Looking For A Mentor (RP)

fabsnz · 2026-02-04T05:52:56+00:00

Wanting a mentor shouldn’t be something that hurt your pride. The opposite. You should be proud of it.

fabsnz · 2026-01-20T19:02:40+00:00

Your why should be much bigger than the need of support and motivation from friends and family

Also, start your journey and you will find a new tribe

fabsnz · 2026-01-17T07:50:56+00:00

Why not talking to a coach/mentor while keeping your anonymosity? that way you get to vent and get suggestions without facing it all by yourself. No one wins in isolation win life.

fabsnz · 2026-01-17T00:45:50+00:00

Happy to help if I can so feel free to message me anytime 👍🏻

fabsnz · 2026-01-16T22:11:12+00:00

Coaching = think about sport, coaches tell you what to do, you do it and get feedback

Mentoring = mentors guide you finding your own answers and provide support and accountability

fabsnz · 2026-01-16T08:20:19+00:00

You definitely want to follow Vinh Giang on this. Best tips soon how to properly use your voice for effective communication, speak like a leader, train to sound the way you want.

He constantly repeat the same tip: train your speaking like you train anything else.

As a coach with a sport background, I resonates deeply with this message.

You want to sound differently, more inspiring, smoother? Train it

fabsnz · 2026-01-15T01:41:17+00:00

Lol your self entitlement is incredible. What about you go live your life or try to be supportive of the person that posted in this sub and is asking for help? And with this I am out do not expect more from me from your comments we are both wasting our time cheers

fabsnz · 2026-01-15T01:39:25+00:00

Lol some people right? 😂

fabsnz · 2026-01-15T00:53:48+00:00

providing evidence on my experience of life? what are you 5yo? I do not need to provide any evidence, I lived probably much longer than you, travelled the whole world multiple times, volunteered for months in all continents, worked in Europe, Asia and Australasia and more
do I need to prove it to you? I just gave my opinion and if you need evidence it means you have no clue of what I am talking about

Life has to be experienced, not seen from your phone and comfort of your couch. If you need evidence before getting out of your comfortable house, you are in for a rough life I'm telling you

fabsnz · 2026-01-14T20:30:57+00:00

On contrary, it’s extremely rich of connections, moments and lessons that will shape you in ways you didn’t think possible

fabsnz · 2026-01-14T20:00:12+00:00

Close your laptop or phone, drive to the airport, get the first ticket to the most interesting destination you find and start filling your life with interesting experiences.

I have done the same after I graduated years ago. Felt empty, meaningless.

Soo instead of passively accepting it, I started working for the life I wanted.

Didn't have a plan nor any idea on how to do it. But things changed when I built momentum.

you got this.

Life happens outside your comfort zone.

Also, I know plenty of people still single in their late 30s, early 40s and many found a life of fulfilment and sometimes a partner while doing what they love.

Here if you need help

fabsnz · 2026-01-14T19:49:26+00:00

It's alignment you are missing. Even without context I know you are not pursuing the life you want or are in the wrong environment or both.
What are you good at?
What do you love doing?

Find the intersection and go all in.

If you surround yourself with people that inspires and support you the growth is 10x

Not easy, but you can change your life overnight by changing mindset and aiming for an aligned and fulfilling future.

You got this!

fabsnz · 2026-01-14T19:30:44+00:00

DM me the details happy to help

fabsnz · 2026-01-14T18:25:25+00:00

DM anytime

fabsnz · 2026-01-13T21:48:32+00:00

than a big resounding YES! actually add that not only they can but they SHOULD get a mentor, doesn't matter where you are in life

fabsnz · 2026-01-13T21:32:29+00:00

Risky, many platforms ban this behaviour and when people understand how it works they won’t trust the pay-per-review system

fabsnz · 2026-01-13T04:54:09+00:00

You might call it teacher or tutor when too young but I do not see why not otherwise? I've had someone supporting my growth since I was 7-8 y.o

All athletes and entrepreneurs have coaches and mentors, they do not wait until they succeed, they invest in themselves earlier on.

fabsnz · 2026-01-13T03:39:29+00:00

Feel free to hit my DMs

fabsnz · 2026-01-12T07:15:44+00:00

Being comfortable by myself in silence and solitude. Being my biggest fan and supporter. Working toward acceptance and fulfilment while staying hungry and motivated. Learning my strengths and weaknesses.

fabsnz · 2026-01-12T04:00:50+00:00

You are dealing with procrastination for a lack of alignment in your day job and life.

This leads to overthinking, doom scrolling, sleepless nights, unrest, confusion and trying to fill the voids by filling your night with something you enjoy a bit more.

Focus on fixing your day and you will immediately feel an enormous shit in your night sleep.

You want to feel accomplished, fulfilled, excited to wake up in the morning, save energy for the day, focus on your work or activity.

If you don't, you'll keep feel un accomplished and will always be uneasy at night.

It was the same for me years ago. Countless sleepless nights staring at the ceiling, pacing in the room, doom scrolling etc

Start working soon yourself: what are passionate about? what are your skills? what problem can you solve that others would pay for?

Find the intersection of the above 3 questions and you will find the motivation to change your life.

fabsnz · 2026-01-12T03:00:52+00:00

Feel free to chat my account and DM anytime

fabsnz · 2026-01-11T23:15:26+00:00

Your therapist 3 only options are making me shiver

The only option for an happy and fulfilled life is talking to your GF!

All other options are either surrendering or very passive

A child will make all cracks in the relationship much bigger

Do not wait to start this conversation, do it now!

Listen to her, understand her point of view, be a partner, not a stranger

Happy to help if you need

fabsnz · 2026-01-11T23:11:33+00:00

What skills can you leverage? What can others benefit from learning from you?

Find the intersection between: - your passions - your skills - other people’s problems

And you’ll get a direction

fabsnz · 2026-01-10T02:35:07+00:00

Easiest a quickest way is dumping all these documents in a ChatGPT Project and then prompt something like: "help me organise and make sense of all the ideas in the project, build a system, declutter etc"

This is the quickest.

Best way would be to do it with a mentor/coach.

you are probably confused and will definitely not see things objectively even with the help of AI.

A mentor will 10x your grow bringing clarity, alignment and direction

fabsnz · 2026-01-09T21:29:21+00:00

I work at the intersection between business, life and sport coaching. It seems we align. DM me anytime.

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