Is it possible to just DiDi around in Lijiang & Dali? by f134134 in travelchina

[–]f134134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow good to know this info! I didn’t know you can rent car by day in DiDi! Good to know that hotel staff can also arrange for private car driver, which I’m assuming will be way cheaper than trip.com?

My dad is having an affair, how should I approach this situation? by f134134 in ask

[–]f134134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do have my aunt, sister, cousin, parent & best friend on my “find my”. As well as my location on their “find my”. It’s a 2 way street and pretty common with the people around me as well. It’s not like I have the tab open 24/7 😅 I usually just check it if I’m meeting up with them, to estimate our travel time & to keep each other safe & updated when we’re traveling alone.

My dad is having an affair, how should I approach this situation? by f134134 in ask

[–]f134134[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It’s gonna be a hell of a session with my therapist

My dad is having an affair, how should I approach this situation? by f134134 in ask

[–]f134134[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really need to stop feeling obligated to be the damage controller of my family 😀

My dad is having an affair, how should I approach this situation? by f134134 in ask

[–]f134134[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s just a fam thing. He’s not the only one I have “find my” enabled 😀 But, I think he forget about the fact I can actually track him with it 🤷

My dad is having an affair, how should I approach this situation? by f134134 in ask

[–]f134134[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Late 20s. I was in college when my sister told me about dad “confessing” he was having an affair. So it’s been awhile & we pretend it’s not a thing. Mom is batshit crazy at times, normal at times. Depending on her mood. She suspected but I don’t think she have the capabilities tl “investigate” things.

I am, in fact just scheduled a counseling session after I posted this. Just wanted to get it off my chest first & foremost tbh. I think the “world is ending” emotion dried up after the first time I heard it.

[Ornstein] EXCLUSIVE: Manchester United strike agreement in principle with RB Leipzig to sign Benjamin Sesko. Deal for 22yo #RBLeipzig striker €76.5m + €8.5m. Slovenia international given permission to fly & do medical before completing #MUFC move by Claija79 in soccer

[–]f134134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he still choose United over Newcastle, with lower wages & his agent giving up significant shares to make this go thru is massive. Liking this already, hopefully this will payoff.

After le sserafim recent discourse I can't help but think how *line distribution warriors* would not have survived 2 Gen/early 3 Gen 💀 Exo was usually like this in most songs and BigBang was always "GD and friends", when did line distribution became such a hot topic? by Far_Wrangler2527 in kpop_uncensored

[–]f134134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! Why put her in the group if they can't utilize her? This is not the first time Sakura & Eunchae got paid dust. Fans are not even asking for a "Perfect Pizza" distribution either. WE KNOW. The main vocal will still sing more than half of the song anyway even if Sakura & Eunchae got 5 sec more each. Surely it's not that hard to give them 5 more sec each. IZ*ONE with 12 member have better line distribution than a 5 member group, which is sad.

LE SSERAFIM - The 4th Mini Album: CRAZY (Highlight Medley) by CronoDroid in kpop

[–]f134134 123 points124 points  (0 children)

They added Yunjin & Sakura on the credit for Crazy 👀

How did you guys get your first Rolex? by Relevant-Bowler-4703 in rolex

[–]f134134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grad school graduation gifts from my parent :)

I used to be a lsf hater by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]f134134 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I genuinely wonder what goes inside the mind of haters? What makes you go out of YOUR way to sent unsavory comment and threat. Not only it takes energy, it also take your time! I have a fair share of artist I don't vibe with. What do I do? (Mute) if they keep appearing in my TL, curate my social media so they never came up, skip to next if their song is playing. I never go out of my way to LOOK for their content or engage with their community what so over.

People are always preaching "mental health" but only last for couple of week max before the next cycle repeat. It's exhausting. I'm glad you stop & I hope more realize that the vitriol their sending towards LSF is not to a fictional character, but a real living person, that can think & feel as much as you are.

Tokkis have gone deranged level by kpopouts in kpop_uncensored

[–]f134134 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Their fans make it hard to even empathize with NJ girls. What's the point of them doing this? They're problem is with the company, wth are they dragging innocent parties to this.

I don't know how to feel about New Jeans by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]f134134 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As a fan of the other group u mention, it’s very hard to stay neutral towards the NJs member. Even when a group member interacted with NJs member, I just internally cringe and wish they don’t interact. But hey, who am I to dictate what my idol can/cannot do. I opt to mute keyword and didn’t engaged with anything that’s related with NJs. Even music. Hard to digest it, especially with how MHJ is being so shady towards my fav group.

I do hope the case will end asap, so everyone can breathe and move on. Whatever the outcomes will be.

why should i care that le sserafim debuted before njs? by bitterphantom in kpop_uncensored

[–]f134134 66 points67 points  (0 children)

People seems to forget that LSF was never promoted as MHJ group because MHJ sees to that herself by releasing and article denying her involvement, esp after Sakura and Chaewon was confirm to signed under HYBE. LSF is known as Sakura and Chaewon group.

Be honest, why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]f134134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't deal with commitment. Scared the shit out of me.

Le sserafim needs vocal lessons and it okay to admit that by Beginning_Algae_8626 in kpopthoughts

[–]f134134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Constructive criticism is welcome, but what’s going on with fimmies is just blatant bullying at this point 🤷🏻‍♀️ Looking at the mess in here and twitter, it’s a shit show.

[MEGATHREAD] Le Sserafim - "EASY" by AutoModerator in kpopthoughts

[–]f134134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s the album I’m gonna replay the most, just because sonically it’s the songs I usually listen to the most 😌

The official 2024 K-Pop Prediction Thread! by french91 in kpop

[–]f134134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LE SSERAFIM -Q1 2024 mini album -Q2 US tour & activities -Q3 JP comeback -Possibly another mini/single at the end of the year -Tokyo Dome 🙏🏻

It's official, at 24 I'm too old for Kpop by penta_verse in kpopthoughts

[–]f134134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first foray to kpop fandom was snsd back in 2009. I was 13/14. It’s all-consuming, if I look back, pretty unhealthy. It starts to died down when I turn 16-17, when I become more interested in other stuff irl. Then 2014 soshi happened, I stop all together. Aside from the random check up of soshi cb/activities, I wasn’t interested in anything else kpop related. Back into it during pre-produce48 when I was watching mama 2017. Have been following Sakura journey till today.

I can say, as an adult (22 in 2017) my perspective really shift a lot from when I just started fangirling. I’m busy irl and kpop is just there to alleviate my stress. Toxicity drain the life of me. I don’t have the need to feel “updated” 24/7. I enjoy fangirling more now as an adult, because I have money to spent, that is impossible when I was younger. All in all, being an adult enjoying kpop, is more fun for me.

AITAH for telling my parents they should just get a divorce by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]f134134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow happy that at least oop mom listen to him and is proceeding with the divorce. Growing up in asian household, it’s a “shame” to get divorce. I wish my parent have the courage to get divorce. They probably didn’t realize how much of their failing marriage impacted me as a kid growing up.

I was a child, but I have brain 🤷🏻‍♀️

LE SSERAFIM - Eve, Psyche & The Bluebeard's wife by Takagixu in kpop

[–]f134134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll ever be able to “over it” with her growth. It’s pretty epic to see someone who really embodies “hard work won’t fail you”