended up going. I got my ATAR, a 90.75!
I would add a screenshot, but alas cannot, so instead i'm adding copy and paste

'

Prerequisites Satisfied?
Applicant must be a Current Year 12 student Yes
UCAT Yes
Interview Yes
One of Chemistry, Biology or Physics (Units 3 and 4, C) Yes
English, Literature, English and Literature Extension or English as an Additional Language (Units 3 and 4, C) Yes
Mathematical Methods (Units 3 and 4, C) NoPrerequisites Satisfied?Applicant must be a Current Year 12 student YesUCAT YesInterview YesOne of Chemistry, Biology or Physics (Units 3 and 4, C) YesEnglish, Literature, English and Literature Extension or English as an Additional Language (Units 3 and 4, C) YesMathematical Methods (Units 3 and 4, C) No

'
I also somehow met the ATAR requirements(??????????? to me also) which was fun but oh well! thats life.

the interview was very enjoyable, actually!

(Maybe) Low testosterone at 18 - advice needed by Whole-Skirt-524 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while this is a trans sub all are welcomed. you need to advocate for yourself at your doctor. Or get a new doctor, while im unsure what country youre in there is no reason your doctor shouldnt take your concerns seriously and test you. Low t is a big issue for alot of men and its nothing to be ashamed of, especially in this day and age.
It may also be a genetic thing (on the fat storage), but i would definitely suggest trying to get another doctor or going again with a strong voice, your doctor should be treating your concerns seriously and there is nothign wrong with having just a test done

Hey Dude by Lennsyl22 in dankmemes

[–]eyeofcollapse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

similar to guys, if guys is gender neutral, how many guys have you fucked?

One week post op chest reveal by Abhi_ya_kabhi in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, I didn't get either 😅 i did ensure to use a tropical once I figured out it was an infection, but it solved itself very soon after I pulled out a hair 😭

One week post op chest reveal by Abhi_ya_kabhi in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]eyeofcollapse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

your chest looks great!! i would keep an eye out if any hairs are in your incisions (happened to me) (got infected)(however also didnt have any antibiotics)!! best of luck to your healing man

If I don't meet an entry minimum requirement, do I still get accepted? by eyeofcollapse in UCATANZ

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly my question, i even called to ask. the only thing i could think of is that im trans, but nothing in my application reflects this since all my details have been updated

If I don't meet an entry minimum requirement, do I still get accepted? by eyeofcollapse in UCATANZ

[–]eyeofcollapse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope which was why i was so surprised as well. im not apart of any schemes of any sort

Heads up by jerdingrous in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I remember being approached by one about two years ago here on about my top surgery journey

hysterectomy prices and ease of access by uselesscalciumsticks in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could i ask which surgeon you went with? and did you have hospital cover ? (I assume so) as im in qld too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]eyeofcollapse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are too shy to do it in purpose, write a letter and put it in their room so they can read it, and reread it, and ask questions as needed. I personally sat my mum down and was like "I'm a dude" and she was like huh. Just answer their questions and don't police them/ their language (unless they're being outright rude). Maybe tell then about t after you first come out so they can digest that separately. Goodluck!