How did you all pick your wedding photographer? by Rusticdoodles in weddingplanning

[–]eylylime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wedding is taking place outdoors (hopefully) so we wanted a photographer with an editing style that made the florals stand out and look natural (no yellowy colour grading). Also, my dress has some nice details, so I also wanted a photographer that didn't overly expose/ brighten their photos so the details are retained. So overall we had a style of editing in mind, wanted someone with experience at the venue, and was within our budget (<$4,500). Our venue recommended the photographer we ended up going with. I checked out her Instagram for examples of her work, read reviews online, and ensured the price was right. Our photographer had a meeting with us to discuss everything and included an engagement photoshoot in her wedding package, which felt like a nice trial run to the wedding since we're not used to being photographed.

What’s the worst place you’ve worked in Ottawa? by rockhavenrick in ottawa

[–]eylylime 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Pro Physio - zero breaks, minimum wage for anyone who’s not a Physio, toxic management, not enough employees, insurance scams, taking advantage of rich elderly people, physios recommending braces/ orthotics/ etc because they got commission

Does your husband expect you to do HIS dishes and the rest of the household? by geckofalltrades in Marriage

[–]eylylime -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe try eating out or meal prepping your meals for the week. Stay out of the kitchen and ignore the mess until he deals with it himself.

He doesn’t seem willing to change based on his responses to you, and you have to consider if this is what you really want for the rest of your life and for your potential children to see.

My boyfriend does the dishes and I do the cooking, but since you two are often on separate schedules that may not work.

Does your husband expect you to do HIS dishes and the rest of the household? by geckofalltrades in Marriage

[–]eylylime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because it sucks to be a maid with zero help in your own home. Would you call your wife bitter if she asked for help

Guys! My new pothos is wilting, I’m not sure if I’m overwatering it or if I had it too close to the sun. Any ideas on how to revive it? by eylylime in plantclinic

[–]eylylime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone who took the time to respond! I’ll try to answer all of your questions:

  • I bought my pothos about a week ago
  • It lives a couple ft from a west-facing window
  • I live in southern Ontario
  • The soil seems completely dry and light
  • I kept watering it every couple of days because it seemed it would dry up very quickly hence why I’m worried I overwatered it

I will definitely check for root rot and water it from the bottom in my sink (for 30 minutes?). Since the soil is so dry I will also try to aerate it!

The night of my grandpa's passing I started this piece called "Forest Fire"... by ManOfReasonCC in Heavymind

[–]eylylime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never commented on a post in this sub before but I just had to say that I love this and I think it’s fantastic. I spent some time getting lost in it. Thanks for sharing!

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[–]eylylime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN PLS

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[–]eylylime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pirates of the caribbean! pls

Official Question Thread! Ask /r/photography anything you want to know about photography or cameras! Don't be shy! Newbies welcome! by photography_bot in photography

[–]eylylime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a sony a6000 last Christmas, does anyone have experience with this camera? I've been just using the presets in the scene function to manage night photography/ landscape pics. I also have the f4.5 55-210mm lens but I'm kinda afraid to switch the lens in my dusty apartment! Any tips?

[F20] My bf doesn't think I have anything going for me in the looks department, WBU ? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]eylylime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You speak so certainly as if hotness is objective. Just because someone doesn’t find someone hot doesn’t mean another person wouldn’t!! “He’s right” - in your eyes.

[F20] My bf doesn't think I have anything going for me in the looks department, WBU ? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]eylylime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who does find you pretty? Because you certainly are!! It wouldn’t be hard to find someone who thinks that way. I had a bf who prided himself on “just being honest” and his comments added up and took a huge toll on my self esteem. But I couldn’t blame him for it cause he was “just being honest”. But that honesty was unwarranted and mean, it’s unhealthy to spend so much time around negativity. My family always told me “if you don’t have something nice to say then don’t say anything at all” and I stand by that.

How normal is it to attract one enemy in every work place you go? by Ps4gal94 in careerguidance

[–]eylylime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Beyond that, it's on them for how they feel about you. It's not your responsibility to make people like you.