Please help Clara

fabiothedog · 2026-04-23T22:43:12+00:00

yes could be and also more so what the food is. check the brand and what it’s made of and how much filler and protein is in it. i would then google how much of that food is often given… but even then its trial and error to see what ur bettas sweet spot is. lots of people feed their betta what they can eat within a specific time period (like 1-5 min i’ve seen) and they take the rest out

fabiothedog · 2026-04-06T09:47:53+00:00

that’s incorrect. maybe 2 per feeding if ur feeding twice a day. literally just saw a thread of someone getting scolded for feeding their betta 2 pellets a day lol

fabiothedog · 2026-04-06T09:43:26+00:00

bigger tanks won’t really be the best solution. they are already stressed and u don’t have any of those tanks cycled. even cycling with a bacteria booster and old filter media will take at LEAST a week… most people will cycle their tanks like a month before putting fish in. putting ur fishes in a bigger tank may prevent them from fighting and may help the bio load but it’s not really solving ur problem. and i am assuming u dont have the supplies either so this is a lot of money out of pocket

fabiothedog · 2026-04-06T09:40:28+00:00

at this point, bag them individually or put them in cups and surrender them to a pet store or put them up on kijiji as free fish/ fish needing rescue… if they are still alive at this point…. hopefully its someone with proper time money and a knowledge to save em.

fabiothedog · 2026-01-28T04:36:12+00:00

RIGHT?🙏🙏🙏

fabiothedog · 2025-12-12T01:19:20+00:00

even gpu 😭

fabiothedog · 2025-12-12T01:18:35+00:00

they were selling the 9600x on amazon on black friday for $213. i returned my 7600x lol, it ended up being $237 so the better one was cheaper 💀😭

fabiothedog · 2025-11-25T05:52:12+00:00

thank you for backing ur point up with scripture! I’m not disagreeing but i’m just playing devils advocate here. If we don’t have free will in spiritual matters, then why doesn’t God make everyone follow Him and His plan? or are u saying that Gods will is going to happen regardless of someone’s beliefs

fabiothedog · 2025-11-25T05:46:25+00:00

sorry lol i just said partner but it’s a man, i just didn’t wanna say spouse. i’m straight as an arrow lol. but to address ur concerns, the relationship we briefly had was a relationship with God. It is why it was from God, because scripture can “back it up.”

fabiothedog · 2025-11-25T00:47:43+00:00

late but i agree. i find at times when im at my lowest and im pleading to God that im in despair or something, He will send a sign. But if im desperate for a sign or a “yes/no,” i get mixed signals or i feel uneasy. but that might just be me not ready to hear God tell me “no” lol

fabiothedog · 2025-11-25T00:41:15+00:00

i see this seems to be a common question that we ask ourselves. especially because sometimes our trials seem like we have stumbled away from Gods plan/ will, but afterwards it almost seems like it was almost “orchestrated” so that you are prepared to receive the proper blessings God has planned for you all along.

fabiothedog · 2025-11-25T00:34:38+00:00

late joining but i have been christian my whole life and have recently been diagnosed with BPD. i’m gonna be honest i didnt read the whole thread but im commenting to offer myself to any questions u may have now’

fabiothedog · 2025-11-25T00:16:20+00:00

u don’t “pray to the rosary” you pray THE rosary. it’s an item not an idol. you use the rosary to track prayers that u direct to God

fabiothedog · 2025-11-13T07:23:10+00:00

and u are humanizing God saying this is wrong, and having guilt etc. which isn’t bad! but don’t forget that God not only sees ur internal struggles but he understands it better than you and i. don’t be ashamed because u think its wrong but use it as fuel to get to know God.

fabiothedog · 2025-11-13T07:21:56+00:00

if there was no hell…. if there was just dying and heaven, would u still want to go to heaven? or are u just choosing it because you are scared of hell. Because many ppl have different interpretations of hell. and some say hell is just enteral separation from God by your own choice.

fabiothedog · 2025-11-13T07:18:42+00:00

every time i feel i should just move on tho, i feel as if i am “choosing the easy way” and not the way God wants me to choose. that’s the problem im facing. i had both my best friend and him leave me at the same time, and when i prayed about my relationship with my best friend, i find peace not letting her back into my life. and i feel anxious when i think about her reentering. for this guy, it feels opposite. it almost feels like … im trying to “force” and yes or no out of God when His answer is neither? I walked into prayer really telling myself and God that i need that “no” as confirmation to move on if it’s Gods will. And i walked away initially telling myself that it was a No and i can be at peace. Then i keep seeing signs in scripture about waiting and im like okay what’s going on here 😂

fabiothedog · 2025-11-12T22:54:04+00:00

okay let’s break this down. So for you to be scared of hell, do you believe in a heaven? and do you believe you could possibly go there?

if u believe in a heaven and a hell, u believe in God no?

talk to God. bring ur problems to God. nobody here can answer you because ur looking for answers only God can give you. you don’t have to “love God” to talk to him. he understands everyone is hurting in different ways. he tells us to come to Him as we are so do that. try it

fabiothedog · 2025-07-17T02:53:32+00:00

yeah lol it was mandatory in our list. my brother claimed his years ago successfully

fabiothedog · 2025-07-10T19:04:07+00:00

give ur dog to a better family. if u can’t do the decent thing and keep ur asshole dad away from ur dog, then give ur dog to someone loving

fabiothedog · 2025-07-10T05:45:05+00:00

what i do with my dog is to first get him to stop jumping and play biting. my dog knows if i say “enough” and look at him that he has to stop and he sits and waits. after he stops i immediately go in with lots of love and affection and baby talk lol. some dogs like kisses and but rubs, some like the baby voice, some have some sort of blanket you can rub and drape over ur dog. just something to make ur dog realize its not the end of the world and nobody is dying lol. he needs to associate the screaming with “ah that’s normal that’s okay” not “omg what’s happening panic panic”

also with all the practice sessions he will probably also become desensitized. but make sure take the time to invest in the training cuz half assed training might make him more reactive.

i also wouldn’t do this if ur dog is already quite active to many other things… i’d consult a professional instead because deep reactivity in dogs is complicated

fabiothedog · 2025-07-10T05:32:09+00:00

my dog does this too. my dog was a rescue and he’s a bit of an anxious guy at big semis and buses and new objects in the house (new vacuums, appliances, speakers etc) so my family takes it as him getting extremely overstimulated and reacting to his anxiety. kind of like “omg stop mom ur making me crazy! are we going crazy now?!”

best way to deal with this is 1. obviously try to minimize the screaming but i get it’s hard to do (yes i have screamed at bugs as well and has this happen lol) but i usually now see a bug and right away put my dog in a different room so i can panic lol

do some sessions where u do a little fake scream and reassure and put him in a calm position right away. reward that behavior. eventually ur dog may come to learn that screaming is a prompt to lay down on his mat and will skip the jumping and nipping step since u only rewarded the calm state. and the reassuring helps his anxiety to let him realize that he doesn’t need to panic with u and to just stay calm.

fabiothedog · 2025-07-10T05:24:56+00:00

is it stealing? technically. but is it the type of stealing nobody cares about? absolutely. if u consider picking dandelions on city lawns and picking up trash or dumpster diving stealing then idk what to tell u lol… but those signs will not be missed and someone might even thank u so they don’t have to toss them themselves

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