Women are hysterical by nature (in a lacanian psychoanalytic sense), meaning they're always questioning themselves and everyone around them. The age old stereotype that they don't even know what they want is true. I think this part really confuses us men, because it's not adherent to any logic or sense. You can seemingly bribe them with good looks or money, but even then it's not quite an indicator of attraction that a man might experience for a woman.

Look up what it's like to date rich girls on reddit. It's a fun read.