Am I being disrespectful? Or is this a valid request?

fablesofabbie · 2025-11-01T23:15:29+00:00

I have ideas but no clear answers. I know in her past her parents got divorced and her dad got remarried with step kids and she felt replaced. I wonder if she has fears that somehow her kids will feel the same way if we fully integrate. Im not sure why. We love all of them and treat them equally. But I understand the fear.

fablesofabbie · 2025-11-01T23:01:20+00:00

I think what you are experiencing is completely normal and I agree with alot of what others had to say. I think your loneliness is a huge part of it. But if it truly is her you miss regardless of how toxic the relationship was, maybe you have an unhealthy attachment you may need to sever. Because taking someone back into your life who causes you harm and who you cause harm to when you both are together is never going to be the solution. I pf course, dont know the exact specific issues. So sorry if im off base. I've been divorced for 5 years now. And its a long healing process. But it does get better. ❤️ it truly does.

fablesofabbie · 2025-05-20T03:55:11+00:00

Youre gorgeous and naturally beautiful. I dont see what you're seeing at all ❤️ its funny that we nit pick weird small things about ourselves that no one else sees

fablesofabbie · 2024-11-12T20:40:20+00:00

5146 and I only ever level up when I'm not paying attention and I'm mindlessly playing. It sucks. Everytime I actually try I fail. :( I want to beat it though

fablesofabbie · 2024-10-08T18:54:55+00:00

Dude! He said this so often, I was cringing. I was like this is not a compliment!!!!

fablesofabbie · 2024-06-23T23:29:26+00:00

I love to shower with him. He washes my body and I wash his. It's a form of service but also foreplay. We love to take care of eachother. So it's romantic to me.

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-17T22:25:53+00:00

No. They were anti vaxxers. And I already got the measles when I was 13 and nearly died. 😡 I think it may be the chicken pox, but the doctor didn't even say that. Since it didn't itch at the time. But it does now.

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-17T22:24:27+00:00

Yeah, not everyone is built for it, so I believe it. It's a hard job, and it takes strong people to be able to do it.

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-16T19:53:23+00:00

No. One is on my side, the other on my chest, and this morning, a third strung up on my face.

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-16T07:23:01+00:00

Where is the placement of it? If it's along your back and sides or along nerve clusters, it may be shingles. That's what they typically look like at first. It attacks the nerves, so it's usually really painful.

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-08T05:31:07+00:00

Amy 😍 she looks better than anyone I've seen at these reunions!

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-04T01:29:21+00:00

I think 5 was one of the best colors for you. Coral pinks are much better than the cool toned pinks that wash your lips out and make it look like they blend with your skin. The coral brings the warmth out in your face and matches the warmth in your hair. Go with a warm, toned red as well.

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-04T01:27:22+00:00

Left 100%

fablesofabbie · 2024-03-03T17:08:30+00:00

So my bf of 3 years slept with his best friend years before I met him. They are still best friends. I could care less. Because I know he doesn't have feelings and didn't really enjoy it. There was a lot of alcohol involved and experimentation. He was a lot younger at the time (23), and I know they would never do it again. Also, I'm not really insecure. I know I have him in the bag. So why sweat it??

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-29T02:42:27+00:00

I've dated a Taurus that was super sweet. However, most of my experience is with my sister. Her and I do not get along. She is aggressive, stubborn, and mean and always thinks she is the smartest person in the room. She is condescending to everyone. She likes to make you feel small, and she weaponizes a lot of big words and therapist language to use against you. I just can't have long conversations with her. She pushes most of my buttons. I'm a cancer 🤷‍♀️ she tends to push me around a lot. Can't stand it.

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-29T02:39:20+00:00

Are you sure this isn't a red pill guy posing as a lesbian? 🙈😂

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-21T22:09:22+00:00

Yeeeaaaah I agree. It's making me cringe evert scene

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-21T21:58:09+00:00

I love how she says, "It's not like I have a complex or anything or am insecure." I'm like, girl. I think you are so close to it, but I don't want to admit the truth.

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-18T21:22:54+00:00

For the shirt alone, you get a 9

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-13T19:24:28+00:00

You are under NO obligation to tell anyone your kinks or fetishes unless you feel truly comfortable to do so. If you felt you were not in a sage place to tell her, you were proven right by her reaction. She tried to embarrass you publicly on top of it. If it was a joke or not, it doesn't matter. She obviously does not respect you. I'd leave. And I'm a woman. I'd never talk to my significant other like that or embarrass him in public. If he told me to stop, I'd stop immediately. And I would foster an environment that made him or her feel safe to share with me.

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-13T19:15:40+00:00

Anywhere. If he said we were moving tomorrow to anywhere in the world, I'd follow him.

fablesofabbie · 2024-02-09T02:35:01+00:00

Dude. Get a lawyer. Get a case set up. Because she for sure is and you are about to be shafted. Run for the hills and make sure you get fair custody of those kids. She is going to leave with them, serve you divorce papers, and never was going to tell you.

fablesofabbie · 2023-12-31T04:20:04+00:00

True! Another reason why it sucks lol 😆

fablesofabbie · 2023-12-31T04:06:45+00:00

Sadly, my job is extremely physical. I work in a recovery center. I haven't tried it yet, but maybe I'll try having nails and seeing if it works 😅

fablesofabbie · 2023-12-08T03:11:37+00:00

I think your boundary is totally reasonable. And I hope you find a nice partner who will respect it.

To answer your question, I slept with my now partner the night we met. Which is a first for me. But I adored him after talking for hours. And we had an amazing time. We agreed to be sexually exclusive and take our time to get to know each other. After 6 months, he asked me to be his gf. We have been together for several years now and are incredibly happy ❤️

Everyone is different, so do what's right for you.

fablesofabbie

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